Which is harder for you to deal with as a man, a woman who refuses to have sex with you or a woman who has had sex partners before meeting you?

Don't be that person who says neither case bothers you. Just of these two scenarios which hurts or makes you more upset?

I'm just curious because I see both complaints here about how women are either forcing men to be mgtow/incels or that women are "low value" if they have any partners before marriage. So which is worse to you?
A woman who refuses to have sex with me.
Vote A
A woman who has had sex with a partner (s) before I even knew them.
Vote B
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Not gonna lie, I didn't think this would be such a blowout, but of the two I am happier that this one is a winner. Thank you all for participating!
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  • Refuses to have sex. its happend many times

  • A woman who refuses to have sex with me as far as I don't really care that much about her past but my girlfriend she's had tons of sex in her past but won't have any with me

  • how arrogant you arfe

    • Bad doggy

  • It depends on how many sex partners. If its a 100 thats a problem but if it a few than It wouldn't bother me

  • Married a virgin and was a virgin as well prior to marriage so neither apply to me. But ultimate respect from me when a girl has the strength to wait till marriage in this age we are in.

  • Women are normally always the ones that decide when sex is going to happen initially

  • To be or not to be is not for you to say. B is where we all should be in this enlightened age and as for A, who needs the drama? Shrug it off and move on to B. All good both ways.

    • I mean it is for me to say in the context of my own question now isn't it? B is not enlightened. It is clearly a holdover from more conservative times where men tried to establish more dominance over a woman's body. A is just the product of a bruised ego and frustrated sex drive. Neither are particular enlightened. Enlightened would be choosing the road less traveled and forging your own path to say neither bother you.

  • One who had sex partners before