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Why are school janitors allowed in girls toilets (this is in UK)?

We have a really pervy janitor at my school who hangs out in the girls toilets, listening to us piss and stuff. it's so uncomfortable, people have made reports against him but no one every listens to us. for guys that dont know, girls sometimes make a like hissing noise when we pee, and ma mate came out a cubicle (stall) to find the janitor standing there and he said "nice hiss" to her. so so so bad, im not even exaggerating. how is this allowed? me and my friends even go to a field spot somewhere near back of school where no one goes at break sometimes just to pee cos we can't face it.

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  • This is really messed up. I assumed you were some adult busy-body-Karen asking a hypothetical question just to stir-shit up.

    But... the fact that you're a 15 year old girl who is actually in this situation... is TOTALLY different.

    What you're describing here is wrong. Objectively wrong. Anyone ANYONE can see that this is wrong.

    When I was going to tell the adult-Karen I THOUGHT you were that she was full-of-shit was: "I'm not from the UK, but I'm sure that janitors aren't allowed to be in the girls toilets while any girls are in there."

    And, to be honest, if that's NOT the official rule... that's shocking to me. Like genuinely shocking. It's so basic. So obvious. And in todays world (where everyone is hyper-aware of sexual predators and protecting kids from perverts etc.) it seems unbelievable to me that there isn't some official "policy" or "rule" about this. It's so basic. Even for the sake of "not being held legally liable"... I would expect that all schools would have adopted this policy.

    That doesn't much matter, when the fact is, you've got a creepy-janitor listening to you pee. Obviously the policy isn't there, or isn't being followed.

    This is actually really serious. You've got a very legitimate complaint/concern here.

    I can't believe that complaints have been made, but not taken seriously. That's jaw-dropping. This isn't something complicated or controversial. It's obvious, and simple, and I don't understand how any adult could fail to see the problem here.

    This is not just advice. It's more than that. This is really what you NEED to do. Because you're right.

    I don't care HOW loudly you need to complain. I don't care how many different people you need to complain to. YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE YOU"RE HEARD.

    You are 100% right. If the first person (or institution like "school") that you complained to didn't do anything... that was 100% wrong. Complain elsewhere. Tell you parents about it. Tell specific teachers about it.

    WRITE YOUR COMPLAINT DOWN (or e-mail it). That way there' s a record of the complaint. Which makes it harder for someone to ignore... because there's no excuse for any adult to NOT do something about this. So even for the sake of not being held responsible for failing to do something about it... it'll prompt people to act.

    Start a petition. Organize a motherfucking school-wide-walk-out.

    Seriously. I don't care what you have to do to be heard. You have ever right to feel free of some grown-man's presence while peeing at school. Everyone will be able to see that you're right. It's crazy to me that ANYONE fielded a complaint about this but didn't stop it. That's wrong. Totally wrong.

    When you know you're right, and you're fighting for something you have every right to... there is "no such thing" as not being heard. You need to just be louder and louder about it until you ARE heard. Because you're 100% right, and it's ok to force others to see that... in a situation like this.

    Seriously. This is wrong. And I hope you're able to get that changed, at least at your school very soon. In fact, scratch out "hope". DO get that changed. DO. 🙂

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  • It is not acceptable for school janitors or any other adult to enter or hang out in the toilets designated for students of a particular gender, unless there is an emergency or maintenance issue that needs to be addressed. The safety and privacy of students should always be a top priority in any educational institution. It is concerning to hear that your school has a janitor who has been acting inappropriately and making students feel uncomfortable.

    You and your friends should report this behavior to a trusted teacher, school counselor, or principal or even your parents, who can take appropriate action to ensure your safety and privacy in the school restroom. You can also reach out to organizations such as Childline, a free and confidential helpline in the UK for children and young people, for support and advice on how to handle this situation. It is important to speak up and take action to prevent further inappropriate behavior from occurring.

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  • First, I don't make any kind of hissing noise when I pee. Second, we had coed restrooms at college where there were girls and guys but there were stalls so they could hear but not see. If he (the janitor) is asking to watch or purposely listening to girls that is wrong and it should be dealt with. Does he do this to boys too?

    • no just the girls toilets

    • Then he is creepy!

    • Yeppp

  • He shouldn't be allowed in while you girls are in there he should have to lock the bathroom while cleaning it then unlock it when he leaves... wtf... but yeah like Kraken said tell your parents they will get sorted...

    • yeh i know its horrible

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  • If this were actually happening then it should be reported.

    However, it isn't.

  • we had some lady janitors but if not i don't think they would have let the male janitors in there when there were girls in there

  • For those who don't know this is a famous user here in GaG that goes around posts about pee telling he's a janitor in a school that sees girls pee all the time "because of his job" and asking if you wanna see.

    He got so well known that now is changing the approach.

    • Wtf? Are you high?

    • Chloe, he is telling the truth. So many entries here in the past by that guy!

  • Because who the hell else is going to clean toilets, you?

    Just tell him to "wait," when he knocks on door before entry, is all.

    He's not psychic enough to know there is a shy girl peeing in there.

    • Read my post and comments… he asked to see a 7yo girl pee. Ffs.

  • Why not? This is America and I was a janitor a few years ago and had to clean up the girls rooms, too! SOMEBODY'S gotta do it!

    • Read my comments. He asked to see a 7yo girl pee wtf

    • Okay, then, have his skanky as fired!!

  • If he REALLY does what you say, you could try to seduce him a little. Then when he reaches out to try to touch you scream out for help. Don’t do this if he is only doing his job.

    • Wtf no way

  • Report him. What a lowlife.

    • Doesn’t work

    • Why not? Or if this POS is in the bathroom take a snapshot of him being there as proof.

  • What he's doing is highly inappropriate. He should be fired immediately!!

  • Hiss!

    are you a cat?

  • He should not be permitted in there while any girl is using the facilities.

  • It's the same in India and I find it creepy.

  • Hello, I'm a cleaner in UK supermarket, please call Childline or talk to a teacher, what this man is doing is seriously wrong,,,

  • Really they shouldn't be allowed in there except when they're cleaning. That's how it was in all my schools, the janitors could use the bathroom corresponding to their gender, but when they were cleaning, the bathroom was closed.

  • Talk with your parents.

    • yep tried it, there's been complaints put in but nothing gets done

    • Your father should be standing on the principles desk!

    • i dont even think our parents believe us tbh

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  • report at him..
    i like it when u pee next to me 😘😍

    • What?

    • i like to see u peeing in front of me

    • after that i, d like to eat u

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  • Well there’s actually a lot of female cleaners at schools airports etc… that sometimes go in the mens to clean but stay in there longer

    That airport I was just at had someone like this

  • Do something about it, don't be silent 🙈

    • tried to

    • Threaten him, maybe

    • what way

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  • I wish i knew and can help get this perv. As far away from girls rest room

  • You hiss? Like a cat? That is NOT normal, sweetheart.

  • They shouldn't be allowed in without permission from the occupants. Otherwise they should wait outside until everyone is finished in the opposite sex restroom.

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