Why do women want to stop slutshaming?

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if you wanna fuck anyone, then do. Why do you expect people to praise you for that?

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CosmicallyCombined Xper 5
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Deep down, behind all of that outward pride, a lot of them feel guilty about specific sexual encounters and may even regret sharing their body with a guy who disrespected them and sh*tted all over them later on. They also don’t want to be called out for the fact that they’re doing something wrong. So they’d rather just try to convince everyone that it’s not wrong to risk catching STD’s, exposing yourself to potentially harmful situations where you could get raped *maybe even gang raped if the guy brings a friend or two for the ride*, conceiving a child in an unstable situation, or sexually pleasing a guy who may not even have the most mild respect for them as a woman.
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- Asker
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  They are desperate that is why they attck peoplewho dislike promiscuity. Hey don't even sluthsame lol they only say they hate promiscuity. But sluts call names them. First of all sluts should end namecalling then demand others not to call them names
- CosmicallyCombined
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  Thanks for mho
- Asker
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  it is good to see wise girls. Unfortunately there are very few women like you
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- CosmicallyCombined
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  awwwh, that's really sweet
- CosmicallyCombined
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  thanks for the compliment
redeyemindtricks Influencer
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"Slut shaming" is just vicious bullying. It's one of the worst types of Mean Girls behaviors.

It VERY rarely has any real relationship to a girl's actual sexual behavior.
In fact, lots of "slut-shamed" girls aren't even having sex (and some of them are still virgins!).
They're just girls that other, mean-spirited girls want to ostracize -- and so, those mean-spirited girls will use whatever flimsy excuse to "slut-shame" them. Sometimes it's as stupid as which boys they were talking to in the hallway, or what they were wearing on a specific day.

It needs to stop, because bullying in general needs to stop.
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- Asker
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  it is not anyone's business who people dislike. If they dislike sluts then that is their business
- Asker
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  And I meant when sluts are slutshamed not virgin girls because it is stupid to slutshame virgins
- Miezko
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  Disliking “sluts" isn't the same thing as slut shaming. Shaming involves public humiliation, disliking something doesn't require public humiliation. In fact, if it's not anyone's business
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- Miezko
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  Sorry, if it's not anyone's business who people dislike they wouldn't make it public and then it wouldn't be shaming.
- redeyemindtricks
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  @Miezko you've got a good head on yr shoulders dude
- Asker
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  @Miezko t many people consider disliking sluts as slutshaming. For example expressing your negative on sluts is slutshaming to some people. I don't know if you think so. Not calling a woman a slut but just to say that you hate sluts.
- Asker
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  @Miezko and slutshaming doesn't mean cLling a woman a slut PUBLICLY. if you call a woman a slut when thereis no other person there then it is STILL slutshaming
- Miezko
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  Moot point
- Asker
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  You said if it's not anyone's business who people dislike they wouldn't make it public and then it wouldn't be shaming. According to this if shaming is not done in public then it is not shaming. So if I call a woman a slut in public it is slutshaming but if I do it when there is only me and her in a room then it is not slushaming? I would like to hear the woman's opinion on here who said you had a good head on your shoulders. Lmfao haha.
- SarahsSummer
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  Anonymous asker, @Miezko has a good head on his shoulders. To not like someone else's behavior is one thing. To tell someone to their face they are a bad person because their values don't align with yours is shaming , inconsiderate and wrong. Spend this time focusing on your own life and let her live hers. After all, her behavior in no way, shape or form affects your life. Stop behaving like it does.
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer you could just tag me @asker and I would understand you meant me because thrre is lnly one asker here. The word "anonymous" wasn't necessary. Now back to he debate. People still say not liking promiscuity means sticking your nose into others' personal lives. People's opinion on others' behavior is their business.
- SarahsSummer
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  Anonymous asker, and I call you that because it's interesting that you have such strong feelings about other people's lives but refuse to let those people know who you are. How exactly is it your business? How on Earth does any other woman's private and personal decisions affect your life?
- Asker
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  As if you wouldrecognize whom I am if you saw my account. Lol like i said having opinion on people's behaviors is my business. My opinion my business. I can voice it if I want.
