Why do guys find bisexual women not wife material?

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  • Most men want to be the only person in a woman's life if they marry her. And if she enjoys being with another woman, she likely will not be satisfied with just him. On the other hand, many men welcome a bisexual woman as a wife because the will often bring another woman into the bed that he can also enjoy.

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  • @itsalyssaagain Some guys don't find bisexual women as wife material because they believe there's a greater chance of her being not faithful.

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  • Because the guys are biphobic and insecure, and unwilling to actually just set boundaries and healthy expectations within a relationship.

    I was engaged to a straight man and I'm bisexual. It didn't work out, but that was on him - he dropped the ball big time on his life and I realized he was actually looking for a mother, not a partner.

    But sexuality has no bearing on whether or not someone is marriage material (if you're in the right demographic for their sexual orientation).

    Personality, boundaries, compatability, communication - those dictate (among other things) marriage capability.

  • I think that the guys who think that are either insecure, had bad experiences that influence their judgment or have some serious prejudice based on their upbringing, environment, beliefs etc

  • Plenty do.

  • Must admit, I’ve never heard that.

    I have friends that are bisexual and married.

    Equally I have straight, gay and lesbian friends that are married.

    Never really had any problems with any bisexual girl I’ve dated.

  • Because we don't want to marry a F*CKING lesbian?
    Someone who doesn't genuinely like you, or men in general.
    Someone who thinks about women all the time, and only keeps you around as physical protection and financial support.
    Someone who even if she claimed to genuinely like (she doesn't), you'd be physically unequipped to please in the bedroom because you're not a woman.
    Someone who's 100% guaranteed to either cheat on you OR persuade you into a three-way with another person so she can cuck you.
    Not to mention, someone with a VERY low chance of being monogamous or anti-woke.

    I am fine with gay people being gay, or even trans people, but few women disgust me and make my skin crawl more than half-assed lesbians. I'm like f*ck, if you want to be gay, then be gay. 100% commit to it. But don't exploit, abuse, and gaslight men while also being a lesbian. This sh*t infuriates me. And what's worse is, so many shameless cuckold men with absolutely NO dignity or self-respect go along with it, for some pathetic, sh*tty 'porn fantasy' or fetish. I mean, I'll try not to talk ill of the cuckold men, but honestly, I wouldn't want a man that emasculated and gross around me, either. Someone who hooks up with a girl who OPENLY ADMITS she's not into him or his gender, but likes using him anyway.

    I try to be an open-minded person as much as I can, but pseudo-lesbians genuinely disgust me. Like I said, genuine out-and-about gay women would appreciate these half-assed gay people being with them a lot more than the cuck men who decide to be with gay women. I'm sorry if that offends you, but their existence offends ME.

  • Oh I don't think that's true. I'm bi and married. Never been a issue for my husband

    • Surprise him with a fmf threesome on your 10th year anniversary 😅 then he certanly knows he made the right decision, even more than now.

    • @cookiecrusher he isn't interested in having one. Trust me I've tried

    • There are 2 guy in the world who don't like fmf threesomes and you happened to get one of them. Oh well, his loss 🙃😗

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  • Some guys are not into a threesome, and they might worried about her cheating with a woman.

  • I'd be fine with a bi wife. Indeed, I would even be fine with her sleeping with other women. Women are sexy, I get it. But I can't be one and have no interest in pretending.

  • I personally don't have an issue with it, but I am aware that there are guys that do not like bisexual women. I can only think it's because they feel threatened somehow, that they aren't the only person who can satisfy them sexually. It's possibly also they are under the misconception that they think bisexuals will naturally cheat on them.

  • Many hear people think if someone is bi they have a higher chance of cheating

  • Guys? Some, certainly not all.

  • If they can commit to a choice and do not consider bisexuality as a free pass to cross over and not consider it as cheating, I could.

  • They think since they are attracted to both men and women they have more options and will end up cheating.

  • If we loved each other and agreed that we were in a monogamous relationship then I'd have no issue with it

  • Who said that? lol

  • I think I would be concerned about how confused they might be about their sexuality. What if she decides later that she really does not like guys al that much and wants to just be with women.

  • I don't know. They might be dumb. I am really supportive and fine with it

  • Are you Bi?

  • My wife is bisexual

  • She could be if she doesn't cheat and is faithful. Then it wouldn't matter if she's bisexual. But maybe she wants a girl sometimes or often.

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