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Are they comparing their own body county to theirs? whats the big deal? Is a higher body count something to be celebrated? does it mean you're one of the cool kids? or maybe people just wanna judge them for the high count... or the low count, or someone with no body count at all. I just don't get it lol. i never asked for this nor do i really care about it.
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20 28Everyone has a past. Unless somebody has a huge body count which might suggest commitment issues I would not care what it was.
I had a past, so why is okay for me and not for a girl?
Maybe out of jealousy or to compare their own
Yup and also insecurities
True
Well I have a an extremely rare immune disorder call APDS II. It would therefore be absolutely foolish of me not to enquire about a woman's past sexual history as I'll need assurances that I won't get any STDs or any nasty infection.
Some people are fucking nosy. 🙄
ikr smh
In my opinion, sex is one of the things that just drives people to do and ask what they want in this modern day times. I know people with higher body countsare possibly unstable for relationships or they're walking around with an STD, which is scary because a lot of people are walking around with diseases and don't even know.
I know it wasn't completely related to your topic but that's all what I had.
Butt hurt people being jealous they ain't getting none
My guess is, they want to know if you fuck and how prolific are you at fucking. Some figure the more you have fucked the more you've worn out your sex organs I guess.
Which is pretty bogus
Absolutely!
Utter bullshit. Also, let’s say you, hypothetically speaking, had only had sex with one man for 2 years. Estimate north of 4000 times. Does that make a woman less worn out than one whose slept with multiple men the same total of times? 🤔
Lmao. That’s *20 years. 4000 times ain’t happening in 2 years.
@loves2learn LOL!! Well, love, I wouldn't be fucking a man for 2 or 20 years. But the point is exactly what I'm saying. It doesn't wear out! Use it or lose it is my philosophy!
Lmao. I speak from my own experience @davetoo 🤣
@loves2learn As do I. If it ever wore out I'd have to get a replacement. Besides, with all that lube it should be good for another century.
right plus how often you m
How often you? Do it you mean?
M for masturbate! i see that question every day
Ohh. Is this something you want to know?
Of a guy you might be interested un that is?
geez's no... who cares
Good 😌
I could care less. I assume a mature women has been with others before me and that she has experienced many partners. Rarely is someone pure and to seek it is illogical.
K think just to know how experienced you are. I don't care if they ask my body count if they think it's low or high it's there pinion.
Yeah especially women on here. It's kinda weird.
Gives you information about their personality and values
so if you have a high or low number does this make you a worse person?
Depends on your values
and do you value you this? if a woman told you her body count was high you would likely think twice about dating her?
I wouldn't date her. I don't want to be involved with anyone who has casual sex.
why not? why does that matter to you? what if she was safe and responsible about it and even showed you she has no std's nor did she ever get pregnant, and would be devoted and exclusive to you? you'd still turn her down?
Yeah I still would turn her down. Devalues the relationship for me.
why does it devalue it? where's the value you in having a lower body count as opposed to a higher one? again keeping in mind that she's responsible about it.
If you eat dessert for every meal having it after dinner isn't as good.
but if you never even knew about it you would never even notice. i pretty much guarantee it.
all this will do is encourage people to just lie to you about it.
Just like anything else you can gauge someone's based on how they perform any given activity
Someone's experience
they could still suck at it and have been with a lot. doesn't necessarily mean anything.
Don't have to gauge off of just skill. Can be confidence or if she knows she likes certain things.
Also meaningless lol gosh you're insecure af
No you can only see through your own perspective. I have different values that doesn't make me insecure. I don't look down on people who choose to sleep around that just isn't my cup of tea.
So basically what your telling me is if she's really confident and knows how to give expert blowjobs you'll turn her down huh? Cause you'll think she slept around just based in that?
No I would talk to her about her values long before we engaged in anything sexual. You are only hearing what you want to hear from me so I am done with this conversation.
Yeah you’re pretty insecure dude. Like whoa. Talk about jumping to conclusions. See ya
To know your experience?
And why is that needed to learn?
You need performance and not someone who is below average?
Why is that necessary?
So you can get someone who knows what they are doing in bed?
And thats needed for a relationship with a person?
