Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I've seen a lot of guys here on GaG saying they want a woman with no romantic past so that's why I'm asking this. Im tired of seeing questions about it and wanna know the reason for why guys want this so badly?
Why are so many men looking for women with no romantic past/low body count?
Apple1996 Master
I've seen a lot of guys here on GaG saying they want a woman with no romantic past so that's why I'm asking this. Im tired of seeing questions about it and wanna know the reason for why guys want this so badly?
5 7
What Girls & Guys Said
20 118Because no one wants a serious relationship with someone that easy and who’s slept with half the town.
having a really high body count also indicates quite a few possible red flags.
Yep and he or she is more likely to cheat if they have a higher body count.
@blondfrog mhmm.
that's why,,, take care of your self from those sh*t guy who just want taste you...
really...
I don't know because I don't as long as they are disease free
most of those men are inexperienced maybe still a virgin, don't have much sex in their lives so they want the same little experience as a profile instead of feeling like they are 'severely behind'.
Facts are these men are so insecure that they don't make good relationship material either. The second they may find out the gal has guy friends, oh boy. All sorts of problems with this behavior.
Not that I'm one of those guys, but there's a lot of women looking for men like that too, right?
Yeah women seek that too but don't do it in a creepy way
I wouldn't say I'm looking for a person who doesn't have a romantic past. At this age, it's impossible. But High body count is definitely a red flag. 5 or less is optimal for me.
The reason is, that a high body count raises the question "why there is such a high body count?". Was it because she's a relationship hopper? Was it because she is always looking for casual sex? Was it because she is mentally unstable, so she can't keep a relationship last? etc. You get the idea.
It comes up from intuition. I mean if she's into something stable and if she's relationship material, it's not that hard to find a good guy after 5 people. It rarely goes beyond. Because you know in the beginning you might get caught by shitty guys but you learn from it, right? So you choose the next one with the past experience. So 5 guys should give you the experience to choose someone better and be settled with them. Relationships aren't perfect. Everybody knows that. So if she isn't after something perfect, she must have found it by then.
I know there are rare cases people can be unfortunate regardless the gender, so they might not be able to find one within an optimal body count.
And also I know, the same would apply to guys. True. Since the question is about girls, I answered it from a guy's perspective.
some studies have shown that both males and females. who have had many different sexual partners over their lives. are more likely to have a harder time pair bonding in future relationships.
personally I prefer when a girl has had under 10 past sexual partners. to me anything over that shows commitment issues.
My last ex had a high body count and she turned out to be an untrustworthy hoe
Because they enjoy dreaming about the near-impossible.
It really depends on what you mean by low body count. Before i married my wife, i had been with literally 7 women.. This was between the ages of 15 and 28.. so 13 years. My definition of a high body count varies with age. For example a 20 year old woman who had been with 10 + men, and none of them were serious relationships, i would have a vastly different opinion of, vs a woman who had been with 10 men at the age of 28.. My wife, before i met her (she was 21 when i met her) had been with 5 guys.. To me that is not that much. Even 10, if its not casual sex, is not a high count. I just won't be with someone who engages in casual sex. It, in my opinion, damages their ability to pair bond, and just outright cheapens sex. Oh and before someone stupidly calls me sexist. I have the same opinion regardless of gender.
10 men by age 28 is a 304, sorry not sorry.
I don’t really mind how many people they’ve been with, but if it were a lot, I would have the worry that I’m not going to be good enough for her. But that’s more of an insecurity thing on my end because I’m inexperienced
Since when are women with no romantic past and a low body count the same thing?
It's not but many men say they are the same thing
I want a woman with zero body count. But she can absolutely have a romantic past
Most of the time a romantic past leads to having a count. Not always tho
That's has been always the case as my friend use to put this in this way i don't wanna kiss a mouth where there have been a hundred dicks 👻.
Give me the woman with experience virgins are "dead lays" a lot of the time.
This could be tied to insecurity and or religious beliefs... Or both.
I believe you know the answer to this question
Can you spell h-y-p-o-c-r-i-t-e?
Such woman would not compare you with others.
Such woman would not say "it was bad". For her you would be everything :)
Not to sure about that. I've only ever been with my husband but for sure there have been a few times where I told him it wasn't so good 😂
Yeah, but you only know it with your husband. This makes it with your husband feel better. You don't think "my ex was better". You only compare him with the other times with your spouse.
I guess that's true but still I probably wouldn't compare it to others.
Well, I can only wish you all the fun with your husband :) May he satisfy you
You find? I would rather with somewhat of a romantic past and body count. It helps when being intimate with experience.
No romantic past? Thats wrong. Her romantic past is none of business. The why I prefer women with less body count is that I think sex is for the one who you really love (I'm not talking about marriage) so you can guess I never hooked up. Same way, I would like her to hold the same mindset. I won't call girls with a high body count not worthy of relationship but if its extremely high, then she is an slut already. But no dealbreaker
Spoken like a true never-hooked-up guy