When would you want your ex girlfriend to tell you she's pregnant with your baby?

Question

I have 2 childhood friends I grew up with we'll call them Jack and Jill. A few months ago Jack brought Jill to his place in Arizona from Nevada to stay and visit with them.👫

So things happened and they started having sex and catching feelings.💑 She was there for 2 months until they started fighting and now they aren't speaking to each other.🤬

But Jill has been pregnant before 3 times and knows her body.🤢 She told me she thinks she's pregnant despite the fact she had a tubaligation 20 years ago. She also had a tubal pregnancy 2 years ago.😳

I told her no way because it's rare for a woman to get pregnant after a tubaligation unless the doc messed up.😦

Today she sent me a pic of a pregnancy test she took that says she is pregnant.😲
Now she trying to figure out if she should tell him now or wait till she confirms the pregnancy and it's not a Tubal pregnancy?🤔

Guy's, what would you want?

shortster · Accepted Answer

If it were me, I'd want to know as soon as a doctor confirms the pregnancy.

mT2359 · Accepted Answer

Before I have moved on...

Zarapeachy · Answer

She should wait and confirm before telling the guy but she should tell the guy.. regardless of his reaction

Jjpayne · Answer

I think its an important time in a man's life. I guess it depends on where he is and what he is doing. Its the classic reaction to jungle 2 jungle. You see that kid, yeah yeah, the divorce papers... but that kid, that's your son... I would think that Tim Allen's reaction is the reaction of most men. A mixture of something to be bothered with but at the end of the day, and the movie specifically, it is better to know your child and that you have a child than to be unaware of their existence. Now child support payments and parental visiting rights, while important should be placed on the back burner. The first time it's brought up, it should be a sensitive your a father conversation. Now to be fair, abortion should only be decided by the woman and I would say its fair for the guy to argue his case if she wants abortion but for him to encourage it, to me is a big no no. Overall, it should be a good thing and I believe it should be discussed as a good thing and not a burden. Something like that

cicchis0 · Answer

He doesn't need to know about it if she aborts it.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

She should tell him asap. With my ex and current girlfriend they told me relatively quickly. For me there's a tinge of regret that i didn't get to take the test with them. That moment of suspense waiting for the answer.