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I have encountered a vast majority of guys who brag about loosing their virginity during their early teens sometimes even sooner to older girls or women.
Is it because they truly wanted to have sex or is it that most guys don't know that rape has to be aggressive, it could be guilt tripping or making someone do something that they might second guess doing if they were a lot more educated about it.
Is it because now that they're older and realised what happened they try to down play it as a minor thing because they fear facing it as it is. Is it because they think admitting to getting raped by a woman or girl makes them look "weak", which is not true by the way.
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7 20Well actually it was kind of hot and very seductive, she sat on my lap for hours and made out, was kind of young indeed but it is a nice memory.
Back when i was that age, that was supposedly the fantasy, to "Bag an older woman" Now i did lose my virginity to an older woman... She was one year older than me, I was 16, and she had just turned 17.
At my age now, i see that kind of thing as disgusting. And no i do not blame the boys, I blame the women who let it happen. When it comes to sex, women rarely take responsibility for anything. In the case of a 20+ year old fucking a 13, 14, 15 year old, or younger guy, That is 100% on the woman as she is in the position of power. But women, because of vagina get away with it.
I am reminded of a little boy in kansas who was raped by his babysitter. She got pregnant from it. He at the age of 13, was forced to pay child support to his rapist. He was not permitted to see his child. It was determined in supreme court that a rape victim, if that victim was male, is still responsible for the child. Talk about a court system designed to fuck boys and men over.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hermesmann_v._Seyer
www.usatoday.com/.../
In the second one he was 13, she was 20... She raped him, He didn't learn he was a father until his daughter was 6, he was forced to pay support.
You seem to truly understand the gravity of the situation, it's a shame you're only one of a few.
Agreed. i find it truly sickening.
For me it was consensual and not forced.