Girls, Who do you think has the power during a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

[Angela_S]

In my experience, women have all the power in any sexual situation. Men are turned on a lot more easily, a lot more visibly and obviously, and they will usually do pretty much anything if there's a chance you'll help them resolve it. Sure, women also get really horny but let's face it, how difficult is it usually to convince a man to oblige? If a man wears shorts, or has his top off I'm usually relatively turned-on if he's fit, but he's not really aware of it, and for me it's more "excitement" than actually "needing" anything. If I decide to wear a short skirt with bare legs, and/or a strappy top or crop top, I've actually seen men get a hard-on and start chatting me up. Also, if I dress even remotely like that and we're out somewhere, my b/f will want me all day and will do whatever's necessary to keep me happy so I'm available when we get home... and a lot of the time I'm not even remotely thinking about sex, and just wore those clothes because it's a hot day or whatever. Now THAT's power!

[Anonymous]

I do. I’m controlling the action and guys can be manipulated through their penis. You can get them to do all kinds of things for blow jobs. I’ll start giving my boyfriend one. Then I’ll stop and nonchalantly say “Before I forget, I need you to do A, B and C for me”. He’ll quickly say ok…then the mouth goes back on the penis until he finishes. Later A, B and C get done. It’s just like Pavlov’s Dog and he never picks up on it. Lol

[Asker]

Do you prefer to start the blowjob when they are soft or hard? What am I supposed to do with his sack?

[laurieluvsit]

I think these flowers will answer that question... lol

[Asker]

Haha well we are servicing them

[chrissykerdock]

i don't see it as power although i've heard that before... she likes the power of giving a blowjob... honestly i give a blowjob because i love to suck no other reason.

[Lowiu]

I do

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[Lowiu]

Like I contol what happens and how he reacts he's wax in my hands

[Asker]

Yeah I kinda agree now, I used to think he was in control since I’m servicing him but then the other day he was being a complete ass during the bj, I did get a little revenge but “accidentally” grabbing his balls a bit too hard lol

[Sour-rose]

Girls. Could bite the weenie and rip it off if she wants to.

[Asker]

Haha oh man! I haven’t done that but I did squeeze his plums a bit hard when he said something rude to me

[Sour-rose]

Yeaaah, show him you have the power xD

[Asker]

Have you ever grabbed a guy like that?

[Sour-rose]

No, I've kicked him tho. That did that trick

[Asker]

During a blowjob? What happened

[Sour-rose]

Ohhh no no no, I don't do blowjobs. I don't do any sexual stuff. However, that one time in high school, boy was not getting the hint I am not going to "just come around the corner for a minute" and make the mistake of reaching to my wrist... sooo i reacted accordingly. :)

[Asker]

He tried to pull you down the hall or something? How did it play out?

[Sour-rose]

Well after I kicked him, I just... left him. He was making a lotta noise (we were outside, sub never came so I just walked around the school by myself) I'm sure we might see each other again aaand we did, but he never tried that again with me. :) I was scared to get called out by a teacher but I was just a quiet girl, didn't start shi and didn't take any. So i'd just be invisible.

[Asker]

How did he react when you kicked him?

[Sour-rose]

He was shocked and in pain? Like he didn't swear at me just held his coconuts and whimpering like a child. I made it very clear before I wasn't interested and that kick showed I meant it

[Asker]

Lol that’s funny you showed him. I was so surprised how just a little squeeze made this big muscular jock wimped

[Apple1996]

The girl has full control unless it's a face fuck then its the guy

[Asker]

Why does that make a difference?

[Apple1996]

Cause obviously he's taking control and fucking her face

[Briannalynn99]

Women do for sure, bite down a little and see how he reacts, plus his balls are right there to squeeze to stop him from cumming in your mouth if need be lol 😂

[Asker]

Does squeezing the balls actually do that? I’m confused why that would happen?

[Briannalynn99]

Im just saying to cause pain to get him to stop if you dont want him to do something you dont want haha 😅 doesn't take much to get his attention lol

[Asker]

Have you done that to a guy? What do you mean doesn’t take much to get his attention?

[Briannalynn99]

Squeezing his testicles lol and lightly i have yea 😅

[Asker]

We’re you doing it because you were mad at him? How did he react

[Briannalynn99]

Yea if he doesn't stop, he lost power and control it seemed like instantly. It doesn't take much i've squeezed a guy there in defense once and he dropped and threw up before i ran away. I've had similar results kneeing a guy. Testicles are even more sensitive then we think

[Asker]

You were attacked? How did you manage to grab him through clothes?

