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I've seen a lot of guys here on GaG saying they want a woman with no romantic past so that's why I'm asking this. Im tired of seeing questions about it and wanna know the reason for why guys want this so badly?
Why are so many men looking for women with no romantic past/low body count?
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I've seen a lot of guys here on GaG saying they want a woman with no romantic past so that's why I'm asking this. Im tired of seeing questions about it and wanna know the reason for why guys want this so badly?
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What Girls & Guys Said
20 118Cause I do too. I have a body count of 0.
I think it's a cultural thing. Personally I don't care. Everyone should have lots of sex, otherwise what's the point?
Darling I think opposite...
I like girls with high body counts...
I don’t care as long as I’m the only person she wants now that she’s with me.
I don't get it either. I am very sexual, I want the women I am with to be very sexual too.
I don't really care what there body count or there romantic past was. It was in the past I mostly care about the present and currently if your with me. I feel guys just want virgins and like to think that he was your first and those guys are just morons.
First and foremost because of very deeply rooted insecurities. It's esssentially about control. Most of these men have very reactionary views in general.
Definitely a control thing
It has to do with comparisions. A guy wants to be your best lay. If you have 50 on your scoreboard high odds your current boyfriend will be average and you'll be comparing him to that one best sex. I would always feel inferior to that one monent.
Also guys want to feel impressive meeting and suceeding above expectations. You can't really do that if the girl demands 12 inch p.
Most of guys characteristics can't be change, and also it shows what the girl values, she values sex that much without emotional attachment then she will most likely try to "optimize" with best biological characteristics instead of the pyschological characteristics.
Some of these points translate well for men as well.
Because they are not sluts and ud have respect to have them as your girlfriend.
Probably seeing a lot of virgin males asking for that on here
Yes they seem like virgins
Guess that's just how most guys are. Some guys see it as a risk vs benefit thing too. I mean the higher body count the more likely she has stds and same goes for a guy. I mean last time I remembered I don't think many women are attracted to the type of guy who is a player.
Std thing is a real concern but anything else really isn't
Fair enough.
I see it as just another preference really. I wouldn't go near a woman that has a high body count, but most of the guys I know couldn't care less.. different preferences...
Assumed less baggage
There's a certain charm most women lose after having a lot of partners. They become desensitized to passion and lose their intensity.
No bueno.
What would change once she is married? Would the body count go higher? Thats in the mind of all serious men. Fair or not, its there. A nice girl that sleeps around is seen as someone with a noise, why can't she be in a relationship, is there something wrong with her. That is also in the mind of guys. But, hey, its your right to sleep around, its also mens right to think what they want.
Listen, the way I view such matters, no one should ask what they don't or are unwilling to give.
If you have a low body count or never had sex then you are in the right to desire someone like that as well since you match what you desire in another person.
How did you find that image?
It was on Google
What did you type?
Don't even remember lol I search around a lot until I find the perfect pic for my question
Those men are insecure and figure the more men you have the more you will realize how inadequate the former is because deep down they hate themselves.
Basically what @bamesjond0069 said. I ain’t payin for something she gave away for free to other guys, that would make me feel like a chump. And unlike him, I don’t even sleep around, I have exercised great restraint and I need a woman that has this same level of restraint. Women with high body counts usually come with a bunch of issues as well, issues that are going to unfold in my presence and fk my life up. Basically, I’m going to be paying the price for those other guys’ good times. Fuck that shitty deal…. feels like disrespect to me. I need a girl who’s dad I can talk to like a friend and whom I respect. Then I’ll know he raised her right. If the dad is all for “free spirit” letting his daughter fuck random dudes then I have no interest in joining with this family
I only fk around because I've just assumed realistically ill never find that marriagable girl.
@bamesjond0069 if you live on the west coast like me I honestly can’t blame u man…fking sad situation we find ourselves in…I’m still holding out hope tho, worst case scenario I go to a different country. I can work from anywhere just don’t wanna leave my family
Sadly i live in a very conservative area. But we have been overrun w fake traditional people. Everyone pretends to be traditional but they worry more about sending their girls to college than convincing them to keep their legs closed.
@bamesjond0069 that shit kills me. Even the conservative places are just fake conservative…goddamnit. I’m not even a conservative, I like weed and shrooms and vegan food, I just don’t wanna have babies with a girl who ain’t trustworthy, and girls who hookup just aren’t trustworthy in my opinion
in my opinion you have zero chance barking up the liberal tree. Those girls are the worst. At least the conservative ones try or pretend to try.
Lol to the dad thing. A protective dad will not be too friendly with any guy that his daughter brings home. I have a dad like that and he don't like anybody I ever brought home 😂
Haha yeah but you seem to be better than most girls from what i see on gag. I don't know i usually get along with the real masculine possessive dads. My ex dad was like that and we got on awesome because im like that myself.
@bamesjond0069 I could see you in the future being a girl dad and being protective over them. You definitely give off that vibe
it's usually a sign of emotional problems if she has a high body count
Same with men. I've had gyy frtends who were very promiscuous. Since men are praised for their sexual prowess, no one ever thought there was a problem. But, theybwould cinfide un my sime very heavy stuff from their childhoods. They were quite damaged.
Because they are insecure and believe in unicorns.
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I believe good girls/guys would only have sex with someone they truly love. If body count is high. It means they truly loves a lot of people which is again slutty