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer who*
- Miezko
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  Yea, but by voicing it (especially on a public forum) you're inviting criticism.
- SarahsSummer
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  Having an opinion is one thing but to tell someone that their personal and private behavior is bad is not. It's never your business to make someone else feel morally inferior to your values.
- Asker
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  @Miezko I never said people shouldn't critisize me like promiscuous women who say people shouldn't criticise them.
- Miezko
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  Well, I didn't say they should criticize you, I'm sorry if that's the impression I gave you. They can, and it's okay to (so long as it's constructive), criticize your opinion. It's another thing altogether to criticize you (though they still can, but will achieve nothing other than to make the person defensive) . That's what is called shaming tactics, it adds nothing to the discussion other than to humiliate the person being criticized (or shamed).
- Asker
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  @Miezko It is okay because I accept people's right for speech. But people who want to end slutshaming want "slutshamers" to treat sluts the way they treat non sluts. People can like and dislike people based on their actions. You can't tell people to accept promiscuity
- Miezko
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  A right doesn't make something okay, for instance we have a right to hate speech, like racist remarks, but that doesn't mean it's okay to do.
- Asker
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  @Miezko did I ever say slutshaming is okay? No. I only said that you can't tell them not to call offensive names to people. And it IS WRONG to tell people they should accept promiscuity as a normal lifestyle. If you think promiscuity is okay fine. I respect your opinion. If another person thinks promiscuity is Wrong then fine again. We should respect their opinion.
- SarahsSummer
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  Yes. No need to bully your opinions onto others. If I want to know your opinion on promiscuity I'll ask you. fair enough?
- Asker
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  I expressed my opinion on your comments. You have been donig the same to my comments lol. And this is My post. You came here and left comments. If you didn't care about having a convo wih me you wouldn't leave comments here and also on other gagers' comments by TAGGING ME. The anonymous asker lol
- Miezko
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  That's good, so if you agree that slut shaming isn't okay than you understand why women want people to stop slut shaming.
- Asker
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  Slutshaming as in calling people names is not okay but slushaming as in disliking promiscuity is okay because promiscuity itself is not okay. And if you think calling people a slut is not okay then you should think that calling other names such as stupid, dumb, etc is not okay as well
- Miezko
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  Again slut shaming isn't the same as disliking promiscuity. But, yes I do think that it's wrong to call people stupid, dumb, etc, as well. And I can offer up plenty of replies that demonstrate just that (though I rather not, finding them would be tedious).
- Asker
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  @Miezko people call each other names. We can't stop it. And it is good that you think disliking promiscuity is not slutshaming because mnay girls here don't seem to understand the difference
- Miezko
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  Stopping it and wanting it to stop aren't the same thing, and neither is condoning it.
- Asker
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  @Miezko I don't think I told you they stopped slutshaming, i just told you they WANT to stop. And if you WANT to stop slushaming which I am you sure you can't please also try to want to stop namecalling in general lol
- Miezko
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  I didn't say you did. You said we can't stop it and I replied that stopping it and wanting to stop it are different things, meaning that just because we might not be able to stop it doesn't mean opposing it is futile. And again, I do oppose name calling. I really rather not, but I can provide you with old replies of mine that do just that.
- Asker
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  @Miezko we can not shame by calling names but we still have theright to dislike some human behaviors. Promiscuity is a human behavior, did you know it?
- Miezko
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  You can shame by calling names. And I'm not quite sure why you're stuck on this disliking promiscuity, that on it's own is not slut shaming. I've said that several times now. You're question, however, whether you want it to be or not, is about slut shaming, specifically, why do women want slut shaming to stop?
- Asker
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  @Miezko yes but most people do not have he same definition of slutshaming
- Asker
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  @Miezko and trust me if my question wasabout disliking promiscuity I would still get the same negative answers from some Girls.
- Miezko
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  Well, unfortunately, that definition is wrong, and I have no interest in propagating misinformation.
- SarahsSummer
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  @asker time for your education; Slut shaming is the act of criticizing a woman for her real or presumed sexual activity, or for behaving in ways that someone thinks are associated with her real or presumed sexual activity.
