Who here is a touchless innocent virgin?

[Anonymous]

I’m talking about you haven’t kissed anyone, haven't had a boyfriend or girlfriend, or any sexual experience. In other words you’re what i hear they call an "ultra virgin". Who here In GaG is total full out virgin? How old are you and how do you feel about it? I’m a virgin too at 21 with absolutely no experience. I love to hear out other people who haven’t given their virginity up :)

[jbmd91]

23. The only girl I've ever kissed was like when I was 4 or 5, as a dare. Other than that, I've never had a a girlfriend. Never don't anything sexual. I've slapped a few asses :) and a little flirting touching, but nothing with clothes off. It's nothing I'm ashamed of. Its just that I don't want to do it just to do it. I think it should be special. And with someone you truly care for. Someone you love. It's just that I've lived in the same town my whole life. And none of the girls I know here have interested me. Ya, there are some cute girls here, but it want more than looks. I want a girl who I connect with mentally. I'm not eating for marriage or necessarily even the girl I'm going to marry, but a special girl who is a perfect match to me.

[Asker]

I laughed when you said "slapped a few asses" lol

[Anonymous]

Feel like it sometimes. It's been 4 years since any kissing or touching. :(

[jupitertree]

I'm 17 and I'm an ultra virgin! Lol I'm actually quite proud of this fact. My goal is to graduate high school without a first kiss, boyfriend, or going on a date (dances excluded). So far it hasn't been hard and I like it much more than other couples I see that are inseparable and make everyone around them uncomfortable. Being single is awesome and empowering bc I feel much more independent. That's my outlook on it ^.^

[Asker]

Awesome, but you do have to agree sometimes you just need a little bit of love right? :/ maybe not at your age but once you start getn older its gets to you.

[jupitertree]

Yeah it does. I mean there are always those times where I think man having a boyfriend would be nice but then I look at my schedule and realize I've got no time! 😅 I was raised in house that was really guy friendly so I guess you could say I'm still a virgin bc I have trust issues but then again it's not the only reason. I'm catholic and I'm strong in my faith also I feel like you can do a lot more without being in a relationship. It's hard to find a person that isn't clingy when in relationships. So in response I've just been livin the single life and it's been working pretty well :)

[Creative_boss]

Well I had kindergarten boyfriends lol like holding hands and stuff. But I haven't had a boyfriend since I was five and obviously kissed anyone either. I realize I still have a long way to go (I'm fourteen) but I'm positive I'll stay a virgin until married. I'm proud being a virgin knowing that I will have a very special gift for the one who has fully commit to me in marriage.

[Diveintheocean]

I haven't kissed or had sex or anything like that and I am 20 years old. This is by choice because I see what sex and sexual activity does to the people around me and I rather not get involved in that. I'm pretty mature for my age which leaves me in a bit pickle because no one else my age is ready to be in a relationship even if they say they are.

[Asker]

I guess i would fall in that category cuz i don’t feel like im ready for a relationship either.

[funkipunk]

I'm a virgin, but not 100% kissless/touchless.

[xSlapshot]

I'm the definition of a pure virgin! Lol, and I've never even kissed, just because it never happened and I'm not the type to go out a lot and socialize out of my comfort zone. So I never really dated.

[Asker]

I love your tattoos in that pic. So unique whenever I see those :) just don't over do it (full sleeve)

[xSlapshot]

Lol thanks but personally I love tattoos and will hopefully be a tattoo artist one day and if I decide to get more that's just my own decision. What you don't find attractive, others might. (: I personally like a guy with tattoos anyway so I'm sure they won't mind one bit.

[Asker]

Yes be yourself :) i didn't mean to sound like I was stopping you from getn more tattoos. It's just that I also like to see the beauty of the woman's body.

[butterfly728]

I'm 16 and I'm totally innocent :) Even my friends would describe me as naive, I seem to lack basic knowledge about relationships, kissing and physical touching, lol!
I feel good, recently I have been asked out by some guys, but I'm looking for the right one :) I've never had a boyfriend, and never experienced a first kiss, so yeah I'm an ultra virgin as you put it :)
I would be happy not to lose my virginity until marriage!

[Asker]

aww super cute :)

[butterfly728]

Thank you so much! :D I'm really honored! ٩꒰｡•◡•｡꒱۶ Could I message you lol?

[Asker]

Uh sure if you want hahah XD

[butterfly728]

Ok, I unchecked the anonymous box since there's no other way...

