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Guys, when you first meet a girl who’s past her early 20’s, do you kinda assume she’s had both vag and anal sex by then?

Do you prefer that, or would you prefer someone who’s inexperienced in one or both?
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A few of us were sitting in a dorm room this week after getting back from holiday break. We talked about guys and relationships here (and at home) and how anal always seems to be lurking and inevitably comes up. We concluded that almost everyone here will at least try it before they graduate but may or may not come back to it again. Just wanted to see if guys had similar experiences or perceptions. Thanks for your replies.
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  • No I never assume a girl has had anal... but it is hot when the mystery is there and you make the move and she not only goes with it, but gets into it. But it does feel uncomfortable the first couple of times, so I have been told. Some just do not like and stop doing it altogether and other really develop a likeing for it... I have it go both ways. Of course I like the ones that really get into it... but vaginal sex is just as good so guys definably want both.

    But past 20 I assume she's not a virgin. And yes, heterosexual guys like to have anal sex with women. Anal is kind of the gold standard in sexual fantasy... and dudes find it hot when women like anal.

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  • I dont assume anything, everyone is different.
    And i dont care how much sex she got before me, as long as she enjoys it with me its good.
    It's satisfying to pleasure a girl who likes it when she got plenty of partners before. Also there is a chance she knows her body better and it'll be easier to communicate with her about what she likes.
    At the same time it's cute to have sex with a girl that has little to no experience cause you can teach her more easily.
    Both are fine i dont mind either one

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  • Vag yes. Anal, I don't presume. I love to be the first. I know how to do it comfortably so she doesn't fear it.

  • Maybe vaginal which would be normal. I would hope not anal.

    • I’ve never had the desire to even try anal. But I’m always interested in vaginal and yes, I wonder if a girl I meet has experienced the joys of vaginal intercourse. It’s a beautiful act and both sexes are naturally wired for it toward the opposite.

  • Yes, I assume most people, in general, have sex around 16-18. Women usually even sooner than that, since it's so much easier for them at that age.

    If she is an attractive to average woman in her 20's I would assume she is not a virgin.

    Now, the butt stuff, that depends. Some women like it, some don't. But regular sex, most 20-year-old women in today's society have had sex.

  • A lot of sluts nowadays, so it makes sense to assume that, I prefer non-sluts.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/MyGirlIsNotASlut

  • By that point in the day or in her whole life?

  • Yeah at your age, it is all so new and exciting to try new things.
    I remember trying it in my 20's because 'everyone did it'. Now, it is a topic that might come up and yes still do it. Some men and women love it, some hate it. I enjoy doing it and find it to be a nice alternative with a totally different feel, for both of us.

  • I never assume anybody has done anything, and I don't mind if they haven't ever done it, or if they have done it a million times. As long as they are open minded and willing to try new things.

  • i wouldn't assume anything though i might be surprised if she hadn't had vaginal sex

  • Vaginal likely anal far less so.

  • I would assume she's likely not a virgin, but that's the extent of it.

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