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Why do attractive women give blowjobs even though it is degrading to them?

beautiful women are godesses they shouldn't demean themselves by getting down on their knees and putting some guy's dick in their mouth, and swallowing his cum. they are saying 'fuck dignity who needs' it just so they can make their guy feel good. it's ok for plain and unattractive women to give head but why are beautiful so okay with doing something so disgusting and degrading?
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just to be clear, it's fairly obvious that the only young women who would say it isn't degrading are those who also tell themselves this at night because they care more about sucking dick than keeping their dignity
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  • Women seek approval, acceptance and love. Many women feel good when they can make their man feel good. Pretty girls have the same needs. For women it's more so about reaction. They r receptive by nature. There is a reason make up, hair styling and clothing r all BILLION dollar industries. Women need validation, that's why compliments r appreciated by them. They know guys love sex, so they want to be good at it because it pleases us. So in a woman's eyes giving a guy a BJ is not degrading, she will feel it's a compliment if she can make him cum n she does it right. If 99% of men like sex, this means she will have to pick a guy who likes sex unless she wants to be alone n most girls hate being alone.

    Women gravitate towards what men like. Men like pretty women, so that's why they take dressing up so seriously. They will deny it n use excuses like it's for comfort but they want to be wanted by men.

    So if guys like blow jobs, chances r u will find plenty of women willing to get down on their knees

    • i already said i know they do it to please their guys, but there are other, non-degrading ways to please. the problem is that they care so much about pleasing a guy that they lose their dignity in the process. there is simply no way they don't see what they're doing as degrading to them. maybe they're just good at blocking out the feelings of debasement or they get good at it after they've been doing it for a while

  • If you think it's disgusting and degrading, why do you want her to do it? Is going down on her disgusting as well? Blow jobs are complicated psychologically: it's submissive but she has a very valuable possession in her mouth with all those teeth so she's in control to some degree.

    • it's not a valuable possesion, it's a filthy dick. oh yeah, the fact she can bite his cock off at will makes it SOOO much more dignified

    • Wow!! I sincerely hope no woman is ever mislead enough to think that you might even remotely respect or value her. Get some help with your view of sex. You have it so wrong I won't hazard to describe.

    • i would respect a woman who respects herself. "get some help with..." um, ok... but what if i don't give a fuck what you think?

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  • ... giving a guy a blowjob by choice is degrading? Hm... that's odd. I find giving my boyfriend to be more of a power-trip than anything else. Sure, I like doing it to bring pleasure to someone I care for, but I find the idea that I've got his dick in my mouth, resulting in having him like putty in my hands, to be a huge turn on.

    Don't flatter yourself. Blowjobs aren't only for your pleasure.
    ps. consult a dictionary before you embarrass yourself any more.

    • consult a dictionary because i (may have) made a few typos? i don't know why people are implying i said that choice and actually wanting to do it means it's not degrading anymore. and yes, blowjobs ARE for the guy's pleasure and nothing else. you said yourself you like it because it makes him feel good. you get NO pleasure from the act itself. let's get one thing clear, you are not on the power trip here. you're on your knees for crying out loud. the fact that his "putty in your hands" does not make you the on control. if you didn't do it, he would just find another girl who would. it's not exactly hard to get off on a blowjob, unless the girl is really terrible at it. i would have told you that you shouldn't ever give head because you're better than that, but obviously that ship has long since sailed

    • yes. Because all men are animals. Incapable of thinking with their big head and treating females in a civilized manner. Of their girlfriends meaning more to them than free pussy. Or maybe that's just you... ah well, guess someone's got to take the short end of the stick, eh? Degrading: causing a loss of self-respect; humiliating. My self-respect is 100% intact. I love making someone I care for feel good, almost as much as I love receiving the same in return. That's cool that you've never experienced that and instead choose to channel your bitterness into hating on those who have.

    • ah, i forgot there were kids who use this site. my advice would be to grow up and get some self-respect, but the second is probably a lost cause. if you're such an animal now, who knows what you'll be like when you reach puberty

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  • So what's with the double standard between women you think are attractive and regular average women? Why do you think it's degrading for a very pretty woman to do oral sex but it's perfectly fine for an average woman? I've never heard of any guy having a problem with getting blow jobs from any woman so that's why I'm asking.

    Is it also degrading to guys if they're giving oral sex to women?

  • Wow you really must not have luck with women

    We give head because we want too. It's sexy.

