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Why do people over think sex?

Sex, either vaginal or anal, is very simple. You let a man penetrate you and enjoy the physical pleasure of his thrusting. Different penis sizes and thrusting styles each deliver their own unique yet familiar sensations. Like a sport it follows pretty standard formula yet within those limitations countless variations play out. It's as simple as that. Women are like horses, some love being rode and are impatient to gallop while others look at you laugh and say sod that where's my hay.

It's these women I don't understand. Why does sex have to have meaning to them? You see their questions on here "my boyfriend of 6months kissed me what does it mean? "Why does my boyfriend touch my bum what does it mean?"

Sex is simple it, it doesn't have hidden meanings or secret messages embedded in it. If a guy wants you doggy style it doesn't have spiritual significance, if he groans during cowgirl he's not making a political statement about woman's rights. If he wants to pound your ass he's not proclaiming his support for BLM.

Sex is sex, why do people have to over think it and impose meaning on everything.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Great question, purplepoppy. And it cracked me up. Brilliant hypothetical. "If a guy wants you doggy style it doesn't have spiritual significance." (unless you get fucked so good that you hallucinate and see God) ROFL
    Some people obviously DO over think.
    Him:
    "If I let her get on top and ride me, does that mean I'm a sub?"
    "If I like fucking her in the ass, does that make me gay?"
    Her:
    "Is it wrong to love sucking cock and swallowing?"
    "If he fucks me, does that mean he wants to marry me?"

    On the other hand, I've always been fascinated by the question of what women experience when they are being fucked. So uninhibited communication during sex helps to answer questions. I like to know what my partner likes, wants, and what she is feeling. Then again, if she is hyperventilating, speaking in tongues and thrashing as if she's having a seizure, I guess she doesn't really have to explain anything. LOL

  • I suspect it is not different types of girls, but different types of partner.
    Women make no bones about it (oops) when they really fancy a guy, but that is a small percentage of guys.
    Sex becomes constrained and problematic when the guy is not really turning her on, but is acceptable from other points of view (i. e. provider). "Meaningful" sex is when the emphasis is on attaching a provider, rather than indulging her lust.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't think anyone really over thinks sex.

    The people who ask these "what does it mean when..." questions know exactly what it means, they just get some kind of gratification from having someone else say it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I think I’m in love with you 😍

    • Why do you think you are in Love with whomever wrote that? I'm just trying to figure out if you want NSA fun or a BFWB? I personally go for both, Also in my experience, unless I had a one night stand with 2 women and I became friends with the 2 of them. I have thought I was in love with the 2 of them at once. I just found out that it was just only about the Fuckin'

  • Well spoken!

  • I'm with you on all that!

  • Sex is sex

  • Are you seriously asking that question? Whiskey Tango Foxtrot? You invented the very concept of overthinking sex! Behave.

  • Ahh right.

  • Every one and every time is a little different :)

  • Thats human nature, to question everything. Its part of our journey to find the meaning in life.

  • You’re absolutely right! That doesn’t mean I’m going to stop overthinking it. 🙃

  • Well, notice that the only people asking the question in the first place are almost all female. That isn't a coincidence. As to "why," since I'm not female, I don't know the answer.

  • Because they can, because almost everyone has been fucked up to some level by religious stupidity surrounding sex.

  • "my boyfriend of 6months kissed me what does it mean? "Why does my boyfriend touch my bum what does it mean?" Sorry, that killed me.

  • 🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • Lol you are absolutely right, everything don't always have a meaning, everyone are always seeking the meaning behind every action that's absurd, I really can't understand people like that

  • You are right. 😎

  • I have no clue but I wish they'd stop

  • Humanity is strange, change the way you view the humanity on Earth 🙃

  • I love you poppy!!!

  • It will change by time

    • How u will change ur tim🙄

  • Because it's a big deal to a lot of people. Why does that bother you so much?

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