Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Honestly it’s unfair. To even get anywhere I really have to be in the mood with good foreplay and then it can take 10-25 minutes. Clitoral stimulation is around 10-15. Vaginal 20-30. Yet men can orgasm in 5 minutes without even trying. It’s bull!
Why do men orgasm so much easier?
Why do men orgasm so much easier?
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26 115Men are the ones that have to orgasm for the survival of the species. If we didn't we wouldn't bother.
Yeah it is weird... men can blow in a couple minutes of just some minor stimulation.
Women... takes work. Sometimes lot of work and time.
This is why it is important to find a good Lover who will tune into his lady, and hopefully, she into him.
I do hope you realise that this is the very question that the vast majority of us women have been asking ourselves since time began. x
I think you confuse ejaculation with orgasm. Just because a guy blow his load it doesn't mean he get a orgasm out of it.
I’m not sure why the goal is to finish within 10 mins is ideal for people but they are entitled to their own satisfaction. I personally don’t want that so I worked up the ability to last for a long time. I usually go about sn hour or so. Usually the girl finishes a few times before I bust mine.
Well guys are simple, they have that external appendage that controls their brain. Apparently they don’t need much to excite them.
Whereas we are a bit more complex, so orgasms can be somewhat more challenging. But we do get multiple intense orgasms. I’ve heard guys don’t get that.
@redstiletto88 Men and women both possess a myriad of simplistic and complex qualities, including where sexual function and physiology is concerned. So neither gender is inherently more “simple” or “complex” than the other. Also, the penis does not “control” the male brain. On the contrary, it’s the brain that is actually hard wired to ‘control’ the penis. Males are sexually stimulated in the brain, after which the arousal signals are sent to the penis. Which is why men who are paralyzed can still experience arousal and erections, and why visual and verbal cues are such turn-ons for guys. Generally speaking, sex is about physical intimacy for guys and emotional intimacy for gals.
@StrongMale well said
@Jay3344 Thanks!
With me, a woman cums in a minute.
And sure, a man can cum quickly. But quality of orgasm is important. Not just some cheap gratification.
@sueshe agrees.
I do?
@SueShe I think so.
It's really not all men that have it easy, just like some women can reach orgasms "without even trying."
I would say that we can cum quicker because of direct stimulation of our cocks! I can take 5 minutes or as long as a hour! It depends on how horny I am & how much time I have! When I was working I would masturbate in the urinal & would be so excited by being caught I would cum in a couple of minutes!!
I don't know what you're on about honestly... the fastest I've climaxed was 40min. Every girl I've been with has climaxed before me, so I do get the BULL part
I think it's the freedom of mind with a lot of men. Women generally need to feel very comfortable with not only you but themselves when they're having sex, and naturally they just need more time to become aroused. I personally can't and don't cum very fast during sex - hell, I remember one woman was even annoyed that she couldn't get me off really fast. I think I'm one of those rare guys who likes and needs a good slow burn to start with and am comfortable with letting the session take time to intensify. I like to enjoy all the moments of it and all the parts of her body.
Believe it or not, I actually feel like any orgasm or any sex is a waste of good time if I do cum fast. Sex is supposed to last and be enjoyed for long periods.
Because all the sensitivity is underneath the head of our cock, every time it rubs back and forth and your pussy, it's being stimulated the whole time, I agree it's not fair. That's why women deserve to have it for playing orgasms before they ever get dick stuck in their pussy
I don't believe they do. Maybe the guy's you know have less sexual hangups than their girlfriends do.
Simple biology. The Male body is built to impregnate many women in order to reproduce, which us a basic human instinct. Meanwhile, the female body, with its one egg a month, is built for one impregnating, and nature wants to make sure it's a healthy one.
No solid, scientific, information to base this on, but it SEEMS evolutionary and/or related to the anatomy of male and female. Keep in mind, that the HEAD or GLANS is the most sensitive part of the penis and is in you ALL THE TIME, getting that wonderful friction, while your clitoris, which is your hot button, is, in most women, far from 'where the action is" namely the penis thrusting in and out and the friction on the head of the penis is tremendous.
I read of a study done by an MD woman, that measured the distance from the clitoris to the opening of the vagina in a large sample of women, and she found that there was a measurable difference in many women, meaning that the friction of the penis, going in and out put pressure and friction on the clitoris in some women and NOT on many others. That added credibility to the fact that some women can orgasm from thrusting of the penis and not for others.
To help resolve that difference, I have had women partners rub their clitoris while we were fucking, thereby allowing them to orgasm close to my orgasm.
Bruce
Orgasm/ejaculation is essential for reproduction in men. Orgasm is optional for women for reproduction and natural selection has not emphasized it.
Is that a certainty? I'm not sure, but if so the reason must be found in the evolution theory (Darwin). Some girls nevertheless witnessed being prone to get very easyly off, while some men just have issues (erections, complexes, etc.). Taking more time to orgasm does not mean it is easier for men than women.
The real best way to test your ability to orgasm is while masturbating alone... If you get more easyly off while masturbating alone, it means there are possibly some issues with your partner, for instance the classic one where a guy does not pay (enough) attention to the pleasure of his girlfriend.
Now, there's also the fact that some orgasms just build slowly but surely up till a very intense and easy climax. I guess this is different for everyone.
When I was younger it went faster than I ever wanted, now that I'm older and have more experience I can go for a couple of hours and keep myself from going. Lots of practice and self control.
I'm more interested in making her orgasm than in myself, I think of it like if she doesn't, then I don't.
I agree with you! Though sometimes with good oral I can do it in five.
A woman's primary concern should be with the happiness of her male friend's penis. You should be delighted that you can provide pleasure so quickly and then go on about your domestic affairs.
Douche bag
Isn't the happiness of your penis primarily concerned on getting her off? Imagine building a computer and not bothering to turn it on. Heh.
Sorry I didn't know this was a simp parade
Yikes I’m surprised you ever got a girl to like you. Or I’m guessing no one has, which is why you act like that. Projecting your bitterness and anger to the world
@JessicaEarl oh damn
@JessicaEarl I'm not the one with orgasm problems
Ok incel.