Some guys really like it rough and it sounds like your guy is new to this and doesn't understand that wanting it rough doesn't mean you are giving him carte blanch with your body. Away from the sex, tell him what you like and what you don't and ask him if he can respect your limits. If he says no, move on. If yes, make sure he does. If you get things worked out and you want to engage in mock forced sex where you resist and tell him stop and no but don't mean it, here's a Take that you need to read first:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7026-safe-words-for-role-play-sex
Thanks for the MHO. I"m glad you found it helpful.
I think he's just doing that because you asked for it. It's important to be honest with eachother - if you want him to stop, you have to tell him to stop!
Sometime when you're not doing it, talk about this with him. Maybe he thinks he's doing what you asked for but he's going too far because he doesn't know exactly what you want. Rough sex is a broad term and people have their own ideas of what that means.
You need to set your limits with him and I would suggest a safe word, other than stop or get the F off me or ow, jk.
He probably isn't sure how rough you like it. Give him an idea of what is too rough so that he knows how far he should take it.
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guys like it like that, it helps them more
Can't speak for all guys... but for me personally, I enjoy being the rough dominant one!
You should ask him
Why do girls cry when u choke them. Im trying to get off their tears are ruining my boner.
Wow lol
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