[Briannalynn99]

He pushed me against a wall and pulled his pants down, i managed to get a hand free. As soon as i started squeezing he lost all strength i twisted and pulled and he dropped

[Asker]

Oh you so grabbed his bare balls lol that must’ve been quite the handful

[Briannalynn99]

Yea only thing i coild think of with him behind me, it was a relieving handful cuz i knew i'd be okay lol 😅 only need one testicle to do it to

[Asker]

Why did you know you’ll be okay? I get super intimated when they have a big redwood and 2 huge balls dangling down there

[Asker]

I started training in Krav Maga so they talk about that move a lot

[Briannalynn99]

Once i had ahold of one of his testicles and started squeezing i knew he'd go down so i knew i'd be okay 😅 testicle shots drop guys for more than enough time to get away 😁 i kneed a guy in HS and he was down 15-20 mins so i knew i'd have time 😊

[Briannalynn99]

And yea squeeze, twist, pull works great if you can grab him otherwise kneeing him is effective too. Dont hesitate just hit. No guy can keep attacking after being hit even by a tiny girl

[Asker]

Have you done any martial arts? It’s kinda awkward practicing those moves on guys, especially the cute ones!

[Asker]

Do you think the size of the guys package makes it’s harder?

[Briannalynn99]

Lol yea i dont think many guys would be cool with it 😂 i had taken classes after a guy grabbed me at a party a couple years prior, only knew to go for his testicles at that time and luckily a knee worked then. If i hadn't known about that move I don't know what would've happened.

[Asker]

Haha they wear cups but apparently a solid hit can still hurt them and drop them to their knees.

[Briannalynn99]

And oddly enough after it happened my boyfriend got a cup and let me try the moves lightly with him lol 😊

[Asker]

Haha how did that practice go? It sucks we aren’t allowed to practice the grab and squeeze in class

[Briannalynn99]

It was good to learn the kicking and kneeing motions, backwards kicks and stuff too. Obviously wasn't gonna kick my boyfriend hard, just tapping the cup lol practiced grab twist and pull without force too 😊

[Asker]

How do you practice that grab move with a cup? Sometimes we tap their cups in class a bit too hard and they go down lol

[Briannalynn99]

He took it off and i kinda visualized how to do it, dang lol how hard do you kick in practice? doesn't take much even with the cup? I tapped my boyfriend but not hard enough to hurt lol

[Asker]

Lol he was standing there naked in front of you? What did that look like? We aren’t allowed to use full force but sometimes kick harder than we plan. Apparently if you nail the bottom of the cup it hurts a lot more than front of the cup

[Briannalynn99]

Oh damn but imagine the damage you could do to a guy with no cup! Poor guys being self defense stand ins 😅. He held my arms and i practiced getting away is all. Careful with kicks to cause he can grab your legs. Knees cover a large surface so they're easier to hit.

[Asker]

The guys in my class are all volunteers from our college, they typically are athletes that got into trouble for smoking or drinking in the dorms so this is their community service. How did you practice the grab?

[Briannalynn99]

Oh ic tough community service lol, they have any input about strikes? boyfriend grabbed me from behind i had to try to get away.

[Asker]

The guys are all pretty cute and cocky, lol so it’s kinda fun taking them down, especially when they make sexist jokes. What was he wearing? I would think certain clothes make it a lot harder to grab a guy

[Briannalynn99]

Lol knee em once and take them down a level 😂 boyfriend said he knew a guy that was kicked poorly by a pretty weak girl in HS and he had to sit for 10 mins it won't take much! He wore sweatpants and i grabbed and let go.

[Asker]

Isn’t it kinda hard to know if you got a solid hold? If his dick is big; you might grab that instead I’ve taken down a few of them with snap kicks, ifeel bad but it’s kinda funny, can you picture his reaction?

[Briannalynn99]

Try to just grab a testicle and squeeze, dont even need both lol. Try to get around his dick and ignore it. Only works if he's got his pants down so you grab him. Be quick with the grab and squeeze right away to disable him, then twist and pull. Make sure and squeeze a few seconds at least too. Mainly for a last ditch effort move. Im sure luck was on my side to though but very effective either way 😅. Those guys prolly have it coming get your full force in with them haha

[Asker]

Haha any advice for how to pull off the grab move when they are wearing a cup?

[Briannalynn99]

Find em outta class lol, attackers dont expect a fight back so i think it caught him by surprise when i grabbed him too. Fight like crazy and try to find his testicles 😁 it worked twice for me!

[Asker]

Have you ever done that during a play wrestling match? If we’re playing I wouldn’t do it super hard, but there’s this one hot guy in class I’d love to wrestle naked lol, I’ve seen him w out the cup and he has a huge bulge

[Briannalynn99]

Hit my mans balls while play wrestling? Lol i tap him lightly but try to be gentle with him. Feels good knowing we can hurt a guy fast if we need to 😅 lol i wish i wouldve hit a few guys there in high school for being douche bags

[Asker]

Guys just always act so cocky and say how much weaker we are so it’s funny when that happens. If you were in my class and the guy was cupped how would you try to do the grab?

[Briannalynn99]

Yea maybe weak but so are their balls 😅 nice when they get hit in , especially when they attack us and get hurt. I'd try to knee him at the bottom of the cup where his parts rest haha. Maybe punch underneath haha. When is your next class?

[Asker]

It’s tomorrow. Do you think where You hit the cup makes any difference? I’ve never really understood that because I thought the whole point of the cup is to protect, like a helmet for their dick

[Briannalynn99]

I thiught they said thhe bottom is vaulnerable, scoop up the bottom with a knee or kick maybe? Can't believe you haven't hit a guy there ever yet lol every girl should get one 😅 hit him hard af whatever you do lol

[Asker]

I’ve nailed plenty of Guys in class, but they are always wearing cups. Why do you think the bottom is more vulnerable?

