Definitely men. Women usually have a wide range of what they consider an "enjoyable" or "acceptable" size. And quite a few have told me they are okay with anything so long as it isn't a micro penis.
Meanwhile men discuss measuring methods girth, length, shape, curvature, cut vs uncut. Its a sensitive point for like all men. And no woman has ever shamed me for my penis size. Men however tend to be extremely aggressive when they discuss penis sizes.
It kinda reminds me of womens breasts. A lot of men myself included have almost no clue what the difference in D and DD is. And what the heck is the number for? What is the difference between a 34D and a 36D?
It seems like something women get really competitive with other women about where most men are ready to appreciate any and all boobs.
That's a good comparison.
Measurement round the rib cage in inches.
My female friends are always talking (esp when they've had a few glasses of wine!) about the time they tried to sleep with someone but he had a premature shrimp for a cock, or it was one of those 'is it in yet?' kinda situations.
Sure, guys think about it , but you just need to look up the average cock size and girth then for large for your ethnicity, and measure your junk. I don't suppose that's going to reassure those who... don't measure up (pun intended!), but maybe that's why they have short man syndrome?
Could be. Some guys might start acting more aggressively to make up for having less manliness in other areas.
IMHO, there's no 'could be' about it - you've just hit the nail on the head. It's not their (vertical!) height they are worried about. I've been playing ruby since I was about 7, and I'd say about 80% of the guys who are REALLY aggressive - almost suicidal when tackling someone, or loosing their shit on the field are nearly always (about 80% of the time) the guys under 5'10. Short men are SO competitive, it's annoying AF for those of us over 6ft because they have such a chip on their shoulder...
If you're referring to questions on this site about penis size, I would say guys focus more on penis size because many of them have concerns about their size and what women would think of it. If you mean in life in general, I would say women focus more on penis size because they want enjoyable sex with men. Penis size determines how good the sex could potentially be.
Guys 100% -- duhh!! They're OBSESSED with PENISES. Their PENIS, & other guys PENISES.
O-B-S-E-S-S-E-D !!!
Yes, it does seem that way. I never realized it was so bad until after I joined this site. I keep having to scroll through so many penis questions!
Yes, obsessed. They are simply obsessed with their thing between their legs
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Men. Absolutely. Despite what a lot of women think, the *only* thing we related penis size to is women (so it's an understandable mistake on their part), but we think about women a LOT.
Whereas with women, I think it's more a case of "see, respond, move forward", and they don't think about it nearly as much. It's kind of like breast size with women, but less outwardly visible.
Without any doubt it is the guys who tend to focus on penis size much more than girls.
You're right
Some women KNOW that they don't need a penis to satisfy them! I've been with a few, and never needed anything more that my whit, and charm, and sense of humor, her favorite wine, and just relaxing together, and "PLAYING"!!
It’s totally guys who focus on it more. Almost every girl I’ve met considered size a bonus not a main ticket item.
Why do you think guys care so much about size?
Insecurity mostly, I think a lot are just looking for something to blame for why they feel in adequate. It's something visible and easy to focus on, rather than something more abstract like how they are interacting with women/presenting themselves. I went through a phase where I was pretty worried about it in my teens as well.
Guys focus more! We own the things, we use the things & we play with the things, we brag about the things, we show things off & so much more.
I will say this, women don't say it... but do they think it 🤔 I'm going to make a grandiose assumption that women think about pen#s size about as much as men talk about it. At least regards to when they are thinking about intimacy. It's an important factor... Is it big enough to give me pleasure, is it too big where it will hurt... Even using dildos... That can trigger thoughts. Given girls are more practical with thoughts while men are more ego driven
We’re probably more focused on it than you ladies as we want to make sure a woman is satisfied. Plus there is a genuine curiosity on our part on what size you might prefer - long, short, thick, not so thick etc. It warms our hearts even more when you happen to pick the particular type we have...
I think men definitely focus more on penis size than woman, in general, but some women do care a lot about size
Well honestly, it's the same for you women and your breasts. At least in my opinion. A lot of you seem "obsessed/insecure" and you really don't need to be. I feel the same way about them as women do about penises. It's about who they're attached to, not the size.
That's a good way of looking at it.
I imagine men do because of the insecurity surrounding it
Yes, it seems like it. It just confuses me where the insecurity comes from if women don't seem to care as much.
No but its the same as women being insecure about boob size or body shape really, a lot of guys just see a bigger one as more impressive so assume thats what women want. Its ridiculous but there you go
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In my ecperience men suffer from penis envy
The answer to this question is the opposite of the answer to the question of who focuses more on things like boob size, hip dips and thigh gaps.
BOTH genders are concerned and insecure about their bodies and how they appear to the opposite sex. I don't know why you women have such a hard time with that concept.
just a lack of size queens on here. otherwise its about 50/50
Men for sure.
I think its definitely men.
Men for sure. Just like women focus on their breast size more. We are all subconsciously worried whether we are good enough for the other person. Are we good enough? Am i big enough? Am i too big? Will they like me? That is how it is.
Men worry about it more because women use it as a point of attack.
Just like women worry more about tit size, ass size, lip size, labia length, thigh size, etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc etc
Some guys feel that way cuz they exspect ir from what friends an adult novies make it seem important but usely the gugs who are gerks boast there the huge but the non gerks an nice guys dont boast an realise be happy to just be a male an size shouldn't matter
Well, I haven't got a large one, but still big enough to fill a pram lol,,,,
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