I guess so, you asked the question. So what is the answer? 😗
That its no ones business. And if experience is all theyre after they can always just do a friends with benefits thing or one night stands
So thats what you do? 😗
Yes and in my opinion it should be the norm
To tell how many is your count? 😗
To tell people to mind their own business
i think they want to make sure if you are a player/hoe or not...
ehhh those terms are pretty vague. they might sleep around but for all you know they were very responsible and safe about it.
I'm not saying there's a link between promiscuity and infidelity, but the article doesn't say promiscuous people stay faithful, it says they aren't more likely to cheat.
As in the tend to remain faithful... yes.
Nope, that's not what's being measured, as in "tend to remain faithful", what's measured there is number of partners last year. People who cheat don't cheat every single year. On average infidelity is around 50%. That's not "tending to be faithful". That's not more likely to be unfaithful.
It still diesnt mean there's any correlation
As in promiscuity will lead to infidelity.
Yes, but you said "tends to remain faithful", that's an absolute statement, not a relative one. No correlation is a relative one. Big difference.
Ok buddy its pretty arbitrary. And actually “tends to” is the opposite of absolute. Its saying that it is likely to but not definite to occur.
You misunderstood the use of absolute here, an absolute claim of a tendency is still an absolute claim. The absoluteness is of the claim, basically it just means it's not relative to something else.
still arbitrary.
Not really. Absolute is used in that way (as non-relative), for some reason.
and still arbitrary to my overall point. promiscuity does not lead to infidelity
POV: Your significant other asks this exact question and you start getting anxiety cuz while you ain't hot in bed but you a mass murderer
Good question, I can't imagine it is that important and rather personal.
Because it's a risk
And what if they assure you they were safe about all of that and provide proof that they never got anything? Therefore no need to tell you how many. And therefore no risk
I'd be even more concerned
Why?
That statement may have been more credible in the past but now people are more promiscuous than ever so
Meaning what? You think she will cheat on you?
Yeah. If she did that with somebody else before me, what's stopping her from doing it again?
Because she also tells you if you raise this concern to her ever that she is always faithful in committed relationships.
That's why I don't want my girl to have a high body count.
Because of your insecurity? Cool.
That's not insecurity. I'm not gonna risk an STD or another betrayal
What about you? What's your count?
Im not telling cause its no ones business. And your insecurities are unfounded
What about yours? If you're so sure about yourself, then you should tell me your body count. And FYI, no they're not unfounded. It's quite common for women to be promiscuous nowadays
And promiscuity is ok these days as long as they are responsible about it
But they're not. That's why I expect a girl with a low or inexistant body count
Lol you’re so insecure dude. Pretty hilarious. Probably why you getting none
You call me insecure yet you're not willing to tell your body count?
No cause its none of your fucking business
And I'm the insecure one? OK
Yes you are. Because you can't get over yourself despite how i just showed how your insecurities are unwarranted.
Coming from you? A 37 year old man who talks bold yet is so insecure of his promiscuity that he's not willing to tell?
If you weren't you would tell without regrets
Because it. Doesn’t. Matter.
Yes, it does. If it didn't, STDs wouldn't be a thing
Its not if they are responsible with it and had medical documents to prove it. I guess you hate science then huh?
I don't. And also it's not uncommon for people to lie about it. Are you saying that they all say the truth? Or that I should be careless?
If they can prove it to you then there should be no issue. Unless you’re afraid they can forge medical documents which is pretty fucking absurd.
So you want people to be careless?
How is that careless? Where is the carelessness?
The higher the body count, the higher the risk. Yet, you're telling me that I should worry about that and risk an STD
But i already told you if they can prove it to you with medical documents there's NO RISK.
Are you ok? You got a reading problem?
Yes, I'm fine. I can read. Yet, still you're trying to convince me to accept a promiscuous partner. And secondly what makes you think that a partner will be 100% sincere?
It's as if you're encouraging me to accept a potential cheater
Because she showed you medical documents. You have a terrible reading problem dude. Get it checked out
Everyone is a potential cheater
And you're trying to convince me to pair up with one
You're should be the one to get checked
Lol ok we’re done. You’re pretty fucked up in the head. Logic escapes you
I can only really answer to my own reasons for wanting to know what a girls body count is.
I like to know what their count is, so I can compare with my own, but i only ask in context of a conversation, so the count is then followed up by other questions, like where all X number age range, or which of these was best, or what one longest with
And alsorts of other questions
Insecurities, or the very rare possibility that they think you’re diseased. Simple