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer tell that to butthurt sluts who attacked me for disliking promiscuity
- Miezko
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  Seeing, calling them butt hurt sluts is slut shaming because you're not just demonstrating a disliking of promiscuity, you're attempting to humiliate them by calling them sluts.
- Asker
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  @Miezko but I only defend myself because BEFORE calling them butthurt sluts they called me many names
- Miezko
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  So I asked about disliking promiscuity, 93% of women who answered said they were not offended by disliking promiscuity.
- Asker
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  @Miezko that is because you are a guy. I asked the same questions months ago and girls left so many mean comments. "I wish your husband will cheat on you. You are a judgmental bitch because promiscuity doesn't affect you. Etc "
- Miezko
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  I don't my sex played any role in the outcome, the language you used probably did.
- Asker
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  @Miezko I only said "I dislike promiscuity what about you?" Do you think attcking me for this sentence is rational?
- Miezko
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  I clarified as to exactly what I meant. By your own admission some people think that means slut shaming.
- Asker
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  @Miezko sorry but only dumb people think disliking means shaming
- Miezko
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  Yet, you said slut shaming here when you meant disliking promiscuity.
- Asker
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  @Miezko yes because that is how most girls here defined slutshaming. And you can read how I explained to them what is my views on sluthsaming. Yet they still attacked me for saying "I dislike promiscuity"
- Miezko
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  Just from your question, no I can't.
- Asker
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  @Miezko from my comments
- SarahsSummer
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  Give it a rest asker. Nobody wants to hear your hateful opinions.
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer you can mute this question if you really don't want to hear my opinion. Nothing stops you.
- SarahsSummer
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  How do I mute you? Please tell me.
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer mute the question and you won't have to read my opinions or you can simply not read.
- SarahsSummer
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  Thank you❤️ Most useful thing you've ever said. ☮
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer Thank you too because you did me a favor by cleaning yourself from my post
Sara413 Editor
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No one is asking to be praised for it. We are just asking for people to mind their own fucking business and not treat women who've had more than whatever arbitrary number of partners they think is ideal like they don't have value or are used up and dirty.
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- Asker
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  You can't tell people how to treat sluts because that is their fucking business which is based on women's promiscuity
- Sara413
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  When you decide to be rude or cruel to another person, you make that their business. If you disagree with their lifestyle, fine, don't live that lifestyle, but what they do in their private life does not affect you and it therefore none of your business. What is so hard about the concept of treating other people with respect? Honestly...
- SarahsSummer
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  i second that! What IS so hard to understand about the concept of treating other people with respect? Honestly...
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- Asker
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  Does saying that I feel disgust for peomiscuity mean being rude to another person?
- SarahsSummer
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  If you say it to that person it absolutely is. Keep it to yourself.
- Sara413
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  What is the purpose of stating that opinion aloud if not to hurt others? Is there any valid reason why you cannot just keep it to yourself? I suppose if someone directly asks you what your opinion is on their lifestyle, saying that it disgusts you is just you being honest. But if you haven't been asked for your opinion, there is no need to state it and if you choose to do so, you are choosing to solely for the purpose of tearing someone down and trying to make them feel inferior based for no reason.
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer is saying I feel disgust for promiscuity as a human behavior slutshaming? And I have to repeat that you can't tell others to keep their opinion to themselves when you express yours. This is my postand I express my opinion as well as hear yours. And will you tell me the name of the person whom I am tearing town by saying that I feel disgust for promiscuity?
- SarahsSummer
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  You're hopeless. Thus site is not called girls opinions it's called girls ask. As in, You ask, I answer. If in real life I want your opinion on something, I'll ask. But since your life has no bearing on mine and my life has no bearing on yours, I won't.
- Sara413
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  Here's the difference - your opinion is intentionally judgmental and the only purpose behind expressing it is to try to make yourself look or feel superior to others. Our opinion is non-judgmental and the purpose behind stating it is to ask that people respect one another. TL;DR - your opinion is mean and unnecessary, our opinion is kind and issued in response to meanness.
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer you tagged me here which means you want to hear my opinion. You know very well why gag allows the "reply" option here.
