Why do men want to have sex when masturbation feels better and don't require so much work?

Some of them like it so much that they'd pay money to sleep with someone. I've always been curious, I know I sound biased because for me masturbation feels better.
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  • I'd imagine because, though masturbation feels better from a purely physical perspective, it's completely lacking in the emotional department.

    Humans are pair-bonding creatures so, unless you're part of the <1% of the population (both men and women) suffering from crippling social anxiety, most of the pleasure from sex is attainable only when it's with someone you're emotionally attached to.

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  • Because you don't know how to do sex well enough.

    Any idiot that says "... is better than sex" you only need to shoot back with: "Then you're not doing it right!"

    Trying to claim masturbation is even equal to sex, is a school kid mistake.

    • i've met many women who say the same. So, I'm guessing sex is more pleasurable for men, unless I've been dating the wrong men.

    • I would argue "you are not masturbating right". When done properly it is way better

  • Masturbation is IN NO WAY better than sex, and if you believe otherwise, it seems likely that you've had some terrible sex partners who were either clueless about women or just didn't care about pleasing them.

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  • Sex is so much better. Feeling another person's skin against yours, and feeling her breath on your face and listening to the sounds she makes!

  • It's basically like asking why men need woman, it's because men tend to more sexual than women.

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  • Because masterbation don't feel better then sex lol

  • Masturbation is lonely.

  • Masturbation is easier, but sex is more intimate and passionate.

  • Evidently you have not been around much talent.

  • It's not better. Just more convenient. Sex is better

  • Because there is nothing like a warm, tight, pussy for men. Masturbation is fun but it’s like playing tennis 🎾 by yourself. You’re throwing the ball against the wall and catching it but with someone returning the favor, it’s out of this world!

  • Companionship is very important

  • You are a woman telling men that masturbation feels better than sex for us? Tell me how do you know what feels good or what's better for a man if you don't have a penis?

    • that's why i'm asking sir

    • Masterbation feels better for who?

    • Masturbation

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  • Because sex feels better and its more intimate. Masturbation is useful because it feels good and can stave off urges. But that's about it.

  • Men get pleasure when they know they're providing pleasure.

  • For me it’s the ability to be vulnerable with a gal.

  • Masturbating might be nice, but there is something TRULY magical about the togetherness and Mutuality of being with a Lover ❤️❤️❤️

  • Body heat. Emotional connection. Putting training into practice. Hahaha.

  • Masturbation generally doesn't feel better for guys. There's reallyvobly one way we get off. Unlike gurks girls who can get off several ways, we only have one. Sex does this 100% of the time and feels better.

  • You are biased. Sex is better. Period

  • I don’t think a woman should be making a sweeping statement that generalizes how all men experience sex and masturbation.

  • You’re kidding right.

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