Why do guys only want me for sex or sexual pictures but never want to get to know me?

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  • Why do SOME guys. Or rather boys. Take note of a few things. 1. Your age telles me the boys might be in the same age group ish. And tells me inexperienced and still hormonally crazy stuff. 2. Some details are missing, we don't know how you behave towards your interests, are you "opening" to much to fast? Instead of flirting a little bit you flirt to much? I mean like you should have gone with 10% but you went all in instead?

    What it basically boils down to is experians. You are to young for older guys to take you serious. And the boys your age is to horny to take you seriously. It's a rock and a hard place type of thing. But don't give up. Even among them horny hormonal bastards there are a few good ones.

Most Helpful Guy

  • At 19 a guy has a list of interests- sex is at the very top, and getting to know you (or most girls) is pretty low. If he has to get to know you to get sex from you some guys will, but that's usually a pretty good litmus test.

    Why are you giving sex to people who don't want anything but that, IF you seem interested in them connecting with you on an emotional/ intellectual level?

Most Helpful Girls

  • You’re talking to the wrong men and need some who are more mature. You deserve better. Go for guys somewhat older or meet some in person via a coffee shop, park, store, work etc.

  • I usually ignore thos type of guys really. Faced cupple of the non here and just leave them on read

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If you get treated consistently by all members of the opposite sex, it means that you are either selecting guys who will treat you that way, or you are sending a signal - perhaps subconsciously - that you want to be treated that way.

  • You have not met any men yet, most males are boys, but there are a few men. And the same goes for females. I who try my best at least to try and aspire to be a man, always likes to know the soul of the woman, it's what drives all my passions. In fact, if the mind and soul of a woman fire my fancies, I can cut many, many conners about her looks.

    So, keep looking, and be a little patient, class is always a fleeting commodity in a sea of mediocrity.

  • Because they’re creeps or trolls

  • If you demonstrate that is what you value yourself for they will believe you. If you want different don't accept being treated like that.

  • Find another guy

  • My guess us that you are very attractive.

    • im not attractive just men are so perverted

  • Because guys today were raised wrong and have no class.

  • You're 19 and I presume hanging out with guys about your age. At that age we are just wanting sex is the truth.

    If you are giving sex and sexual pics they are quite happy. when guys get a bit older they are more interested in getting to know the gir.

  • Most bitches are boring. Sorry. With most girls the most interesting thing about them is their body.

    Try learning a hobby.

  • umm cuz you dont let them. when guys ask you on a date or a meetup somewhere. it clearly means they want to get to know you. for Men the definition of getting to know someone is by person and not by the virtual world of technology. which most women do

  • Probably because they're very shallow. Are you looking for a long term relationship?

    • The guys you're talking with may also be very immature. Are you incredibly beautiful that alsobmay cause some guys to ask or say stupid things.

  • You haven’t answered any gag questions to help others yet.

    • What?

    • Which word did you not understand?

  • Because you let them.

  • Sadly that's all they want from you. You might be very sexy and beautiful and want you for sex but don't care for your personality.

  • Do you want to get to know men? Like ask yourself that seriously.

  • Maybe because you put out too easily.

  • That's hoe most guys are these days. Avoid them.

  • Maybe you're talking to the wrong ones?

  • Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex.
    Women wanted equality and freedom.
    This is the unintended consequence.

  • Its probably your age im assuming that you date/see guys close to your age and well they're as dumb as a box of rocks with only one thing on their minds
    They just need to grow up and when they do they'll start thinking of what matters more

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