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer you know that I am not the only gagerwho responds to opinion owners
- SarahsSummer
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  @asker, once again I'm going to defer to my friend @Sara413's comment " your opinion is mean and unnecessary, our opinion is kind and issued in response to meanness."
- Asker
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  @SarahsSummer so just because my opinion expresses disliking promiscuity then it is unnecessary? If my opinion is unnecessary then why do you talk to me? You tell me to keep my opinion to myself whike you express yours. You think your opinion is necessary because it defends sluts? lmfao. Please report my post because I don't want you to gt more desperate by hearing my negativity on promiscuity.
- Sara413
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  You are missing the point. Your opinion was not asked for. You are choosing to express it for no reason other than to posture yourself as superior. Slut shaming is not the same as merely holding an opinion. You can think whatever you want to think and have whatever values you want when it comes to your own sexuality. But when you express disgust and shame others for their sexuality, that doesn't just hurt the individual (s) who you are passing judgment on, it causes a great deal of social harm. Slut shaming perpetuates the notion that a woman's worth is inherently tied to her sexual purity. Have you never considered the emotional/psychological impact such a notion would have and does have on girls who have been raped? (Elizabeth Smart has some very strong things to say about this. I suggest reading up on her opinions about disporportionately valuing purity). What about girls who gave their virginity to who they thought was Mr Right but wasn't?
- Asker
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  You are talkig to me, right. If you are expecting me not to answer then tell me. It seems you want to make statements without hearing disagreements lol
- Asker
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  Please don't bring up rape. Promiscuity never decreases the rates of rape. And so sluts are insecure enough to get hurt becauseI dislike promiscuity? Don't you think this makes them not only insecure but also out of mind? Expecting people not to dislike heir behavior is childish lol
- Asker
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  And don't compare to having an ex boyfriend with promiscuity. I clearly said to you promiscuity is having casual sex
- Sara413
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  You have, again, missed the point. I will try to spell it out for you in simple language... - Slut shaming perpetuates (that means supports and helps continue) a culture that says women's worth is tied to their sexual behaviour. - In such a culture, girls grow up believing that their worth is tied to their sexual behaviour. - When a girl who believes that her worth is tied to her sexual behaviour is raped, or loses her virginity, this results in feelings of depressed worth, which takes a large emotional toll. Don't tell me to "not bring up rape victims". If you think rape victims are irrelevant to this discussion, you're even simpler than I'd gathered initially. This is all related. It all comes back to a how opinions affect culture and how culture affects real people in significant ways.
- Sara413
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  This is not about "sluts" being "insecure". It's about women wanting to be valued for more than their sexuality. For so long as we as a society shame women for expressing their sexuality, we perpetuate a system that views women as nothing more than sexual objects to be used and tossed away rather than sexual beings with agency and choice and value beyond some arbitrary number of partners.
- Asker
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  If a woman wants to be valued for morethan their sexuality they wouldn't sleep with men who value only their sexuality
- Asker
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  And you seem to betheonewho can't comprehend. I commentedonyour statement about rape.
- Sara413
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  You are being wilfully ignorant of the impact that your attitude has on society and I'm done trying to beat you over your thick head with it. Enjoy your false sense of superiority. I'm sure it will bring you great happiness in life...
- Asker
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  again girls who support promiscuity always wish me horrible things. Very mature
- Sara413
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  I wished you horrible things? News to me...
- Asker
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  "Enjoy your false sense of superiority. I'm sure it will bring you great happiness in life..." this means you hope my superiority will make me unhappy in life
- Sara413
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  No, it was saying that it's not likely to bring you happiness in life. No wishing about it.
- Asker
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  please don't predict anything about my life. If you were a good person you would wish good things
- Sara413
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  It's only my opinion ;)
- Asker
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  thanks for making predications about my future life
- Sara413
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  Your welcome :)

Most Helpful Guys

FakeName123 Guru
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Because people suck at self-responsibility. Everyone is free to sleep around. You dont get punished for it by the law. But actions have consequences and most people look down on promiscuous people - especially promiscuous women. You either deal with it, you keep it a secret or you dont sleep around.

