Why are guys so quiet during intercourse?

well my partner is verry queit in intercourse apart from making grunts and heavy breathing every now and then so i would like to know if this applied to all men or is it just my man who is verry queit in bed? i mean is it different for every guy? come on give me details i'm curious.
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  • There are deep evoloutional roots to the difference in sexual vocalizations of human genders. as you may know the majority of human sexual competition happens within the vagina.. where 99% of sperm is actually killer sperm meant to destroy the sperm of other males. Therefore our human ansestors were getting it on with multiple partners constantly.
    a leading theory I have heard to explain why females are so loud during intercourse is to attract the attention of other males to participate, which has an evoloutional advantage of diversifying the gene pool. which also explains why the sound of a female during intercourse sexually excited men to no end. therefore there is no real reason for males to vocalize during sex.
    Your welcome 😊

    • "majority of human sexual competition happens within the vagina.. where 99% of sperm is actually killer sperm meant to destroy the sperm of other males." You see when you say that I imagine little sperms dressed as gladiators battling each other. Yup. Gladiator sperm. That is where my mind goes. "a leading theory" By whom?

    • Christopher Ryan author of bestselling book "Sex at Dawn, 2010" describes a lot of different processes of human sexual selection that is outside the norm. read it!

  • I'm not very load but I will moan when things are feeling good. I think it's important not to fake it by making loud noises and let my partner know when things are going well.
    One theory here: The influence of porn is greater than you might think. In films, women make all the crazy sounds while guys just do it and say stupid stuff like ' oh yeah, just like that baby'
    Probably since women are doing all the screaming in porn, which is mostly made for guys, so lots of guys think its not cool or manly to make some noise.

Most Helpful Girls

  • An honest answer... they're trained by porn. Porn guys don't make noise so you can hear all of her yells, so guys probably think if they make noise they'll be unsexy. But I LOVE it when guys moan, it's very hot.

    • wow... this has to be the best answer.

  • It's so true.. My boyfriend does the same shit.. But it doesn't mean they're not enjoying it.. He just watch me and goes harder...

  • He is thinking of his penis and looking at you and experiences sensations. he can't think of words right then.

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  • wow. i can't believe some of the fairytails I've heard here. most men arnt screeming because it simply isn't a pirn movie. by the way they add the sound in after the sceen has been shot guys are having ( if there on top ) getting a vigorus work out and choosing not to passout on top of you simply remain with the exception oof some grunts or a few short words do to the amount of air their using. and not having enough to carry on a coonversation

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  • LADIES.. Men too... its very simple its Not porn, everyone watches porn and some girls are dead quiet trust me I've dealt with it.. its not age... its not finishing or any other things you want to make up... lets approach these things scientifically, its biology.. the sexual sensations of a women are experienced stronger than the males sensations... thats it as far as moaning.. if you mean conversation... it goes to the mind, women are programmed more emotional and vocal, men are focused on hand eye coordination and usually concentration on doing most of the work, because we do have to do most of the work... unfortunately , excluding oral/foreplay etc penetration is more giving than taking for the men, the men give sex the women receive... discussion over its science question properly answered

  • how about you get with a man and not a boy?

  • everyone's different you just got a quiet guy. not a bad thing. reminds me of a friend of mine who found their bfs moaning hilarious