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Are they comparing their own body county to theirs? whats the big deal? Is a higher body count something to be celebrated? does it mean you're one of the cool kids? or maybe people just wanna judge them for the high count... or the low count, or someone with no body count at all. I just don't get it lol. i never asked for this nor do i really care about it.
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20 28Sounds like you became pretty good with women quite early in life
Because it’s an unattractive trait. For girls it seems like it might be more about a perception of loyalty. For guys, they usually see it as just gross and unattractive. Either way, that’s people’s interest in it. But for me, of the answer isn’t zero then I don’t want to know. So I wouldn’t ask about it and would plan to simply never ever speak about it.
Guys ask because we are investing a shit ton of emotion, money, and time into a person so we want them to be quality.
You don’t buy a busted ass used vehicle that was a rental. Used and abused by many others with lots of milage. It isn’t worth the investment.
A relationship is much more valuable and therefore demands more quality.
All of that is fearmongering and based on no facts at all. A persons promiscuity does not devalue them if they are safe and responsible with it.
That’s bs. The more partners a person has totally brings down their value. They have a multitude of baggage from more and more people, they are more me tally broken because of those experiences, less and less is sacred or special, compared to someone with values and morals. Of course if you had to pick between no car and a busted ass clunker, any ride is better than walking.
". They have a multitude of baggage from more and more people," not if it was all consensual and understood by all parties involved it was just sex. ", they are more me tally broken because of those experiences" this is more because they get judged by people like you than anything else. "less and less is sacred or special," sex for some can still be special when their emotions are involved and they deeply love the other person. It can also be terrible if a person has no experience whatsover and the other person treats them like garbage during the act itself. "compared to someone with values and morals." ohhh im sure you are just the primest example of what to be in the world and most should emulate you huh? "Of course if you had to pick between no car and a busted ass clunker, any ride is better than walking. " sometimes its preferred to go with the clunker and fix them back up again so they feel brand new again.
You obviously do not understand women and the oxytocin reaction they get during sex. You don’t understand how women hold on to past experiences and those experiences guide who they are as people. If you are a “fixer” with a female, you will eventually become used and broken yourself because a broken female is incapable of handling a “good man” when she gets one. Which is why most women will leave a guy because he is “too nice”
More fearmongering. Back up your claims better bro
I don’t think do you understand white fear mongering means because you’re not using it properly at all. 1. everyone knows the studies and stats can be manipulated to prove any point. 2. if I did show you studies about oxytocin and female female response during sex you would just point to my first statement as your excuse for why you wouldn’t believe it. 3. lastly I don’t need studies to prove what I say is true. even though I have read them. there are also millions of men who have gone through the exact same situation with women and if you don’t believe me you can go to any of the social media things where men are complaining about women and you will find the exact same thing posted time and time again.
I wouldn't immediately discount it, but you're right that i am skeptical because most “evidence” people post usually turns out bogus. My links are in the update i provided in the description. If you can refute those then sure im with you. Also personal anecdotes mean nothing. Empirical data and peer reviewed studies do
actually the personal antidotes of millions of men far out weigh any empirical data of any study of a couple hundred people.
but here is a study on oxytocin in women during sex
scholar.google.com/scholar
essentially women get oxytocin released during arousal, penetration, and orgasm. And estrogen enhances its affects.
“ actually the personal antidotes of millions of men far out weigh any empirical data of any study of a couple hundred people.” No. It doesn't lol. Anecdotes mean little. Ill get back to your link later. Be back
Cause it's relevant somehow. It can say a lot about your personality and values.
How?
Multiple partners=less likely to be a good monogamous partner, increased likelihood of cheating, more sex-oriented person VS romantic person
Got any stats to back any of that up?
here's peer reviewed research suggesting promiscuous people will likely not cheat in monogamous relationships link.springer.com/.../s10508-016-0814-3
ifstudies.org/.../the-road-to-infidelity-passes-through-multiple-sexual-partners
Interesting how your link does NOT show its sample size in its graphs... kinda glaring dontcha think? Also the rest of that site seems a bit skewed to the right a bit. Kinda questioning its agenda here. My study on the other hand is pretty forth coming with how many participants where involved. Gives it way more credibility. Either way someones body count still seems unlikely to correlate to them cheating. Provide a similar peer reviewed journal or study and maybe i can concede here.
It is an indication of your risk factor for having an STD.
And what if they assure you they were safe about all of that and provide proof that they never got anything? Therefore no need to tell you how many
If they give me their test results and they are negative for everything; then really I don't care how many people they have slept with.
Just curious kind of fun to talk about
Whats fun about it?
kind of fun hearing about what others did
Ok i guess its ok but only between friends in my opinion.