What these people actively want to do is want you to like sluts and their behaviour which is bullocks. Everyone is free to dislike whoever and whatever they want.
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- Asker
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  Rigjt. That is all i try to explain here. If you say you hate sluts people say you slutshame
Berethor Master
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A slut deserve to be called a slut, the only ones who praise sluts are the sluts themselves and some of the guys who are looking for easy girls for an one night stand.

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SarahsSummer Master
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Lol. I think there's a huge difference between shaming and praising. We should all focus on taking care of our own lives. Let others live their life the way they want. Those who shame clearly don't have enough going on in their own lives.
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- Asker
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  Define slutshaming
- SarahsSummer
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  I did. Read on.
- Asker
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  Do you think expressing your negative opinion on promiscuity is slutshamang?
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- SarahsSummer
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  Telling another human being they are inferior to you because of the personal and private choices she makes is slut shaming. I haven't expressed a negative opinion of promiscuity. Someone else's private decisions DO NOT AFFECT ME positively or negatively.
- Asker
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  Again I never called a girl a slut, All i said is I feel disgust for promiscuity as a human behavior. Did I call you a slut? Because you seem to be offended. Lol
- SarahsSummer
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  Keep it to yourself. Sharing that Info helps no one.
- Asker
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  Listen girl. At first you told me not to have an opinion on promiscuity. And I nicely explained to you that I have the right to express my opinion on human bhaviors. I guess even you realized I was right for reminding you about the right for speech. And now you started telling me that I shouldn't respond to opinion owners? Lmfao. You have become so desperate and defensive. Lol
- SarahsSummer
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  "your opinion is mean and unnecessary, our opinion is kind and issued in response to meanness." -@Sara413
- Asker
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  You never could make valid point. All you said is I shouldn't have a negative opinion on ohers. This is stupid. Because we all have negative and positive opinion. if you didn't consider yourself a slut you wouldn't attack me for hrs. You would simply tell me why you think I am wrong and move on. "Everybody is entitled to their opinion. You think promiscuity is okay, then good for you. I think promiscuity is wrong. Again good for me. you express your opinion on slutshaming. This is what my question was about. But most of all you expressed your NEGATIVE opinion on my NEGATIVE opinion on promiscuity which I never asked you. Lol. It is funny that you said I shouldn't have expressed my views on promiscuity cause no one asked but all you did for this whole time was commenting on it rather than answering the question.
- SarahsSummer
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  Are you learning disabled? You posted a question. " Why do women want to stop slutshaming" my answer was WE SHOULD ALL FOCUS ON TAKING CARE OF OUR OUN LIVES. You missed that. I answered your question the fact that you kept asking is why we are still here. otherwise you would have accepted my opinion and moved on. Let me say it again and read slow so you can absorb. The reason why slut shaming should stop is because it mean, unnecessary and rude. Those who feel the need to slut shame should look at their own lives and focus on being the best person they can be. What another chooses to do with their live is inconsequential to your life and to devote attention to it for the sole purpose of demeaning another is completed unwarranted. That is the complete answer to your question. Even in mother Russia did they not teach you.. if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all That is the reason To stop slutshaming.
- Asker
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  So it does matterif I am honest or not cause what is matrrs is to express positive opinions?
- Asker
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  And people who care enough about oothers lives and want them not to get slutshamed should mind their own business. It is not your business who gets slutshamed. According to your "mind your own business" cliche
- Asker
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  And your frustrating is ridiculous. Your anger is funny. My opinion on sluts hurt your feelings
- SarahsSummer
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  Listen. You asked why slut shaming should be stopped. I told you. If you've had some sort of trauma in your life that disabled your ability to understand, I'm sorry. But again, Asked and answered. This matter is closed.
- Asker
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  You tagged me and commented on my comment where I was talking wih others not with you, and your aggression tells me that you think of yourself as a slut. Otherwise why would you be so aggressive?
NJ_Casanova Guru
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True.
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Heretolisten Xper 5
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Why is slutshaming only for women and not men?
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- AleDeEurope
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  It's called fuckboy or manwhore.
- Oram52
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  @AleDeEurope Still has no effect on guys. Guys earn that pussy and called studs. Promiscuouty has no social stigma for guys.
