Why do girls who enjoy sex get called a whore but it isn't even mentioned for guys?

Why do girls who enjoy sex get called a whore but it isnt even mentioned for guys?

So I joined this site to ask some questions about sexuality, a topic I find fun and enjoy talking about! I have fully embraced my sexuality and have an amazing sex life because of that. But I received messages calling me a whore! What I also find weird is why someone takes the times to read sex related posts... just to send abusive messages, why does it bother people so much what a woman does and if she enjoys sex? When for a guy it really isn't a topic, a guy is expected to enjoy sex but if a girl does they're a whore?

(I am aware some girls like being called this or similar words as part of their sex life and dirty talk but this isn't what I mean here and this isn't what the messages mean either)

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  • I agree with @orangeandturquoise

  • Because men and women aren't the same. Men have to work to get laid and fail a lot to get sexual abundance. Women dont have to do anything. So a man that fucks a lot of women has value, women that sleep around a lot lose value. Women get shamed for being premuscious, men get shamed for being virgins

  • a double standard set by men thousands of years ago, somethings never change

  • It's mostly because of the media and how men and women are portrayed differently and not equally.

  • That's a good question. Girls who love sex I don't call whores I call them a blessing

  • It’s just the double standard sense guys want sex usually way more than women so it’s kind of unheard of when a woman likes it a lot but I don’t understand the name-calling either because I would just happen to like that type of woman

  • I thought they were called sluts? Whores are women who sells sex. A woman who has a lot of sex without being paid is a slut. Maybe they said it as a insult?

    It might be like how some people think a guy is a incel because he has opinions they don't like.

  • yeah it is they're called man whores or men whores

  • Double standards, just like when they say that girls can be bi and that it's so sexy, meanwhile guys can't be bi they are secretly gay and it's gross.

  • Yeah, there is a sexist pig on here that will jump on sexuality posts just to insult women.

  • Idiotic society

  • Oh come on, no one is this fucking dumb.

    Every single fucking time someone calls you a name its because they are pissed off with you about something, the specifics of the insult almost never means anything at all nor has any relationship what so ever with what the person is angry about.

    Don't fucking tell me that you literally just started being a human yesterday and have never in your life insulted or felt the urge to insult someone.

    Your whining is absolutely insane..

    Paraphrasing 'I have 10 cocks in me at a time and I never charged anyone a dime, clearly I am not technically a whore so why is this religious fundamentalist calling me that? I just don't get it?'

    You understand fully so stop playing this silly game.

    • You're extremely rude