Why do men objectify women?

Like, what if you're a nice person and good girl but men keep objectifying you? Why do men choose to see some girls as objects for sex and not people? I dont know if im wronge, but i feel like when a guy objectfies me and gets upset or angry that im not returning his sexual advances, that he doesn't care about me as a person. When a guy imapatiently seeks sex from me its the hugest turn off, and he looks at me like a object. Am I wronge for feeling this way? I can't tell if a man likes me as a person anymore, like in working situations or if they just look to get laid and want to toss you away. I hate it because some women are ok with that and im obviously not but they still seek me out. I just want a boyfriend :(
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i mean solely objectify women who are not into being objectfied.
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Women use men to be protected, it used to be physical strength that did that and now its money. Nothing personal to the guy! If he can't help her have a good family life most will leave
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  • I hate how natural male lust (so far as we keep it to ourselves, and don't invade women personal space without consent, of course) is criminalized as *sexual objectification*.

  • because you are not a person, a person has a soul, women dont

  • Everyone objectifies everyone they find attractive. It's natural. Get over it.

  • For the same reason a lot of women objectify men.

  • Why do women look at me like I'm a back account that throws out cash? It's a real turn off, I just want an honest girlfriend. I don't think that's possible now in this time

    • Who are these women that do this? I always hear about this and guys feeling used but did you offer her things? I dont think most women force men to buy them things. In fact, it hard to be with a guy you dont like as a person. Theyre just using yout benefits. I've dated wealthy men and some understand this. its not personal, and no one wants you for just your money its how you live your life and what you do with it thats attractive

    • Like I dated a rich guy that had a disgusting home and could get a made but chose not to and was rude, I dont care how much money he had, it was gross. and i dont like cluttered messyness