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  • They may be your first. That comes with a memory that will last a lifetime. Most guys will want your memory to be a good one. Being inexperienced adds to the pressure of not knowing what to do short of basic concepts.
    Also, guys want to have sex with experienced girls but prefer to date the "road less traveled." Smart girls should have the same attitude, by the way.

    Some guys don't want to waste time fumbling around with a woman that has little idea what she is doing. Personally, I find this attitude very selfish.

    Some guys have never had sex, and don't want a girlfriend that knows more about sex than they do. It then becomes the guy that fumbling around not know what to do. Very unsexy.

    YMMV, but this is my take on the subject.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't. The first time is painful for most girls and many are not virgins by at 12 to 13. I made sure my girls were on the pill by 12 and I told them it wasn't an open invitation to have sex but to prevent them from getting pregnant in case of forced sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think it could have something to do with insecurity about their sexual performance hence why they would look for a person who is less experienced. It could also be that the guy could see taking a girl's virginity as a conquest or something to brag about. All of this leads back to society's attitude towards women and their sexuality.

  • I think some guys think that if you're not a virgin then that means you will feel the need to cheat. And some guys are worried you will have a disease. And some guys are worried that you will have had bigger and better guys than them.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It could be related to insecurity. The thought of being compared to previous sex partners makes some guys uncomfortable.

  • I don't think most guys do. I'm a virgin waiting for marriage so I hope my future wife is too, but I think I'm pretty rare.

  • They really don’t.

  • I think cause deep inside they are scared to be worse than the last guy she had, which isn't an issue with virgin girls.

    Also, it's less likely to get the cooters from a virgin.

  • Yes. I prefer if the girls IS NOT a virgin.
    I don't get it why would anyone want that. I had them before and the sex is horrible.
    I have to be so careful with them. They are no good at blowjobs. They have no idea to what they are doing.

  • 1 because we like to be a first for someone so we leave our mark. 2nd because fresh virgin pussies are the tightest and feels Soo amazing!!

  • I dont care about it

  • I feel like it's a very special moment in a woman's life, so being the one she wants to experience it with made it more than just sex to me. I also enjoyed turning good girls bad though 😈

  • Not all of us do.

  • We don't well at least I dont

  • they're brainwashed to fetishize virgins and think non-virgins are bad.

  • I don't believe most of us do; perhaps they're just more vocal regarding preference.

  • I couldn't care less about virginity.

  • Don’t care about virginity but do care about body count.

  • only virgin guys care about this

  • It requires a different approach.
    You have to take your time and make it memorable for her.

  • if you are a virgin then the guy will be your 1st, thats important to some guys with low self esteem, but only 1 guy can be your 1st, so its meaningless. Maybe they dont think they can stand up to being compared to you previous boyfriend... lol guys are funny

  • We want to have that medal honouring us as the first person on earth to screw/fuck her up.
    And nothing sweet and sexy like knowing that you are having sex with a Virgin.

  • Of course it would be nice to be with a girl that nobody touches. Would you like your man to have had sexual intercourse before?

  • It's not a big deal to me personally

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