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Why Do Strangers Send Me Messages Saying That They Are Wanking Over My Pictures?

Can Guys Actually Get Off From Jerking To A Girl's Photo? (Even when she has ALL her clothes on)

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Why Do Strangers Send Me Messages Saying That They Are Wanking Over My Pictures?
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Thank you all for being VERY helpful and kind! So I have a follow up but you don't have to participate if you don't want to... Here it is 👇 Guys, How Would You Respond "IF" A Woman Sent You A Message Saying She Just Wanked Looking At One Of YOUR Photos? 💦 "I personally think guys might appreciate these types of confessions but I am unsure so honest feedback would be great" 😇
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Follow Up: 👇 I'm VERY Curious To Know How Many Times You Have To Ask A Simp To "Go Away" Before He Takes The Hint? 🤔 "I try being nice and just asking straight up but that doesn't seem effective so what other methods should I try to get him to go away"
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  • They TELL you about it because they are inconsiderate of your feelings.

    Guys are visual when it comes to sex. In a way, they work from the outside inward.
    (and yes, this is true for their philosophy as well as their genitalia).
    Gals internalize things. In a way, they work from the inside outward.

    Your photos are good boudoir shots- very alluring, sexy, yet still PG-13 (barely, pun intended). When a guy sees your pictures, after they put their eyes back into their heads, they will- um, how should I say this- want to have a way to "express" themselves.
    (I'm sure you know what I mean , but I'll add this little definition - - - - Express - transitive verb- To squeeze or press out, as juice from an orange.)Anyway, guys will be guys and they will do what they want to with alluring pictures that they have, regardless of source. But they could spare the rest of us the details.

    Of course, in one respect, this IS a sincere left-handed compliment to your figure and your photo styling- possibly rude, but obviously sincere! ; - )

    • This makes a lot of sense. Super insightful and very helpful feedback. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer. I really appreciate the help.

    • Photography was my minor in my Communications and Visual Design B degree. I'm cursed, I guess. That was back in the days when we actually used FILM - AND, we had to soup (develop) it ourselves!

    • Makes me wince now when I think back and it literally took a couple of weeks to step through a special effect that we can do via a computer graphics algorithm in a couple minutes. grrrrr.

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  • Of course we can we are visual when it comes to sex. It's one of the reasons women have evolved the way have. Those sexy hips legs breast. Lips. I can almost swear I've seen the subtle changes during the 40 plus years I've been around. I mean maybe it's just me but it seems like their are more and more women that have a little more frosting on that cake then before. They can't all be gym rats or running to their docs. Go back and look how people looked in the 30s up til now. What's changed happens to be all the things that men like.

    • I know exactly what you mean!!! Especially how 30 year olds look now versus how they look a century ago. It's sooooo different! Thank you for explaining your answer and for the awesome feedback. You rock 🎸

Most Helpful Girls

  • Im not male but i figured id throw in my two cents. I have put up with the same comments amd attention from men over facebook amd other social media. But im far from your perfect figure and much older. So i can see why you are getting so many comments. I learned to take it as a compliment and let it go. If they offend you block them. If it really offends you, stop supplying men with tons of sexy images. Other than that, enjoy it while you can. Make the best of it

    • Thank you for the insightful feedback.

  • Well for starters you have a very beautiful body
    When a guy gets horny they don't tend to think about anything but satisfying themselves... so them messaging you is probably them trying to get you to sext or something

    • You're so sweet. Thank you for the feedback and for explaining your perspective. I appreciate the help.

    • <3 <3 Np!!

    • Happy Wednesday!

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  • Realization everyone is not attitude free, issue free, drama free and shit free. Since they are not real or mature that which us not normal in their life they either shed away or laugh as a result they have no experience and show that in their responses. Love those who know and those that don't let it pass. You have a womans that won't quit and would make your significant other infinitely happy. But we allowed to showcase only thing is 100% if people will not be on board.

    • Very interesting.

  • Personally? I think you enjoy flirting, and so what? A bit of harmless flirting doesn't hurt anyone.
    As for a 5 knuckle shuffle over your photos? That maybe crosses a line.

    I'm guessing though if it bothered you, you wouldn't post them!

    • Nonsense feedback 😆🤦‍♀️

    • Well I can't make sense ALL that time P

    • Clearly 🤭

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  • Well, first of all, your pics are so hot, it's expected for some people to be wanking at your pics. And some people text you back telling you this stuff because they tend to expect that you might reciprocate their feelings or horniness in this case. They might just be admiring your sexiness but they tend to be a little creepy about it.

    • Okay this makes a lot of sense. I don't think my pics are hot enough honestly to be considered "wanking material" but I can understand being horny and wanting the horniness to be reciprocated. Thanks for the thoughtful feedback. Very helpful.

