Sexual Relationships
+1 y

Why are most guys insecure when it comes to their penis?

I personally don’t want a guy with a tiny dick but if it’s the average size and he has a good personality i won't care. Me and my girlfriends have all agreed that sex is 10x better when you like the person :)
Updates:
+1 y
Tiny for me is 4 inches by the way
+1 y
Lol I’m getting attacked 😂 this is for question with guys with a penis bigger than 4 inches (an average size you guys should know). Some of my ex’s dicks were 5 or 8 inches and they were shockingly insecure about it so i would spice the sex up quickly in the beginning by fake moan to make them feel better ( it worked and they would be like you “like that huh” eventually i started getting turned on don’t get me wrong :) hehe.
0 1

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, the problem is that most women either don't really know what the average is or can't reliably visualize what a measure in inches actually looks like.

    With porn really being the only convenient way for inexperienced persons to view
    penises, there isn't really a way for women to develop any sort of realistic expectations.
    It's like expecting all women to look like VS models, because the only women you ever saw were VS models.

    Then you end up with women who either think that 6.7 inches is the average, or with women who maybe have read something about averages online and claim that they would be ok with 5 or even 4 inches, but then when they see what 6.3" is in reality, they go like "wait, that's kinda small".

  • Because its a part of us that if there is something wrong with, we can't change.

    A guy with a big gut or small arms can go to the gym and with time she effort, can fix those things. If a guy has a small or weird looking dick though, he's pretty much stuck with it.

    Every woman I've ever been with has always told me my dick is fine and if it was much bigger, they would probably be a bit scared to fuck it, but still deep down, I wish I was a bit bigger and looked a bit more perfect. Like a perfect pornstar cock.

    I'm sure plenty of women are the same about their pussy and tits.

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

Related Questions

Would you become exclusive with someone you haven't had sex with yet?
What should I do when I don’t know where to go from here?
What does sex feel like?
He gave me oral but he has a girlfriend?

What Girls & Guys Said

1 28

  • They listen to the women who say bigger is better, they compare to the guys in porn

  • I agree with that as well!

  • Probably because we are ashamed of what other people think about the size of our penis. Simply because they come in all shapes and sizes and it's hard to please every women sexually even if we tried. So how would we satisfy a women if she doesn't like the size. I feel as though many men become nervous when naked because they'll feel ashamed if the women isn't satisfied after the sex and had her own orgasm that he hasn't performed to the standard both expected.

  • Why do women wear make up?
    Why do people have plastic surgery?
    Society/media places a great emphasis on looks and bodies looking a certain way. Small genitals are often used as a punchline against men, constant negative reinforcement of the idea that smaller is pathetic. The porn industry pretty much only using actors with large penises, teens who start watching and dont measure up develope a complex at a young age which can be difficult to break

  • Insecure because they are weak minded.

  • I don't know, never got complaints about mine (so far lol). If a guy DID get lots of complaints about his dick, then it's no wonder he'd be insecure. Shame can be a powerful weapon.

  • I'm not I got nothing to be insecure about and I got pics to prove it

  • "I personally don’t want a guy with a tiny dick". that's why.

  • Because most guys have an average 5" -6" while all we hear are the gals are looking for 8"+ endowments most figure why even try.

  • I think with guys, sometimes it feels like we are competing for girls and the currency is how big is the guys penis. I remember in high school girls saying that you should go date this guy's because he's huge. As far as being attacked for question, you are entitled to your opinion.

  • I don't know that most guys are insecure about their penis size but then I can believe this is a subject many lie about.

  • Its because the world around us says "bigger is better" or "size matters"
    I grew up with a fear of being terrible in bed because of tv alone.
    I'm almost 9 inches and still have some insecurities about it.

  • Why would you have sex with someone you don't like?

  • I've never understood that

  • Biologically it’s seen as our only benefit to humanity.

  • I don't know why

  • the same reason most women are insecure about their boob size

  • I’m not insecure about my size, I’m I secure I’ll cum way too fast

    • My boyfriends does that and sometimes he’ll last long why is that. It is a psychological thing?

    • In the beginning we’re excited and think about it too much instead of just relaxing

    • I don’t even know what to say I get so embarrassed when I cum in like 30 seconds

  • I wouldn’t feel insecure around Asian men or on an Asian dating website. So if a guy was about to put the boots to you and he had exactly 4 inches when he dropped his pants would you still let him put the boots to you?

  • "I wonder why guys are insecure about their penis?"

    First sentence talks about not wanting a small penis.

  • Show More (9)

Latest Questions

Did you ever have an orgasm when you didn’t want one? What were the circumstances? Did you feel guilty later? Then did you fantasize about it?
Guys, if the lady in the picture sends you a risky text, how are you going to react?
Guys would you ever ask this of a woman after suffering a traumatic event? and girls have you ever had a guy ask if you want sex after a trauma event?
Have you had sex with another person while being in a relationship?
Home >  Sexual Relationships  > Why are most guys insecure when it comes to their penis?