Why can’t I get laid at clubs?

There are at least 40 girls at the club and none wants sex with me? This is almost impossible don’t you think?
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  • It sounds really creepy that you know there are at least 40 girls at a club (who fuck counts them and that’s a really small number).

    Also it’s fucking creepy that you know none want sex, that points towards actually asking or coming over as that’s all you want.

    Clubs are for having a laugh n fun, if you tap off with a girl, then it’s a bonus but not always is sex on offer.

    Also in some countries where they use Body Count to shame people, girls are listening and are stopping sex, also I imagine the abortion issue if you are in the US will also reduce sex.

    So between body counts and abortion, expect far far less sex.

    In other countries, we don’t put such shaming etc on it and go out to have fun in clubs.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Clubs never worked for me either. Even if you are decent looking, you are at a disadvantage in terms of being able to show your personality and talk with a woman, find out her interests, etc. I had way more luck at work (although you have to be careful with that). You might have better luck at the supermarket. I don't go to church, but my friend started going just to meet women and did very well.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Because girls aren't at the club to get laid they're there to have fun with their mates.

    The fact you're trying to get with potentially drunk/drugged up women is a big red flag. Try somewhere where people are sober and actually capable of making rational decisions.

    • @smashingdoozy that and he counted how many girls

  • Definitely not impossible - hence why it’s not happening. Women don’t just go to clubs to be picked up. Also perhaps your approach is off and no one really wants to go home with a random dude anymore. Too many horror movies start that way

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  • Your looking in the wrong place. Try targeting that lone girl at the bus stop who didn't manage to pull a guy in the club instead

  • XD XD XD XD

  • Try getting a date instead of going straight for sex as the goal.

  • Try going there to listen to the music to have fun dance . If your going there just to get laid. its not going to happen when standing st the door and asking every girl that walks in do you want to fuck it's only obvious then girls just don't want to fuck they want a relationship now some girls do but you can't just go about it the way that you're doing it

  • probably because you seem to feel entitled to it...

  • I don't know, I've never had a lot of trouble picking girls up at clubs or bars.

  • Why do you believe they are looking for sex with anyone?

    Impossible? Hardly. Why should they pick you?

  • Agree. I don't know why everyone suggests clubs/bars to meet people? lol

  • you're either broke or shaggy or both

  • Why can’t I get laid at clubs?

  • what makes you think that a club is the place to find a one night stand? I get the reputation but not everyone goes for that

  • Well they probably 80 guys at the club so you might have a lot of competition and you might be going for the wrong girls. Going with this mind set don't go for the girls you want to have sex with go for the girls you can have sex with. Also never go to a group of girls to hit on one and don't expect sex have low expectations usually nature will takes it course and sexual attraction will happen.

  • you're playing a rigged game.

  • Women can smell a desperate horndog from a mile away. And they find it very unattractive.
    And if you also lack basic social skills or don't know how to talk to women without being a weirdo or a creep, your chances are zero.

  • Not really

  • You are doing something way wrong.

  • Just buy it if you want it that bad

  • This is how human nature works. The few richest tallest men get all the girls. Look at the birth rate of both genders in history

  • You have zero game, and I've given up on teaching this to guys on this site. Guys on this site are beyond help. Just sit back and watch the real players move in for the kill.
    Then go home and complain on GAG.

    • You also doin the same 😹

    • @Aakash_Hangargi That's it? LMAO Wow, you got game. I'll let you teach the tards how it's done.