[butterfly728]

So can you message me? ✿(｡◕‿◕｡)✿

[Asker]

Of course :D

[lumos]

I'm a virgin, but not touchless/kissless. :P Actually just got back from a cuddle/kissing session with my cuddle buddy. :)

[Asker]

lucky girl.

[Victoria14]

im 16 and I've never had a legitimate boyfriend or sex. I have made out with a guy before though haha

[lyf-est]

20, haven't kissed guys.
not a problem for me bcoz the one i'm dating doesn't mind that i'm gonna keep till marriage. no kissing yet coz i want to keep a line between "my date" and "my boyfriend", since sex is the difference between boyfriend and husband. if i treat boyfriends and dates the same i feel status "dating" is just lying to myself.

[Asker]

Thats a good way to keep it :)

[maggiemoo1126]

That completely sums up me if your the same message me and we can talk about are sad livrs

[Themoonlitsky]

19, not touch less or kiss less though

[IndigoEarth]

Im 21 and i have never even held another girls hand :'( ... it bothers me so much. I feel lonely and hopeless... i feel like i will never find someone... when i see people younger than me with relationship it makes me feel even worse :( ... i don't really care about sex or anything, i just want a girl by my side. I full out suck at talking to people.

[Asker]

i feel like I’m incoherent and it sucks for me too. Yeah same here, i just want to have a real girl by my side with intimacy involved in our friendship. Believe me i know what you're going through.

[IndigoEarth]

I used to be proud of being a virgin... but after a long time it justs really lonely

[Asker]

Lonely is the word for sure.

[Shutupman]

'Raises hand' haha yeah me to :) I'm 18 within a few months 19. I am happy with my choices, I don't want a relationship as I don't have time and I simply won't give up my sports or friends for a fling. And because I don't want a relationship I don't wanna lead guys on.

[rgb008]

20, but not touchless/kissless haha

[Confusedinthisarea]

Well I'm 13 so yeah I'm a virgin

[Asker]

i dont believe you

[TheNewClassic]

I made out with a girl once

[Asker]

how was it? was it just experimentation?

[TheNewClassic]

Yeah, it was nice.

[Asker]

would you do it again?

[TheNewClassic]

Yeah

[Asker]

why dont you get a girlfriend?

[TheNewClassic]

Im straight. I do want to have a boyfriend but guys my age, mehhhh...

[Asker]

i feel your sorrow... sucks being alone sometimes. Just wanna cuddle with a girl.

[TheNewClassic]

Yeah, really would be nice to have company at times.

[JustinX]

me... haven't kissed a girl yet

[Keyspirits]

Im a touchless and a kissless virgin in Heart&Soul at da age of 20.

[HappyToBeAlive]

Im 17 and im a virgin wooo. Fck it im hopeless lmaoo

[Asker]

dude dont worry man you're a good lookin guy, just watch bro you'll find your girl.

[chocolateismylover]

Im a kissless virgin !

[OneLoveIsAllLove]

Its sad how I see 11-15 aren't virgins.

[Asker]

right, i didn't even know what sex was until i was 14 lol.

[OneLoveIsAllLove]

For real! I was always that 'Fat ugly' kid in my middle school years. Now I'm decent and they all want to get with me but no :) I'm waiting for the right guy!

[OneLoveIsAllLove]

Still till highschool I sorta am. ._.

[Asker]

typical teens always care for looks only. It’s what is being offered what counts.

[DandelionSeed]

sad how this opinion has 2 downvotes. what, people don't agree anymore that 11 year olds shouldn't be having sex yet?

[OneLoveIsAllLove]

I care about the insides :)

[AGirlYouDontKnow]

This girl :p

[SpecsAppeal]

23 and never even been kissed

[Asker]

thats ok, i haven't been kissed either. Not even on the cheek. Moms and sisters dont count.

[SpecsAppeal]

I've had comments where I've been called both weird and rare/special

[Asker]

Weird and special? Hmm what tone did they have when they said it?

[SpecsAppeal]

Moreso playful and flirty. "You dont realize how rare you are"

[Asker]

Aww yeah that is a good thing :3 I love a girl who is very playful and is up for anything fun and interesting. I have a friend who is like that and to be honest that's kinda how I want my girlfriend to be. Fun, playful, imaginative, senders and understanding.

[Anonymous]

I'm 16 and I'm a virgin.

As for touchless you decide.

I technically have been. kissed but in my defense i didn't want it to happen nor did i enjoy it. I actually pulled away.