- Oram52
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  Its not for men because men can't go into a bar, have girls around them, get free drinks and drop their undies to get laid. That's why. Regardless I do not condone slut shaming simply because its none of my business what some does or does not do. I simply wouln't date someone promiscuous.
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- Heretolisten
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  @Oram52 lmao true, unless they're gay. xD Well anyway to answer your question, Anonymous, Women who have sex regularly are not sluts ( it's the same for men) Some of them just have very high sex drive. Maybe they just don't feel like being in a relationship. They would rather have sex then be unfaithful. Also they're extremely senstive when it comes to sex. To me slut or not, I don't care, I'll never slutshame anyone or distest them just because they had sex like a whore. It's sex, it's their choice, let them be.
- Heretolisten
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  (Also women know that having sex like a whore isn't something they're proud of. They feel it and deep down they know. When you said "why do you expect people to praise you for it?". That statement from other women were probably to share that they would rather be left alone then to be slutshamed.
mutedaisy Guru
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I don't believe they expect praise, they expect not to be treated like they are sub-human.
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- Asker
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  ButtheyARE treated that way by men who fuck and leave them
- mutedaisy
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  You haven't made my point any less valid.
- Asker
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  All I meant was they chooseto be treated like sub human
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- mutedaisy
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  You're still wrong. No one should be treated sub-human for having any amount of sex.
- Asker
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  Lol if they don't want to rreat like that then why do they let guys use them as sex objects?
chintita Yoda
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cuz its not wrong, so the virgins need to stfu about it. srsly no one else talks about it except y'all
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- Asker
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  Promiscuity is not wrong maybe to sluts but not for non sluts
- Asker
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  And you should know that peoplehave different opinions on different human behaviors.
- Asker
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  What is right to you maybe wrong to others
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- Asker
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  And do you know what can cause promiscuity?
AleDeEurope Master
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Sluts deserve to be praised too, they take the shitty guys and leave relationship guys for relationship girls.
They clean the dating pool, be thankful.

All hail Sluts!
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skaikrasha Explorer
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It's not that they expect you to praise them for that, but there's no need to put them down for sleeping around either. Slutshaming is really fucking immature. People should just stop sticking their noses in other people's sex lives. Simple enough.
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- Asker
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  it is not anyone's business to dislike whoever they want.
- skaikrasha
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  Nobody's asking you to like them. Just show some basic respect.
- Asker
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  If someone says that they hate sluts people say he slutshamed lol so is this slutshaming!
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- skaikrasha
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  Define "slut".
- Asker
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  A woman who has one night stands
- skaikrasha
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  Soo how exactly a woman having one night stands affect you?
- Asker
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  affects me in a way hat disgusts me. this is it
- skaikrasha
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  But no one does it infront of you lol.
- Asker
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  but they do smth that I find disgusting.
zombiebabe Editor
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well... idc about what others do of their lives but when it comes to what you said above i kinda agree...(and this applies for both guys and girls)
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AdamThomas Guru
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Feminism teaches women that men have it all better and that they should be more like us. While whenever you ask women what they think of players they almost always react negatively, they then complain about slut-shaming and claim that it's wrong that they get shit while men are praised for sleeping. around... By who? I've never seen a guy get praise for sleeping around.
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- Asker
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  Those girls don't hate manwhores. They just want to shame studs as sluts are shamed for reaching equality
frozenhorizon Explorer
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I think most people just don't want there to be a double standard for men vs women, they want consistency.
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Bards Guru
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No ones asking for praise
Just mind your own bizz
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- Asker
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  Having an opinion is not miding one's business?
Oram52 Yoda
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I wouldn't slutshame because its none of my business what someone does or not to with their life. I wouldn't like someone telling me how I should live my life. Everyone is free to do what they want to. Why go out of ones way to humiliate someone. I don't like slut shaming because I feel I am attacking someones right to live their life as they feel fit. It doesn't effect me, its not breaking any laws, I don't care.

I however will not date someone promiscuous.
