Why does sexting turn you on?

Question

I wanna know why you like it

SunnySonia · Accepted Answer

"What sexcites more is between the ears (brain) than between the legs (genitals) [or between the arms (chest/ breast)]"
When sexting, you tend to bring out your wild imaginations openly as the other person is not right in-front of you. You can't see him/her and you can't be seen.. so the hesitation and shame takes a step back.. after all nothing's happening in real.. it's still imagination. Moreover, psychologically, you might be feeling as if you're talking to your own self.. or may be that you're talking to the other person in your imaginations only.. as if it's not real. It's like a live fantasy world.. cumming true..(uh sorry for the spell mistake) 😉

H2OHydrox · Accepted Answer

It’s an opportunity to engage several of the senses, as well as the imagination. Setting a scene so vivid, so lifelike that your words alone can turn someone on and inspire them to cum? That’s a turn on.

rgb008 · Accepted Answer

because I love to use my wide vocabulary and showcase my oral skills.

InfoBot · Answer

It allows inadequate people to engage with the opposite sex, of course they'll like it.

MrMysteryMan · Answer

I think it's all in the fantasy or that it's a precursor to what will happen later. Either than that, it can get to be anticlimactic at times. I would love to have sexual play over Skype or something like that more, where I can see you're actually masturbating or we're watching one another masturbate together. That's more erotic for me.

SmoMan71 · Answer

It doesn't usually do it for me.

abc3643 · Answer

Because it is interactive porn and not written for the general reader but for you and your reader.

sammy1537 · Answer

Weirds me out.

Cozybcuz · Answer

hmm, i used to enjoy it as i'm a bit of an exhibitionist. But i'm more or less bored with it now. rather have a partner close to me

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Because I'm a writer and words turn me on.

NineBreaker · Answer

Verbal erotic exchanges (including via text messaging) are psychologically associated with sexual activity, and that leads to the memory recall of sexual experiences. This cognitive process helps activate the autonomic nervous system (mostly through the sacral branches of the parasympathetic nervous system) and contribute to sexual arousal.

If someone gets turned in by sexting, that's probably why.

0112358 · Answer

Because it lets you share a fantasy with someone, and feel desired, and feel that you're lust is not just accepted but welcomed.

memyers13 · Answer

There are a lot of reasons. It's sexy to know a girl is into you that she will spend her time on it. Time is a valuable thing. more importantly as far as being turned on goes, if done right it can be an absolute fantasy that you share with someone. You don't have to worry about a position being too awkward or uncomfortable. You can imagine a perfect version of that person, and you can showcase each other's creativity.

Hammarskjöld · Answer

Girls dont talk about sex as much as a guy does. So when she opens up and does that nasty talk, its a turn on

Coolz0r · Answer

Because your imagination makes everything so much more intense. It's like your mind activates your 'instant horny' function.

Wollu · Answer

It’s cinema in the head. Lots of fantasy and lack of making it real.

TheShyPrep · Answer

Men are visual creatures, what can I say

studDMuffF1n · Answer

It's modern day four play it's all good.

Volvagia · Answer

it doesn't

RohitLakra · Answer

When people who I feel sexually attracted to live far away then sexting helps. It also helps in masturbation and is better than porn according to me because you have some person with whom you do it so it feels like you are masturbating to someone in real and not just jerking off in front of screen watching porn. Also I personally stay hard more longer than in porn lol

sahas20 · Answer

I am very good at it, and I enjoy it for a bit, but if I overdo it, I get blue balls 😂 coz either you can type or you can jerk. 😂

ashnakag666 · Answer

Very simple: I can't get a real girlfriend and sexting roleplay makes me feel like I'm loved kinda. Also, if the sexting is good, words can be a bigger precumproducer than pics