Why do many guys not know how to touch breasts?

Like there is a way to do it that feels good and there are ways that make me want to push his hands away. Don't be grabby don't squeeze hard, don't give me bruises and don't twist. I guess some girls might like these things but they hurt me
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  • Probably have it in their heads that boobs are fun to play with - hard.
    If they start getting stupid with the boobs, maybe you need to stop them and teach them how to touch breasts. If they don't listen, then what else will they think is fun to do that you will want to push him away for? Might be a good test of how good a lover they are.

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  • This has been an issue that I've had trouble with because every girl is different. I remember once having sex with a girl and afterward I was cuddling with her in the spooning position from behind. I had my free arm around her and I was lightly touching her breast and she said I was hurting her. That's the last thing I intended to do. I wasn't squeezing it or twisting it or anything either. So it confused me.

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  • It seems like guys wanna treat your boobs like your butt

  • When they see them naked they just want to grab them

    • Boobs are made for grab No?

    • But with proper technique

    • Ofc slowly pressing. Rubbing ice cream on boobs and sucking with tongue 👅👅 it's quite fun. No?

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  • You girls are all different. Some of you like gentle, some all forceful, and some don't like it at all. We're not-mind readers. You wanna teach a guy before he starts twisting your nipples and you tell him what type of breats person you are.

  • EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT so it is up to you to tell your partner how you want to be touched. Don't blame him if he can't read your mind; men have ESPN, not ESP!

  • Guys know how to touch breasts, but different gals like different touches. Some like it soft, some like it rough. Some enjoy pain to the nipples. You need to let them know what you prefer.

  • Tell them what feels good and what does not. Some guys need some coaching.

  • Breast is most precious and beautiful part of a girl's body it's not matter it's big or small , it's a most soft body part of a girl and it's for gentle love kissing licking.. Grab hardly or press hardly and give a pain or hurting feelings not make a girl happy or enjoying her sexual feelings it's feel like when a girl pull our balls hardly, boys think can we enjoy if a girl pull our balls hardly by giving us pain... imagine when a girl softly touch our balls and feel the softness of our balls skin it give us joy and a hard and good erection in penis.. In same way if we love and gently lick kiss the breast it's the best way to happy a girl physical and ready her for a mind blowing sex..

  • Most guys in your age group lack experience and understanding of what a girl likes.

  • Some men only know sex as they see it in porn. Sad.

  • Want to know what breasts want? Watch an infant nursing.

  • With the fairly limited number of partners I’ve had, they varied super widely in what they liked.

  • You girls hide them all the time. So... WHEN could we practice to 'do it right'?
    I suggest to publish: ''Breast handling for Dummies''

  • They haven't been taught. If you want it and are willing, then allow the touches and teach him the rest. He's just afraid, and has only listened to his friends and only wants to get to the last step. If you're willing and want to feel the enjoyment, then slow him down and show him what you want and how you want to feel it. It's time for show and tell. If you want to set limits, then set them, but assure him you can both have fun and enjoy what it available...

  • I really worry that i will hurt her or so... boobs feel weird. Like a fat sack with little pebbles floating inside it. Nothing in my body feels like that so i dont know how it might feel good

  • because not a lot of women have the same exact sensitivity.

    "Don't be grabby don't squeeze hard"

    you'll be surprised how many strippers have told me the polar opposite whenever I hit the strip club and get a lap dance

  • We don't know because we don't have tits, and most women don't exactly communicate when you aren't doing things properly. Girls don't realize just how badly they're screwing themselves when they fake pleasure to placate guys' egos. If the girl he was with before you fake moaned when he was mashing her tits like a hacky sack, that's what he's going to do to your tits because he thought it worked last time.

  • How "many guys" played with your boobs? 😂😂

  • that may be shocking to you, but most girls don't come packaged with instructions XD also every women is different (as you already alluded to) in what they prefer. so how IS he supposed to know?

  • Guys have been waiting this opportunity for ages, so it's usually the excitement and a bit higher strenght combined some guys only care about themselves.

    Show them how it is done, you know, with some sexy moves, touching yourself and all that. If they are new to a womans body.

    Or sometimes it helps to pick men who are more mature and not assholes etc.

    Depends how often in comes up in your circles.

  • The one gal I was with for a while said to be gentle on the breasts and get nasty with her pussy.

  • We are not given hands on training in that dept. 😎

  • It's different from girl to girl. I know how to touch my girlfriend's. I could learn how to touch your's.

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