Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Does it simply feel best for you or are there more benefits from it like lasting longer that way?
1000 women were asked to name the biggest pet peeves under the sheets. Guess what no. 1 is.
https://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/she-hates
A scene from sex and the city for those who don't know what that I'm talking about. You have to verify your age to watch it, even though it more funny than sexual..
If you don't want to login, you could also watch a rabbit video to get an idea.
Inspired by a comment I read today..
Guys, why do you like jack rabbit sex / jackhammer style sex so much?
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What Guys Said
(19)I personally don't, I like to take my time. I always always always try to make it all about her, not only physically but emotionally. There are times when I want it to be about me but I can push that emotion to the side and in the end knowing it will be about both of us. Jackhammer sex is the sign of the times when porn is made readily avail. to everyone but mostly men. Most porn show men going at it like crazy and since most men watch porn that's where they learn it from. I'm not saying this is wrong but if you don't like it then let him know. You have to be honest and communicate, let him know what you like, guide him, because if don't talk he's going to assume you love it and if he thinks he's pleasing you he will keep doing it.
Jackhammering is very dominating, and satisfying.
There's no feeling, like climaxing from hard, deep, and fast penetration.
Personally, I position her for optimal penetration, and then do long strokes the full length of my penis. I go as deep as I can. Nice and hard, so I can smack against her flesh.
It doesn't matter if she's on top, or being taken from behind. Maximum penetration is necessary. If I can't penetrate her fully, I will simply pleasure here orally to end the night amicably, and I will never have sex with her again.
The trick for jackhammering to be right, is to maintain good angle that's comfortable for you and her, stabilizing her body for the thrusting, and maintaining a steady rhythm.
After lots of foreplay, I do not initiate penetration until she is actively trying to copulate. At that point, I know she's ready.
I'd like to direct you toward a metronome, to provide insight into pacing for movement. (Google: metronome beat)
Depending on how easily she receives the penis, 100 BPM is a starting point. (No slower than 50 BPM, or my penis will get bored.)
I maintain this pace, while providing a lot of additional stimulation: breathe on her neck, fondling of breasts, heavy kissing, clitoral stimulation, rubbing of arms and back. The other forms of stimulation tend to overwhelm her, so I often have to grab her hips and reposition her to keep her steady.
After an undetermined amount of time, some women will start moving their body against the thrusting, indicating they want more.
To accommodate this, I turn it up to 150 BPM. (Adjust your metronome beat on Google to hear this.)
As this pace requires a bit more work from me, additional stimulation is slightly reduced, as I am now stabilizing myself ON her. If she's on her back, I often have her legs spread, and knees back. If we're doing doggystyle, I have her backed arched, but she is upright, and NOT face down on the bed. I am able to keep one hand on her hip to control her. The other hand is free to hold her neck, fondle breasts, reach the clit, hold her neck, hold hair, etc.
When I observe that the woman is finally able to stabilize herself, and is pushing back into me, I am able to move at the pace I prefer. 200 BPM.
At this point, the penetration feels wonderful and juicy, the cheeks are clapping, the flesh is smacking. There's queefing, it's wet and noisy, and it's VERY warm.
When I am about to cum, I have the stamina to get up to 250 BPM for maybe a good 30 seconds... and then I bust my nut, and it is EXPLOSIVE. (You will need to YouTube a 250 BPM video.)
In general, I think you often see this kinda thing popular in porn, because a lot of people, like myself, DO in fact, do it. And it feels great, when done properly. It's what most men fantasize about. If they DIDN'T fantasize about it, that form of porn, simply wouldn't be popular.
I think the disaster that is demonstrated in that Sex and the City clip, is a result of the guy basically just bashing Carrie around. She's moaning and yelping, because he's jerking her around, and he's failing to stabilize her and hold her steady. So a lot of the force from his thrust, is going to angles it shouldn't. Additionally, he's trying to put a lot of thrusting into a very uncomfortable and exhausting position. You can see from how his legs are shifting under the blanket, that he does not have good leverage.
He's also not paying attention to her reactions. He's not paying attention to her. She's worried about hitting her head, or trying to anticipate just how deep he will go... things you don't have to worry about, if you are holding her secured, and you already know how deep you can actually go.
Forgive my technical explanation on all of this.
I've never done it like that, and I prefer to go slowly rather than fast generally (the girls I've been with seem to want it faster than I do if anything). I can't explain prefer that, if they actually do, it's not the type of thing I talk about with friends.
The only time I do go fast (but not that fast) as for the last minute or so, but it's not like my whole body's flailing about like that.
Maybe it's a New York thing...
Oh and I noticed some guys suggesting that it's to do with being circumcised. I am and I still prefer it slow.
Some girls seem to like faster sex when it's not like that... I wouldn't consider Sex in the City to be the best source of information...
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q69346-how-many-women-out-there-prefer-slow-tantric
because thats my "nature" i want to piston hammer beautiful women. its what my instinct, body and mind craves. as simple and animalistic as that.
I don't always do it but when I do I am dominating, showing off a little and thinking she will like it fast and hard. Guess not :)
Yeah, that's BS sex. Nothing fun about that at all.
I actually don't like that at all. Just because you see it on "Sex and the City" doesn't mean it's true.
If no guy likes this, why is it ranked as no. 1 pet peeve in the poll? Surely there are enough guys doing it to warrant the ranking?
I have no doubt that there are guys who do that. If I had to guess, some of them probably watch too many porno movies and think women enjoy that, while others care only about getting themselves off.