Why do some men not understand that as a dental hygienist if my breasts happen to touch you it is 100% by accident and NOT on purpose?

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I get that men like breasts but when I am at work I am not in the mood to be ogled, stared at, hit on or asked out. Period!
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  • I understand that and hope that most guys do. But it can still make a guy uncomfortable as in that situation he has nothing else to think about but that contact. And it can make him horny, in which case he should keep it to himself and, is necessary, do something about it later.

    • and that is why you are a good guy

    • Thank you for MHGuy. :-)

  • It’s just an excuse. We know logically it’s an accident. But our hormones kick logic in the ass.

    • Out of curiosity when is a good time to approach you and ask you out? I understand it’s rude to do at work

    • Grocery store.

    • grocery store?

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  • Most men get their sex education through porn which has taught them that in such situations wild sex should take place. It's extremely confusing for them when you don't rip your clothes off screaming fuck me.

    • @purplepoppy I really liked your answer.

    • that is why when you replied to my other question I wanted to say... I was wanting to talk to my son and explain so that he wouldn't think that porn is sex education

  • Most likely because of porn and wishful thinking.

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  • I do understand it's an accident and the majority of dental hygienist in my town are older and unattractive people - so I've never had that problem. If someone has a cute face, off course I would find it a turn on and look. Looking isn't the same as inappropriately touching someone and isn't wrong. It's not cat calling either.

  • I'm honestly not sure. It sounds immature to me as well. personally I make it a point to never stare at anyone, ever.

    How often does this happen to you?

    • It happens to me like every couple of days at work sometimes more.

  • Wishful thinking? :/

  • Honestly, most men are idiots and think they are already right.

  • I think a lot of men view any small potential for sex to happen in a given situation as always a possibility

  • I've lost count of the number of times I've been "boobed" by hygienists, having my hair cut, during physical therapy and others. I've never thought of it as anything but what we should expect to happen when people interact closely with each other.

  • I'm sorry to say us men are afflicted with being known to think with other parts of our body at the most unsuitable times.

  • Because men are hyper-aware of your boobs and assume that you must be too, so if you touch us with them then you knew where they were before during and after the touch.

    A little odd to assume that someone with very sharp objects in our mouth might have their concentration elsewhere, but y'know..

    • If it happens in the future, you could quickly just say "sorry, was focusing on not slicing your gums open." Would probably head off any thoughts of innuendo..

  • I act indifferent even if I enjoy the random touch or accidental neckline view. You'll never know.

  • Guys are turned on by womens' breasts. It's a normal, natural reaction. Blame nature not men.

    Maybe you need a different profession. Cop?

  • I would assume your chest brushing against me whilst you clean my teeth would be just hazards of the job and your having a bust and frankly think zero about it. Then again, I don't stare at boobs in the first place. Sure, like anyone else I will notice them, but it is a brief kind of thing for me as I prefer eye contact.

  • The. Real question is have you done it on purpose and do you like it

  • It would be mutually awkward for me.

  • why do some women not understand that boobies touching us is hot no matter if it was an accident or not?

    • I get that but when I am am not work I am not the mood to be ogled, stared at, hit on or asked out. Period!

    • I get that but when I am at work I am not the mood to be ogled, stared at, hit on or asked out. Period!

    • yeah well this sounds passive aggressive but that's your problem XD. we can't help being turned on by this. if you're professional about it, why does it annoy you so much? it happens. no big deal. let them drool about it. whatever.

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  • I have always been curious if you noticed when it happens. But I assumed that it was accidental and haven't commented on it.

    • I notice everytime it happens and it is ALWAYS accidental.

    • Yeah, I can't imagine her putting her breasts on my face intentionally. It's just an unfortunate thing that some busty hygienist have to deal with. I just tried to ignore it and be grateful that I'm getting my teeth cleaned

  • I know, right? My Hygienist was sweet, and very Busty. My head would nearly disappear into Her cleavage sometimes! However, I knew She's doing Her job, that REQUIRES to get close. Although it was so soft and wonderful, I understood it was purely coincidental, not on purpose.

    • I really liked response. Thanks.

    • Of course! I just hope a Girlfriend someday plops Her breasts on my head, or pushes my face into Her bust someday... That feeling was quite addictive!

  • Hmmmm... I only once had a somewhat hot young dental hygienist I don't really know how I could ogle, stare at, hit on or ask out while she was working on me... That chick was brutal but also the best service somehow. Pissed me off a lot when she left that place.

  • You're young and hot. Some men assume every girl wants them but they aren't brave enough to come out and say it.

  • I consider it a benefit of good hygiene!

  • Guys know it's not on purpose but that doesn't mean out isn't a turn on.

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