There's two different type of guys that want sex the first date he wants it because he doesn't want to go out again he wants to be able to brag to his buddies that he a stud and he was dragged out how good he was when you only probably lasted 2 minutes if that then there's me if I know the person very well and I already know that we're hitting it off really good I don't push the issue but when we're making out and we're going down that road I will try and if she says yes I respect her even more than I do with that moment because she's making a choice on her own and she said I don't care what society says I'm going to do it and that turns me on and I want to make it all about her and I want her to feel my thank you for making that choice because she's not going to regret it but I'm going to fuck her more than 2 minutes it's going to be a marathon suck your hand nobody will know except for her and I not unless she feels the need 2 tell somebody
Because they are horny, lol.
But the first time? I don't know
Sure, some guys just don’t care.
Guys want sex, many will say if they get that first they will continue to court you for longer term relationship, but that is usually not true.
If your interested in long term, don't have sex with them until your sure that is not the only thing they want.
i'd give head or a full blowjob on a first date... regardless if the date went well or not because i'm very much wanting that anyway.
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They want sex because they are horny and you turn them on. They get the sex because you let them.
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Wow, maybe pick some better guys?
I guess you are so old you forgot that is why you go out with them. Move along old timer.
Long story short: a lot of these guys might just be going out with you just to get laid.
In general, sex is a hard thing for a guy to get if not challenging for a majority of men. It can take a lot of work and effort before he even gets the chance to have sex. He has to look attractive to her, then he has to say the right things to make her feel safe, comfortable, happy, excited, and aroused in the end. This can be difficult depending on the guy and especially on the girl he sets his sights on.
If it makes you feel any better I promise there are a lot of men who are willing to wait a certain time before any bedroom antics. Just depends on the guy and can vary.
If you allow it, they'll take it.
I have always been happy to have sex on the first time, and certainly have no problems with guys having me first time out.
Mostly I don't. I certainly never expect it. If we like each other, it will happen soon enough. I'm in no hurry.
I’ve never wanted sex. My ex was the one who wanted sex but thankfully it never happened. 😅 Dodged quite the fucked up bullet there
Well you're probably extremely attractive. Next time try not giving them an erection.
Guys no longer trust girls to be honest dating partners. They expect to be taken advantage of. They feel they will expend time and treasure worthlessly. They want to be "paid in advance".
What? lol
because they are guys, and that is what they do.
Just because you go out on a date that does not automatically mean you will have sex.
Maybe you might want to consider what/how the other person feels about having sex and let them bring it up if they are interested.
They just might not be as into you as you are in yourself.
Show some manures and some class!
I think you need to reconsider your choice in men. You don’t seem to be dating very honorable guys. And, keep in mind that the withdrawal method is the least effective method for both prevention of pregnancies and stds. During sex, men leak seminal fluid in women and that fluid contains both sperm as well as any pathogens the guy may be carrying. Not that this excuses the guy from ejaculating inside you.
Hormones
I never expected sex on the first date even though I have had sex on a good first date. I think guys expect sex if it was a really good first date and they think you really like them so you want to have sex with them.
Guys date for sex, women for romance.
Personally i don't put out on the first date, neither would i continue dating with a girl who would.
Sex should be on 2nd or 3rd date.
I am down for oral on the first date, but not sex
No that is what women want. As many say, it must happen within the first three dates or relationship is over or friend zone.
Cause they do
Do you?
How did the guy cum in you? You let a guy fuck you for the first time and didn’t make him wear a rubber? Granted I never wear a rubber whrn I have a steady girlfriend but the 1st time sleeping with someone new damn right I have a rubber on. Yea m guessing your super hot?
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