    • You are just too humble, your pics are really hot and can be considered " Wanking material"

  • Sure. Men (in general) or more visual than women. A nice picture and a little imagination can get us going.
    Why do guys message you? Because some women like the idea that someone found them that visually appealing and they are hoping you are one. That and they are rude. Come on guys, would you walk up to a woman on the street and say that? Have a little class.

    • I absolutely ADORE this post. Thank you for explaining your answer and sharing your thoughts. This was very helpful and makes soooo much sense. I hope you're having a happy Tuesday! Thanks for the help. 🔥🔥🔥

    • Any time. Got any more pictures? lol, jk :)

    • You're so silly lol 🤭

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  • Because they are very sexual in nature.

    • Thank you for sharing some insight! I appreciate it.

  • I haven't but they have encouraged me to visit other sites, so I get what it's about.

    • Oh wow 😳🙈!! I didn't know that lol. Thank you for your help 😇

    • If I'm taken thanks but let's not if I'm single and it's over the Internet it would be flattering but I'm not about to start some back and forth to be honest and if I know them irl I'd check if they're down to try some things without committing

    • Thank you for the awesome feedback on the update.

  • It's the type of pics you upload

    • Interesting 🤔

  • Boobies, boobies, boobies, pussy, pussy, pussy.

    But you know that.

    • Ahahaha 🤭

  • I can understand that guys like your photos, you're very pretty and you have a great body. I can understand as well that they masturbate to them, even though you're not nude on these photos. But I think it's rude and intimidating to send messages where they describe what they are doing to your photos.

    • Amazing feedback. I enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer for me it was super helpful. You rock!! 🎸

    • Regarding the follow-up question: I would be extremely flattered if a girl would tell me that.

    • Thank you for sharing some of your thoughts! 🌸

  • Thb guys can get off to most things they find sexy or seductive. With that being said some feel that when a women post pictures of a certain kind whether it be with clothes or nude they may feel the right to say inappropriate things. I guess you can classified it under the toxic masculinity category, as the reply would mostly come out as well she asked for it if she's dressed like that.

    • Thank you for explaining your answer. I learned a lot and it was super helpful. I appreciate it.

  • There are creeps here.

    • Good point.

  • A guy can get off to may things, your photos show enough to invoke imagination and want. Tbh I think the photos you post are always amazing

    • I adore your opinions. Thank you for sharing some of your thoughts on this topic.

    • Your very welcome 🙂

  • Men can be very visual, and imaginative. Chances are if a girl is fully clothed they are imagining sexual things or her not with clothing.

    • Thank you for the excellent feedback! 😇

  • Some of them probably hope you will sext with them

    • Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

    • You’re welcome. For your update: I would appreciate that someone thought I was hot enough to get off to my photo. When I was single I might have asked if she wanted to trade pics or sext.

    • Thank you for the helpful feedback on the update! You rock.🎸

  • I don't know what to say it seems that some guys can't hold their sex drive without contacting one and telling them they are jerking off also these same type of guys are most likely looking for a girl to talk sexual over the Internet and really they aren't worth it yes by all means your pics are sexy so who knows?

    • I appreciate your honesty. Thank you for the thoughtful feedback.

    • @secret6620 You're Welcome :)

  • Your pictures are All so sexually lovely.

    • You're nice! Thank you 😊

  • Guys really do tend to be the one to tell you that they’re wanking to your pics.

    • And yeah even with your clothes on people can still be aroused enough to get off.

    • Thank you for explaining your answer and sharing detailed feedback. I appreciate the help.

  • I suppose thats no less weird than posted provacative lingerie photos and asking strangers to look at them.

    Personally though, google has nudes, like, a lot of them, so if they are choosing to wank to a clothed person, then proceed to tell them about it, they probably want in your pants and thats their way of letting you know.

    • I find it interesting that everytime you respond to one of my posts you're very judgmental, sarcastic, and subtly condescending. And it's comical because I never deemed the behavior as "weird" but you made sure you let me know that you think my behavior is weird BEFORE answering the question. I have never asked a stranger to "look" at anything. AND you are here of your own volition because you were not invited to this question. So with all that being said. Please go fuck yourself and have a nice day 🥰 You have such crappy energy that it makes my skin crawl. 😖

  • I'd absolutely love it if a lady told me that she just wanked to my pictures. I know that I tell ladies that because I want them to know how hot I thought the picture was, but with that being said, I only tell ladies that if we're already at that level of naughty talk. Not gonna message someone that completely unsolicited.

    • Excellent feedback 🔥

  • Yes there is also such a thing called cum tributes where people masterbate and cum all over a person's picture and then send the picture of the cum covered picture to the person they cum tributed. I've done it once for a girl I talk to on the regular. It's a different kind of experience.

    • Also follow up to that question is I personally would find it enjoyable if a girl I knew did that

    • Thank you for the awesome feedback and for participating in the follow up. Happy Tuesday 🔆

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