Why guys hate me when I use them just for sex?

I'm horny girl. I want dick all the time but don't want relationship. So if I use guy for sex than why they hate me?
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I told all guy's at the beginning I want your dick not your heart. Than also why so much anger towards me?
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  • Its very similar to when men have sex with women and then the women hate them because all they want is sex. I am not saying you are wrong, what you are doing is justifiable, you have needs and you are getting them. And its a good thing that you tell them beforehand that you just need sex, but even men end up catching feelings and they can"t process the fact that you are not going to be an emotional companion to them so the easiest route to take is to hate you before the realization hits them that this was never going to work anyway and they still went up and caught feelings. Don't worry about them, it happens many times, to both genders, just make sure to not have sex with someone who could become obsessive. I hope you have better sexual experiences in the future

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  • Something don't add up here, I'm sure most single guys, even some assholes in relationships would love to find a dick hungry fuck body, so I'm not sure how you claim to find guys upset with no string attached sex.

    Plus like others said you're kidding yourself if you think you're the user, doing exactly what fuckboys want dosent mean you're pulling the strings.

    The only reason they'd be mad is if you aren't being clear up front, or maybe you only do each guy once and refuse to have friends with benefits? I don't know something don't add up, you aren't telling us something, cause no way are you being the "dream side peice" that is only around long enough to fuck then leave and not call again till your horny again.

Most Helpful Girls

  • @savage22 - I think you've got it all twisted around in your head sweetie. Guys are using you. You're not good for much of anything beyond sex.

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  • Because many guys often fall for big time hoes nowadays, I don't know why but they don't really care about standards anymore.

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  • Because. . . believe it or not. . . guys also have feelings.

    Something tells me that you are a troll!

    • same here, this sounds too damn good to be true

  • As long as you let them know in advance, they should not hate you ate all. It makes for a pleasant sexual experience for both of you.

  • Are you up front about it? And you may be attracting the kind of men who really want that long term relationship.

    • "I told all guy's at the beginning I want your dick not your heart. Than also why so much anger towards me?" Well, if that is true, you really may indeed be "all that and a bag of chips", and so the men you meet want to make you theirs and vice versa for good. So you could look at it as a positive thing.

  • Enjoy the orgasms... I'm sure they love their orgasms also. Don't forget to use condoms and just have fun.. they will have to get over it.

  • Some dudes are just sensitive af. But you also want to be careful about being vulnerable or too open around people like that because it often gets taken the wrong way.

    The same thing has happened to me with women.

  • Guy usually don't mind to use a slutty girl, so I am not sure what they hate you.

    • I mean I am not sure why they hate you.

  • What kind of an idiotic question is even that?

    • You will be surprised on how western women treat western men today. This is nothing new to us.

    • Captain why you're like crying baby?

    • Another thing western women do is they make fun of men for crying. I already know how to deal with western women. You can’t hurt me anymore

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  • Well the same reason women get mad when guys do it to them... all you want is sex you will never have anything meaningful so

  • Cause you used them I guess

  • If guys act like that, wanting only sex, only fair girls would do the same. I don't hate such girls. Still, we're no machines, and whether we want it or not, having regularly sex with someone leads to more subtle feelings...

  • Because no one likes to be used.

  • Because guys usually seek a relationship and unless you are honest it will upset them

  • I do not know how you treat them afterwards. It is probably not just the sex.

  • what exactly do you mean by "used?" cause it doesn't sound like you're dealing with dudes. you sound like every man's dream come true

  • it's fine to me, it's better with non-monogamous guys that don't mind.

  • sounds fishy to me

  • They are dumbshit... They should just keep fucking you and be happy.
    By the way, what's your current location? I'd love to be used by you

  • Maybe you have lead them on to believe there is or will be more to it than sex.

  • Sounds like a fair warning., but then they probbably get attached.

  • It is a general reaction but there is not a point of hate for you. at least you are honest before doing it many girl just want sex but never said it. Appreciate you the way you are i also that girl who are just honest don't pay attention who hate you just go to those guys who also just want sex. If possible i would love to do with you just sex no hard feeling just sexxxxx.

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