Why do guys sleep with women they're not attracted to?

I have a friend who is a man whore. I mean that honestly. He sleeps with any woman who has a vagina. He's an attractive guy, nice, but he definitely has some self esteem issues. He doesn't discriminate against anyone, which is actually pretty sad; he has no standards. He recently screwed a stripper in one of the little rooms at the strip club. It's not like he's being praised for his behavior either, or like it's a badge of honor to be such a whore. His friends are actually quite disgusted with it. Besides, the obvious reasons to have sex; why does he sleep with so many women?
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Seriously, this dude would put his d*ck in a hole in the wall. He will screw anything.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • 1. lol that reminds me of myself ha ha ha ha
    2. I've never been with another woman when I'm in a relationship UNLESS the relationship has some deep set problems and those problems start because of the woman in my life calling me 'man whore' etc lol and excessively
    3. Like my separated wife and my current girlfriend get really insecure that I'm a good looking guy who has his share of women's attention, I like looking at women (not gawk or ogle but yes if she catches my attention I will give her a look), they have problems the way I use my language i. e. they say my mannerisms, chivalry etc must be restricted to them and if I extend it to anyone else it's flirting and that I am trying to have sex with her (There are so many examples)
    4. They overdo it so much that at a point of frustration I just begin doing it, I'm a guy with an almost unlimited libido whichever way
    5. For me it's not a matter of proving anything to myself or low self esteem but with this guy it may well be that
    6. There can be so many other reasons why such things occur, maybe a physiological or psychological compulsion that requires treatment
    7. Maybe he just likes being that way
    8. For me a woman or sex has never been a badge of honor. I've found that whole idea of 'scoring' to show off quite disgusting and a trait of the insecure who want to crow about things they've done and worse ones they haven't even in my teens
    9. Honestly? I don't care what the world thinks of anything as long as I know what and why it's happening :-)

    • Thank YOU so much for the MH young lady :-) I didn't quite expect it I must say lol. But your generous and gracious gesture is well taken and wholly appreciated :-) Too bad we won't know who we are since both of us are anon but I have good reason to go anon on this one which is NOT a sense of shame for sure :-D

  • Some men have a stronger impulse than others to sleep with as many women as possible. It's a good evolutionary strategy to sleep with lots of women while being in a relationship with one woman you'd 'love' (ie raise children with).

    Most strippers are hot, just questionable to most for relationships. If men didn't find them attractive they wouldn't earn money stripping.

    • I want to know where you live, because the strippers here in California are disgusting. I am the first to compliment another woman for being pretty, but these chicks are gross and look like trashy tweeker - coked out strippers.

Most Helpful Girls

  • A lot of guys I've known like that have been sexually molested or introduced to sex too young by older females.

    While it may be the male nature to pursue casual sex, most do have some standards and dignity.

  • Well who are you to judge what he finds attractive and what he doesn't? Maybe he found that stripper atttactive. Most strippers are hot. Otherwise how can they earn a single penny? Lol

  • Is he not able to sleep with women he's attracted to? Maybe it's more work to do that? He can't sleep with as many as he likes? He's hypersexual? I don't know.

    • I'm sorry are you asking me these questions or is that an opinion? I was confused by your response.

    • Oh, no, just throwing out ideas.

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  • There must be a part of him that feels the urge for sex same as needing to go pee or scratch an itch - that said most basely can be tempered by a presumption that he also finds it fulfilling to have the hugs/loving physical contact that all us animals crave.

  • He probably has a fear of commitment and/or he needs constant validation.

  • If you were hungry and you really wanted to eat steak, but all that was on offer that day was pizza, would you choose to starve?

    • :D ^1

    • That's a weird comparison. So he's settling because he's lazy?

    • No, he's settling because that's all he can get.

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  • Some guys would rather choose sex over masturbation even if the woman isn't attractive at all. Sex still feels better than masturbation regardless of how the person looks. That is the only reason I can think of because personally I think that's pretty gross too.

  • don't worry they just sleep