Why do guys like putting their hands on a girl's waist so much?

I'm just wondering why guys seem to like putting their hands on a girl's waist so much? Especially if I'm at a club, it's like a guy will put his hands on my waist or put one on the small of my back even if we're not dancing. To be totally honest, I LOVE IT! :D I love the way a big, masculine pair of hands feel around my tiny, little waist. Something about it feels protective. But I'm just curious why guys do this? I've seen them do it with other girls to? Is it meant in a sweet, affectionate way or a more "lets f***" way?

So, Why do guys like putting their hands on a girl's waist so much?

Thanks :)

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  • I don't know about other guys but I don't like it... it's just my duty to keep other club goers safe. That method is simply how I look for hidden weapons on you.
    How should you respond? ... just don't scream. 😏

  • Cause we know you love it. Also it's nice for us too xD

  • If she's got a nice waist, I can't keep my hands off !!

  • Because attractive girls need to get fucked.

  • Because it feels good? Intimate without necessarily being sexual
    Best way to respond to it if you like the guy I think I would suggest just putting your hand on top of his maybe your fingers between his
    No need to say anything

  • it's like when a girl grabs your arm and her boobs are pushed against the side of your arm, love that!

  • so you can sneak and touch their ass cuz we are horny.

  • To feel someone who love him and not going anywhere else

  • This is not right for men to put their hands on women unless invited to do so.
    Just move away from him.

  • A good reponse that my girlfriend does (which drives me crazy 😍), is she looks down then looks up at me all sexy and puts her arms around my neck. Or (if its side to side) leans into me and looks up. Hope this helped!

  • You cannot imagine...
    One of the best things of being a male is that feeling...

  • It's a subtle sexual signal.

  • easier to grab and kiss

  • i dont care why,, just do it😍

  • Honestly guys generally prefer to hold a girl's waist because it increases the emotional (and sometimes sexual) intensity. Me, if I were doing it with a girlfriend, I would be doing it because I probably would a) feel more at home and b) feel like I can keep her safe. Some guys it's a sweet expression of emotion whether it be friendship or love, or it's more seductive than just that.

    • Me I also like it because it's very comfortable, and really soft. Trust me when I say it's the best feeling in the world for a guy (in my case non sexually)

  • Girls like it as much as the guy

  • We love to do that for two reasons that first is it gives is a measure of control and secondly it let all the other guys know your with me even if your not it's like staking your claim so to speak

  • What do you think of a guy at the club putting his hands on your butt?

  • That's the favourite place to hold a girl.

  • Waist is the only thing a guy can grab of a women in a romantic way without sexualizing the whole scene

    • Lol pretty much. I guess the shoulders too.

    • Yes like wise

    • You have a nice sense of style by the way. A lot classier than just a regular hoody thrown over a t-shirt like many girls do. lol

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