Why does he get so turned on fingering me when he’s not getting anything done to himself?

[Anonymous]

I’ve had sex with my boyfriend and obviously he always says how tight I am. But for some reason when he fingers me he always like says ‘oh my gosh wow’ or moans when he’s fingering me as if it feels good to him but I don’t get it? Can a guy feel how wet u are or something when fingering cause why does he get so turned on fingering me I know this other guy who was the same as well and he’d react the same and say ‘wow’ but I don’t get how it would feel good to a man?

[TheorionMage]

As a woman, RARELY do you respond so profoundly to JUST a male's appearance as what males feel and fantasize about YOU...
in manually arousing You, for that time... HE fantasizes that HE NOW HAS that same degree and affect... upon YOUR psyche and physical body and... its unbounded by his own male comparatively-brief ejaculatory arousal.

He COULD frig & fondle YOUR intimate parts far longer... in excess of what he does to his own. But... DON'T 'fake' your response. You only 'cheat' yourself AND ingrain bad technique habits in your Lover.

He actively SEEKS to MAKE YOU 'happy'; YOU ostensibly WANT TO BE orgasimically 'happy'... 'WHAT the HELL is gained in 'faking it'?

When beautiful music is heard & felt, from whence does that music come?
The quality of the instrument? Or, the finesse of the Musician?

Pragmatically, it is the FUSION of the potential of BOTH! ;)

[integrale77]

I also get very turned on by pleasuring a woman. Yes we feel you getting wetter down there it's a reassuring response letting us know we are doing things right.
Also it turns me on seeing the way a woman responds to me pleasuring her not just what's happening in and around the vagina. It's about how your whole body responds, your breathing, sounds you make and facial expressions.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

This goes into the category of “anticipation”. With most things in life it’s not what we have it’s what we don’t have. Haven’t you ever wanted something and the anticipation of getting it is the thing that drives you. Well fingering you is feeding his desires for sex.

[sarahstar13]

Hearing the moans and groans from him touching you is music to his ears. In my case, I'll let him know it feels good with his fingers inside me and that usually will get him hard.

[Guy13]

Cause we like to see you happy.

[sarahsmile8839]

He probably enjoys turning you on.

[Paul_in_Indy]

I bet he gets turned on watching you eat strawberries; even if he doesn’t get one himself. How much hotter is it to see, hear, and feel you responding to his touch?

[slatyb]

He can certainly feel how wet you are and find that arousing. I would.

[20yearsolder]

Of course we can feel and see how wet you are getting. We like giving pleasure. As long as you're enjoying it, let it happen. You're a lucky woman

[TadCurious]

I'm totally like your boyfriend about that. It feels good to do it. Our fingers are packed with sensory nerve endings and feeling all the contours and crevices of a vulva --- especially when it's wet --- is a huge turn on. It's lots of fun and very intimate.

[Wade12345]

Um, the man fingers you out of selfless love, but also he is enjoying just getting to see and touch your vagina, which men don't get to do very often.

Pleasuring you unselfishly is a huge sense of both humility and accomplishment at the saem time. It's very fulfilling to him to see your needs fulfilled.

[terry49]

To me fingering is not only foreplay but the way I determine her real feelings. If she starts out dry and tight but really opens and gets wet then I know she is aroused and if she doesn't push my hand away I will guide her hand to my crotch-if she rubs me-unzips me-fondles me then I know she wants to have sex and we proceed.

[LiamSawyer]

Feeling howvtight you are and how wet he's making you get and those soft moans of pleasure he hears from you as he finger fucks your vagina while using his thumb to rub your clit hood in a circular motion is pretty damn hot enough to give him or at least me a throbbing hard on.

[AviatorTom]

We guys like to pleasure our women, and get excited ourselves when she enjoys it. It's not all about the guy.

[Dargil]

Both fingering and oral are very exciting even with no prospect of "pay back".

[anon1903]

He's selfless. Kee him.

[bowenw]

It's probably similar to how a woman feels when she pleasures a man.

[Shedzij567]

He likes the way You Pussy feels inside.

[tedbuoyy]

Can I dm you

[Redhawkedancing]

As a man, when I finger my wife, I enjoy it when she enjoys it. It's a sensory thing for me too, maybe even a turn on for me.

[AydenHazor]

Some guys get turned on by giving a woman pleasure

[Stevefiveo]

It may not be a direct sexual feeling but I know I like fingering a girl and feeling how wet and tight she is and hearing her moan. My cock gets hard because I know she is so close to being ready to be fucked. It is kind like when girls give oral. Their pussy isn't being stimulated but they love it.

[Twalli]

It feels pretty good fingering a girl. We can feel how wet you are. Also we can feel the inside of your pussy, and we can't really do that with our penis. At least not in the same way. I can't feel my girlfriend's g spot with my penis. I can with my fingers

[PatriceONeal]

Men and women can both take pleasure in pleasing their partner. Guys love the "oh face" and girls love our cave groans

[peterrezeeek]

cuz he loves u,,,,, he love to see ur reaction and u were so excited i guess