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Dingsbums Yoda
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Because guys seem to be praised for it and women want equality. Nothing wrong with that in my opinion
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- Asker
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  Lol .
slimstiffy Xper 7
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Exactly. Sloots gonna sloot.
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Mesmaeker Xper 5
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It's not anyone's business, one way or the other.
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- Asker
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  it is not anyone's business to dislike whoever they want.
- Mesmaeker
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  That's right. But there's a difference between having a opinion, and trying to make someone look bad, or inferior, or whatever because some aspects of their lifestyle don't correspond with your own lifestyle.
- Asker
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  But feminists want people not only stop calling names tl sluts but also like them
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- Mesmaeker
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  I never heard of that. Besides feminist don't determine what you think or do. You do. And it's nobody's job to put a moral value on your actions. Same goes for women who have a sexlife.
- Asker
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  It is everybody's job to have an opinion
Miezko Xper 7
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Stopping slutshaming isn't praising being promiscuous, it's just not shaming women as sluts. That's it.
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- Asker
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  Nope. Ending slutshaming means treating sluts equal to non sluts
- Miezko
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  Which doesn't equal praising sluts. There are other options than just shaming or praising.
- Asker
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  AndI used the word praising sarcastically. I meant how can promiscuity not be shamed
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- Miezko
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  So than you're saying the only option is to slut shame? Well, again, I'm going to disagree and say there are other options, much, much, more healthy options.
- Asker
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  I was talking about not liking promiscuity
- Miezko
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  Well, for one, you're not communicating that very well when you say slut shaming, and two, and this is really why slut shaming should stop (or at least one reason), you're words are self defeating. Attacking creates resistance, if you want to discourage people from being promiscuous you should talk about that not attack and alienate people for it.
- Asker
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  Lol you can't understand a thing so I change my sentences for making them clear to you. I don't want to change anyone all I want is to make people understand that people can dislike sluts and this is not slutshaming.
- Miezko
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  You're question doesn't achieve that.
GreatnessRevamped Xper 6
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True, it seems like people want a cookie just for being alive.
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Carly18 Xper 5
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I could not care less about what other girls do with their vaginas. I do not shame no one but also i do not praise them.
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Yumix Master
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no one expects you to praise her for it. but it's none of your business, therefore they also don't expect to get shamed for it.
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- Asker
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  I don't call them sluts until they attack me
- Yumix
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  and why do they attack you?
- Asker
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  Just read girls convo here. Lol and please tell me your opinion
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- Yumix
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  I don't see why anyone would attack you unless you made a negative comment about it. And in that case it's no surprise because like I said, it's none of your business unless they specifically asked for your opinion. The way your question is asked implies that slutshaming is okay, so the negative reaction is normal. If someone wants to sleep around, fine. It's not my body, my life or affecting me in any other way. So why should I care about her sexual life?
- Asker
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  They attack me becauseI said I dislike promiscuity. And slutshaming as in name calling is wrong but as in disliking promiscuity is okay
- Asker
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  So should I talk only when people ask me questions? Lol
- Yumix
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  no, and it's your good right to not like it but if you tell it someone without being asked for your opinion, then don't expect to get a nice answer back. It's with most things like that. Go tell a Christian that you don't like Christs, tell a Vegan that you don't like Vegans, tell someone black that you don't like black people, etc. ... you can be sure that more often than not, the response you get won't be very positive. If it's something which affects you in any way, then it's of course a different story
- Asker
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  Didn't expect a positive opinion. I expected a reasonable opinion. Seethe difference?
- Yumix
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  There is only one thing you should expect when commenting unasked negatively on something which is none of your business. That they don't like it.
- Asker
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  is it their business that I dislike promiscuity? No but they comment on it. If they didn't care they would not convince me for hours to change my opinion on promiscuity. This is how my opinion is important to them
anonman32 Guru
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this is how i think slut shaming works: SHAME ON YOU, YOU ARE A SLUT BECAUSE YOU CAN GET MORE MEN THEN I DO.

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- Asker
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  lol prostitues get the most men
- anonman32
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  the are pros after all.
- Asker
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  so there is nothing achievable in sleeping with many men
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- anonman32
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  images.duckduckgo.com/.../
  
  this is the only thing i think.
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