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Sexual Health Why do guys look down on promiscuous women?
cyndyrene Xper 5
Every since I discovered what sex is and the pleasures that come from having sex, I've always been fascinated with it. And even more fascinating is the backlash, I get from being open and curious about my sexuality. Guys obviously find me attractive. And I don't believe in playing coy and acting like I don't want the 'D'. So most of my relationships have started with sex on the first date, and I use that word relationship loosely. After the excitment wears off, I find myself bored ready for the next conquest, or the guy just stops texting me and I have no choice but to move on. I often see post about how you're suppose to make a guy chase it and if not you're a whore basically. And I find that odd. Guys why don't you guys like woman who are promiscuous? Is it egos? Or is it society? I don't judge men who sleep around, and that's encouraged. yet when a woman does it she loose value. Why is that? Why should I be in control of all the hormones in my body urging me to 'mate' yet a guy doesn't have to? Why?
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4 23cause promiscuity is not attractive simple as that. sorry for being so straightforward but no. its not that "you appreciate sex", you are spiritually and physically ill.
the same applies for promiscuous men. i don't discriminate them the slightest.
Really? That's interesting. Is it attractive in a guy then?
"MOST of my relationships", "i use that word rarely". wow imagine if you have "most" relationships (at least 10 i guess?) imagine how many the non-relationship encounters were. "After the excitment wears off, I find myself bored ready for the next conquest," i dont know about other people but in my ears these words ring in an absolutely disgusting tone. there is something called conscience you know, not all "prudeness of society" comes from social conditioning. humans have natural antibodies against unnatural things.
i already stated its the same for men, not attractive or decent. society might congratulate that behavior but guess what society can be messed up and empty.
Interesting.. well thanks for your input. :)
you are welcome. some of the many reasons for which i think promiscuity isn't good. 1) it shows the person doesn't respect her/his body and others. 2) it tends to de-spiritualize and carnalize people turning them to hedonistic meat. while humans are able for much more scended states of being. 3) intimate relationships/encounters create sentimental bonds. you might not be affected usually but ever thought how the other person feels? ever wondered if its really ethical to tempt, provoke, capture hearts and then break them? 4) it depletes the physical and spiritual reserves of the person ad when it actually decides to make a solid family its already spent away and its heart torn in many dispersed pieces 5) it increases the chances of stds, infertility, social and working environment stigma etc.
The fact that you believe a person who engages in copious amounts of secs show a lack of respect for themselves is mind boggling to me. Everything else you said makes sense but that doesn't. I can enjoy sex, with multiple people and have respect for myself.
well you actually don't if you are alright with it being the pleasure tool of several men instead for saving it with someone very special. you also expose it to the dangers of stds, herpes etc. and an unwanted pregnancy, if aborted can lead you to sterility. all these dont look very self respecting to me.
But I'm using men to get myself off. So it's not just them using me, but me using them as well. Additionally, I can go my whole life being pure and save it for the right person, to end up with an std or herpes. ALL SEX LEADS TO THE EXPOSURES OF STDS AND PREGNANCY! Morse so, is this 1950, not all abortions end in infertility. Get a grip sir.
you know that i am right. you are just being defensive and taking it to the extreme now. and to take it a philosophical step further who said that using others isn't damaging and direspectful to one's self first? society teaches that whoever manipulates is "smart" i tell you he is actually a loser and what he loses firstly is his well meant childish naivety and beauty, his innocence and the ability to build sincere and trusting bonds with others. there is no using others wiithout spending yourself. just think about it. as for not all abortions leading into sterility yes, they don't all lead there but they also can cause damages or infections to the curvix, a ptosis of the uterus, heavy bleeding and more.
You are not right. Your giving your opinion which isn't a fact. I disagree with your point of view but I welcome it. I find it interesting that people think how you think and it's oh Kay. Thanks for your opinion.
i respect your opinion too. one thing is certain truth is subjective. either one of us is right or both wrong. time will show. great and meaningful days to you ma' am.
Sluts are gross.. Simple