First let me mention we should not generalize gender's willingness.
1. Not every guy would like to do it. 2. Many women wish for it as well (as you mentioned it)
What anal sex provides: (for both parties)
A new sexual exploration / A different sensation / A new experience / A different way to stimulate G-spot from a different angle which is much stronger and cause a heavier orgasm for women / A new drive regarding couple's sex life.
Beside the G-spot stimulation, anal sex hugely is the state of mind. many women desire it naturally and it comes by a psychological status which drives their curiosity and improves their sensations.
Anal sex is a varied subject, -some like it -some don't like it -some don't like it due bad experience -some like due good experience and joy. to answer other part of your question, personally, i have spoken to women who had a better orgasm via anal sex and they enjoy doing it. also, men's desire usually comes from a fantasy and desire toward women's butt and the tightness of the organ.
Generally, people must first get educated about sex before start doing it. therefore, Anal sex requires it's preparedness. if it be done right, relaxation, right stimulation, enough lubrication, proper healthcare while being careful. it can be a very wonderful experience for the parties. it is totally an individual decision. thus disagreements and agreements exist by the both parties.
There are lots of things that you don't understand or think you would like when you are young. When most of us were little kids we though kissing was gross. "That's where your spit is" Then we though sex was gross "that's where you pee from" etc. The first time I saw normal penis to vagina porn I was grossed out. I was young, my brain was under developed.
The older you get the more things you will find as it so gross. Once you experience more and more sexual arrousals you will see more things as understandable and less gross.
For me, anal is taboo, not the norm, it's somewhat rare (less and less recently), but I love it. I don't care if it's where her shit comes from. When you are aroused to a certain degree that is irrelevant.
I respect your opinions though.
Guys desire variety. Anal sex provides it especially it is tighter than pussy.
Thanks for selecting me MHG.
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I have done it but only because the girl literally begged me but I didn't really enjoy it but then again I don't really enjoy intercourse that much either... i love foreplay and oral sex ( giving ) most
Because it's a different hole to explore. And it's more tight. And it could come off as an even greater act of dominance to do it to a woman.
I don't. I personally consider it a little bit strange, granted my tastes are also strange as well. I would much rather have a footjob.
Tighter
More sensation
No condom
Power/vanquishing mentality
Some guys want her to experience discomfort/pain
Never have, never will.
People are a diverse bunch, but a fair number, male and female, find that sort of play pleasurable. Why do guys seek it? It's different. Why would girls suggest it? Pleasure and variety.
Well i dont like it, but i respect who likes it, to me is just as you say, its from there we defecate, dont see pleasure on it, and i guess its painful for women.
I'm not too fond of anal either because of that reason lol
I have done it once with a woman that asked me to do so.. It was not an enjoyable experience.
My guess:
*-They've seen it in porn
*-Their penis is numb from masturbating (https://www. vice. com/read/is-death-grip-syndrome-a-masturbation-myth-293 ) and they search mmore friction than a vagina.
something that baffles me too. I never get turned on by anal sex.
But hey, each for their own.. there are some who has worse voyuers or kinks
no ways, I hate anal sex..
Ugh, I don't know. It sounds utterly disgusting. Honestly, I don't even get why people do that kind of stuff.
Never done it. Would like to try it of course. can't be bad since so many people (men and wonen) enjoy it that much.
I never done it.
You know girls don't poop
some vaginas are loose so...
You do realise that the vagina is like the mouth, that no matter how many times you stretch it, it will go back to it's original state. So I don't understand what you mean by "loose". Vagina's being loose is a myth made up by men who get tired having sex with the same woman
probably but asshole is still tight and tighter than any vagina even yours since you're under 18. I am straight.
and you're 69 years old. so you're saying you enjoy anal?
i don't like anal even girl be Virgin
Unexplored territory
because it is more tight
Speaking from experience?
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