[Anonymous]

22 years old. I have kissed before and got a blowjob, almost smashed but forgot to bring a condom (never thought I would make it far enough to get to use one). I came off too clingy and made the mistake of telling the girl I was with that I was a virgin (DO NOT MAKE THAT MISTAKE). I get approached a lot but I come off too quiet and shy so girls lose interest fast.

[Asker]

Ok sorry bro. But some girls like to hear a guy is a virgin. That's kind of surprising.

[Opinion Owner]

hmmm none of the girls I come in contact with

[Anonymous]

I'm a 21 year old "ultra virgin" as you call it. Never been kissed, never been touched, never had a boyfriend, nothing. And honestly i feel proud to be one.

[Asker]

You're just like me :)

[Anonymous]

No unless someone is really attractive or has a really shitty personality there should be no reason why they can't attract a guy who they like. I mean when I was a virgin I had to peel men off me

[Opinion Owner]

* really unattractive

[Anonymous]

I'm 25 and I haven't done any of those things yet.
I'm okay with it. There haven't been really been many guys that I have liked enough in that way. I'm certainly not going to get intimate with a guy I don't even like just for the sake of gaining an experience.

[Asker]

That's right! But what if the situation gets heated and really tempts you? Have you ever gotten close?

[Opinion Owner]

I haven't gotten close because its rare that I have liked anyone. I have only ever thought about kissing one guy but that never happened. Well that would depend on a few things. I won't kiss a guy who isn't my boyfriend so if he's just some guy, even if I like him and think he's hot things are never getting heated. I won't even hug a guy until we start dating.

[Asker]

No hug? Not even as a friendly gesture?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not interested in hugging friends

[Anonymous]

Well, I was molested at 11 years old, so...

[Asker]

Hopefully it wasn’t anything too drastic :/

[Opinion Owner]

"Anything too drastic..." at age 11. ANYTHING is drastic at age 11. Get some empathy, and being a "full innocent blushing virgin" isn't the highest horse in the world. I know many wonderful people who are nowhere near virgins, and I know a "touchless virgin" who broke up with me over the phone while I was in the hospital. So, yeah.

[Asker]

i didn’t mean to offend you by any means. Im sorry. and i wasn’t praising virgins or implying they are better than people who have sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok, thank you though. It's just a really sensitive thing for me.

[Asker]

I'm sure it is and I wish for no one else to go through the same thing. I don't know if this is you but I've spoken to someone who was molested at a young age before. She has been trying to get over the idea that men for the most part are evil and inhumane. Then I said to her that there are lots kind hearted men out there who need love who will respect women. She said it was a relief to hear that.

[Opinion Owner]

Well the sick thing is, it was my former pastor. Yay Jesus.

[Anonymous]

I am 17.. never had a girlfriend... never kissed someone...
my feeling is different in situations... sometimes i'm happy with that and sometimes i'm not happy.
This is just my choice...

[Asker]

i know what you mean. Sometimes im proud to hold on until the right girl pops up. But sometimes my urges tell me i really want sex :(

[Anonymous]

I'm 18 and never had a boyfriend and I'm a virgin. I want to think this doesn't count but I got drunk and made out with a guy and gave him a hand job. But I still feel like an ultra virgin.

[Asker]

IT COUNTS disqualified! Lol jk XD you're still a virgin don’t worry about it :) Just be careful next time.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks lol I feel awful about it and wish it had never happened. Needless to say I'm done with alcohol

[Asker]

That’s why i don’t drink. Things can happen you may later down the road regret doing. Its perfect when you're at an early age and realize drinking alcohol can lead to many troubles. its best to just lay it off.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly. So, why haven't you dated? Any particular reason?

[Asker]

Just haven’t found any potential candidate. Most of the girls I actually get interested in are taken which sucks. If I fall into a relationship I want it to be real. No foolin around here and there. I want it to be real love :)

[Opinion Owner]

I'm the same way. I've only ever even wanted to date one person and that didn't work out. Its best to wait for the right one

[Asker]

yeah, i just hope we last :/

[Opinion Owner]

I think I can lol

[KBob93]

I feel the fact that you were drunk was a mitigating factor. After all, is a 13 year old who was molested by her uncle disqualified?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I wasn't forced at all. I was a bit taken advantage of but it isn't comparable to molestation. But yeah, sober I would've never done anything like that. But oh well, can't change things.

[Anonymous]

I'm 20 and the most I have done was kiss a guy. XD

[Asker]

like make out?