I like to be called daddy because its a dominance thing. I have never been into pain or violence with my sex (I don't see the sexual appeal of it), but I do like being in control and her calling me daddy is her way of submitting to me. Basically their is a saying, that a girls first love is her father. He is the one who takes care of her, watches out for her and is always there for her. So her calling me daddy is her way of saying I am all of those things, that I am the man in her life that protects her provides for her and is there for her. I am the one who leads her etc. Its a submisison on her part but a very intimate and affectionate one (which just happen to be the things I really love. I love a woman who trust and loves me enough to submit to me, I love intimacy and I am insanely affectionate (My ex was convinced I loved to cuddle more then I loved sex (and I really love sex (with the right girl of course (not a fan of casual sex, no love, intimacy, or affection in it))).
So that's why. I can understand why people knee jerk reaction is to think of it in an incestual sort of way but its not that at all. Its a title and role not a biological one.
I personally think that the idea of a woman wanting me to cum inside her so she can carry my baby is incredible sexy.
And if i call my SO mommy its not like she's my mom in my head when i say it but its more like short hand for baby mama.
So if i call her mommy its because im very turned on by the thought of making her a mommy or the fact that she is the mother of my child.
Like when you tell your kid; "I don't know go ask mommy" just thinking about it brings forth feelings of love, admiration, adoration, gratitude, hope, etc. But i dont have any kids or a significant other so maybe that will change by then. I also have a bit of a thing for milfs/cougars/mature women so maybe im just weird.
I don't know if it has anything to do with it but even as a kid i never used mommy that i can remember. Mom is my mom while if i ever called my mom mommy it would be a joke in like a sarcastic whiney voice after she told me not to do something or scolded me like "okaaay mommmyy" id do the same thing with friends though, if someone is acting like everyones parents you go ”okaay mom" to let them know their worrying too much or being a bit controlling or just being square. I rarely even say mom when im talking to my mom its more like when im talking about her or if i need to get her attention in public. So maybe im just weird and can call someone mom/mommy without actually thinking of my own mom.
They imply a relationship dynamic of someone caring and nurturing or maybe even assertive (depending on the individual couples). It is separate from an actual parental or familial relationship but there are certain characteristics that are recognized in both scenarios therefore the language can be the same or similar.
I have heard people call their significant other daddy but actively choose to call their male parent something else like father or just Dad or pops. Ballpark verbiage, but different connotations.
Even if someone chooses to use the same name for both people in the two separate relationships, they themselves have to distinguish the difference.
it's a kink. I call my boyfriend daddy during sex while he'll call me his little or good/bad girl (depending on whether I listen to commands like... him asking me to deepthroat him, for example)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I have zero idea. I find the whole idea of infantilizing during sex a big turn-off. It disturbs me. I think I have written that on one of your questions before though.
Just wanted to say yowzers. That is one hot photo.
Thank you. I really like this one, it showcases female dominance in a gentle way.
If kids come to play and are in the house hold, I get it, but if there's no kids between the two, I don't get the appeal. However, with the "daddy" title, I think it's a subconscious dominance thing. In almost all cultures (not all families!), the "Dad" is the master of the house.
Overall, it's harmless human nature. I've had an ex call me "baby girl", wasn't my favorite nick name, but it grew on me. I personally prefer a nickname with more sentiment.
Liked what you wrote. My current friends with benefits is 20, calls me daddy and loves when i call her my babyslut
I call my husband daddy because he is the father to my infant who is learning to talk
I don't know, but it weirds me out.
I had an ex that seriously put his baby cousin's pacifier in his mouth and came up to me and said "MA-MA" like a baby one day, and it just grossed me out. I don't know what got into him!
Hmm I guess for us it's a a link thing. It turns him on if I call him daddy and makes him act more dominating. I like him being more dominant and feeling submissive so it's a big plus for me. Its manly used in the bedroom but I do use it outside sometimes to turn him on, surprise him, and get him ready for the bedroom. So it's kinda just a sex thing
Id call my partner Daddy in an affectionate way once he is actually a father of my baby. But never in sex or in any sexual manner
I think it originates from the idea that your partner will be or is the mother or father of your child 😂 Like if you think about it, having sex with your partner will lead to that. I thought it was weird at first too calling your partner what you’d call your parents LOL but it occurred to me after thinking about it.
Actually that's incorrect. The sentiment comes from BDSM play, the dominant is the daddy and the submissive is the baby girl, or equal adulation. For some it's just roleplay, and others it goes into much deeper daddy issues, so to speak. I've never seen anyone doing the 'mommy' thing, but I'm sure it exists, because diaper play sure does (eww!). Just like leather, handcuffs, and other elements of BDSM that came into the mainstream, "Daddy Dom's" are absolutely a thing and the most common types from what I've seen. Guys go to where the girls are, so consider that :P
@BeenThereLovedIt That's weird LOOOL
As you get older, it will be less odd to you. Sex can and does get boring if you don't come up with new adventures to explore together. There's a whole world of advanced sexual play out there, and BDSM is just one direction to go. It's not as scary as it looks from the outside :)
I used to like sayin Papi if he was of latin/hispanic/Spanish descent. And i sometimes like being called Mamacita in return. I also Sometimes jokingly say zaddy. But im def not into Mommy/Mami/Daddy
It’s a domination fetish.
He likes to call me mami and for me to call him papi lol 🤷🏻♀️
In English it seems retarded though.
It seems more ridiculous in Spanish to me. A lot of people call their parents mami/papi in Spanish even as adults, but no one calls their parents mommy/daddy in English 🤷♀️
@CaffeinatedCactus You mean their partners? Everybody in English says mom and dad. That’s the fetish part though. He likes the Spanish because it’s sexy to him and he has that fetish for Hispanic women. And I like being his fetish... Without the fetish, if it was just English, that’s just weird lol The fetish is the whole purpose.
I will also say that apart from him, I hate being called mami or being asked to call someone papi. I understand the fetish, but when it’s not mutual it’s weird
I like it I don't know why tho. Sometimes when I make him call me mommy he always gets way kinkier.
See I'd call a partner sir or master but couldn't ever imagine calling him daddy, just makes me think of my own dad tbh
My husband and I do it. It's because we have kids.
I’ve never wanted to call my significant other “mommy”. That’s just a little weird to me.
I have no idea... all new to me.
i love sex, being loving, intimate...
calling mommy/daddy is beyond my comfort zone...
I don't know having a guy inside me just makes me wanna scream daddy lol
LOL! That's always been baffling to me too! Ew! Trendy sex sayings. And, there are many.
I know it's a little discriminating but while a girl calling a guy daddy feels normal. A guy calling his girl mommy just feels like he has some unresolved issues.
Unless they got kids that is then they're practically mommy and daddy anyway.
Because they have mommy/daddy issues.
This is just so weird.
To create more pleasure In sex they call each other from some more sexual names they find
YUCK so gross... Like that walking dead VP pence the dunce. I think its super twisted and weird.
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