    • so because i have an issue it means i have never experienced it? grow up and who's "we"? is there more than one person sitting at your pc?

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  • Duh, it's obviously NOT disgusting and NOT degrading.

    • says a horny old woman

  • I can accept (however reluctantly) that to your eye at least, felatio is necessarily degrading.

    What does not follow from that assertion however, is the premise that women can be sorted into groups as follows:
    - those who should not be demeaned
    - everyone else
    Beyond that, it does not follow that membership in these groups should be determined by physical beauty. Nor does it follow that women should not have a choice in this matter.

    You have a sexual hangup and have chosen that the way to deal with it is to impress this hangup on everyone else. That which becomes universal need not be thought of any longer would seem to be your rationale. Your problem of course is that the vast majority of people don't agree with you.

    Further question:
    What specifically about urine do you find problematic. Everyone makes it. We each relieve ourselves as needed, it's not like there is a continuous trickle flowing. Urine itself is sterile unlike that germ ridden mouth saliva transfered while kissing. Basically, what I'm saying is that I'm unsure what there is about urine that renders a penis unfit for receiving sexual pleasure.

    Finally, are women not ultimately in control of what acts they perform, with whom, and their intended meaning? I don't see your role in this at all.

  • Really? LoL some women just like to do it. Satisfying your partner should never feel degrading, if it does then dont do it. And if u think less of someone just because they give head then u need to reevaluate.

    • read question update

    • Lmfao, this is hilarious, im pretty fucking attractive, i am definitely a lady in the street freak in the sheets and i love the taste of cum. I love sex, which includes all aspects of it. I love the feeling of being choked, and especially choked by a guy forcefully feeding his dick to me. Having an honest relationship and being with someone who can appreciate that quality respects me and my wishes just as i would respect and be respectful of his kinks. As long as you both are ok with it and its respectful and you are in a safe relationship it is dignified.

    • keep in my mind i have no problem with unattractive woman giving oral sex, so you do what you want

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  • I sense a troll...

  • So you're saying wanting to make your significant other happy is degrading?
    I ,... sure don't want to know what else is going on in your mind xD

    • you're putting the organ he pisses out of in your mouth just so he can feel good, so yes

  • If you view oral sex as demeaning or degrading, your inhibitions will probably cause significant problems in your relationships.

    • if i want to get head i would find an average looking girl to do it i would never expect a beautiful one i was in a relationship with to suck my dick

  • isn't that entirely based on opinion

    • if you mean that most people prefer to ignore the issue, then i guess so

  • Wtf, it's not degrading.
    Smells like a troll.

    • read my question i make it perfectly clear how degrading it is

  • You don't need to get on your knees to suck some dick.

    • not the point

  • Its am myth that that girls are not horny or slutty. They are more hornier than us. So while you think of getting a blow job. They also like getting slapped and chocked my ur cock ( my girl told me this) and she likes to get chocked on my cock and gets wet when i do that to her.

  • Because my penis is delicious.

  • Well good looking guys do the same soo..

    • yes but goodlooking guys are just guys. attractive women are godesses

    • ummm... ook.. well women don't think they are

  • "so okay with doing something so disgusting and degrading"

    Such a vaginal thing to say...

    • Thats was so punny

  • Women are not goddesses, they are nothing more than human.
    It is not degrading to have oral love.
    And if it is disgusting to you when women give blowjobs, go do em yourself, you can save some poor goddess the "humiliation".

    • not all women r, just pretty ones. and y would i do it myself? i neva even heard of sumthing like dat be4. u a fucking freak. where u get such weird shit?

  • You're a troll or you need to join the rest of us in the in the 21st century. Either way, you're dumb..

    • the opinion of a guy who sucks dick really isn't relevant here

  • well i don't think most women think of themselves as goddesses

    • most women are not godesses, only beautiful ones. but speaking for those women, if they give blowjobs then clearly they don't. they don't know their own self-worth

  • What the hell is this question supposed to be?

  • So you think its only ok for average women to give head? that's ridiculous. Nearly all girls like doing it and they all have different reasons for liking it. It doesn't matter what they look like

  • Who wanna give me a bj? Any goddess?

  • 1. Why are you only focusing on attractive women?
    2. It is not degrading. I guess you think a guy eating out a girl is degrading as well.

    • 1. because i don't really see it as degrading if the woman isn't attractive 2. no i don't see a guy eating a girl out as degrading for some reason, but that could just be because i value attractive women more than i do guys

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