[Briannalynn99]

I thought you mentioned something earlier about it my bad 😅 and yea true its to bad they have cups tho, those guys could use a kick 😂 my boyfriend said if you kick or knee hard it hurts bad even with a cup lol

[Asker]

But I really wanna try that grab on them! That seems like more of a personal move, any advice?

[Briannalynn99]

I think it'd be tough to reach in and a kick or knee would hurt bad anyway lol. You keep shoes on for the class right? wouldn't kick if not 😅 squeezing could mess him up to. Have to find em outta class for that

[Asker]

It’s kinda unfair that guys wear cups since they are “attacking” us in the drill and we don’t wear padding

[Briannalynn99]

Yea no kidding they shouldn't wear anything so we know what we can do lol 😂 hit him hard and he'll react tho! boyfriend said women can hurt em through the cup easy enough. Do you get to wear shoes during this?

[Asker]

Yeah we wear shoes. How do you think he’s react if I landed a hard kick?

[Briannalynn99]

Good kick him lol 😊 was gonna say that might hurt more with the cup but it would hurt your foot kicking him barefoot i think, and i'll bet it hurt him like hell lol. Kick with your toes too i bet it would move the cup more 😅 wear heavy shoes too lol

[Asker]

When you were practicing with your boyfriend we’re you surprised how little he could take? I assume he’s pretty tough and I like when guys are strong and manly

[Briannalynn99]

I only clipped him a little with a kick but yea it didn't take much lol 😂 more suprised how little squeeze it took on the attacker, one of my friends kicked a male friend of ours "playfully" once, not hard at all and he almost threw up and laid down for 10 or more minutes. This guy friend is big and manly too. Testicles are really sensative girl 😊

[Asker]

Did you think less of your boyfriend since he got taken down?

[Briannalynn99]

? He didn't get taken down that was a male friend lol but testicles are real sensitive so it happens

[Asker]

Yeah but guys always act so big and tough in front of girls

[Briannalynn99]

Yea he was manly until i 5 ft blonde kicked him in the testicles haha, went down from 6"3' 220 to nothing fast 😊

[Briannalynn99]

Make us proud and kick a guys testicles tommorow lol 😊 kick or knee him, no grab!

[Asker]

I have a guy a solid knee and he was down for the count lol

[Briannalynn99]

Lol good im sure he deserved it anyway 😂 doesn't take much huh? 😅

[FairyDamsel]

Obviously us girls have the power. We control the speed, use of tongue, coupling it with handjob, or hands etc.

Guys also have little say but when compared with us theybare far behind.

[Grl2live_nlearn4u]

It depends

[pamela1]

Definitely the girl. She can do serious harm to him if he tries do do something off limits

[Asker]

I did something similar when he made a rude comment and I squeezed his balls kinda hard lol

[pamela1]

haha, good for you! I was fortunate enough that most of my partners respected me, but I had a few that needed some discipline 🤣

[Asker]

Haha have you ever had to use their balls to teach them? What’d you do?

[pamela1]

Yes I did exactly what you did. I also used my teeth and that got their attention... not too hard where you make them bleed obviously but it was enough for them to think twice about what they did

[Asker]

Omg teeth lol ow! I had never grabbed a guys sack like that before, did it surprise you how little force it took to hurt him? This guy was also a big jock

[pamela1]

At first, I was surprised. I remember my first boyfriend told me that getting hit in the balls can bring down even the biggest dude. I asked my husband just how painful it can be, and he said it doesn't take much lol.

[Asker]

But I didn’t even hit him or anything just gave them a pretty firm squeeze

[Asker]

Have you seen that happen to a guy?

[pamela1]

My husband says that sometimes it's like your funny bone. You touch it a certain way and the pain can be excruciating.

[Asker]

I guess I was surprised because I really only grabbed one of his balls because his pair was pretty big and my hands are small

[pamela1]

Well after that I don't think he or his ego felt big anymore lol

[Asker]

Do you think guys are surprised that a grab works that well on them

[pamela1]

I don't think they are, but they want to admit their fractured egos

[Asker]

When you grabbed the guy was it hard to get a solid hold? I feel like the dick gets in the way

[pamela1]

Quite honestly, I only done it a couple of times, and I wasn't thinking about it. It was a quick reflex just to show I mean business.

[Asker]

Was it in the middle of a blowjob? Did you stop or just start holding his sack?

[pamela1]

Yes, it was in the middle. I stopped, grabbed it, waited for his reaction, I tell him to stop it, and continue. During a blowjob, I will not grab it. The only time his ball gets touched during a blowjob is if I am sucking on his balls.

[Asker]

What was he doing that made you grab his balls? Did you do it super hard?

[pamela1]

He was trying to pull my hair. I told him to stop, he kept on doing it, and that's when I let him have it lol. I did kinda do it hard because I was pissed

[Asker]

So while he was pulling your hair you grabbed his sack? Did he think you were playing with his. Balls?

[elizamichale1]

Ofcourse me