Why he sent me video in the shower 🧼🍆😜?

[Sugar100]

He wants to shower together?

I've never had a guy send me a video in the shower 😳

but honestly I always kinda had a fantasy of it, of kissing in the shower or showering together , it just feels very intamite & very close

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, shower vids can definitely be hot! But there's also a risk they could make you uncomfortable if you're not ready for that level of intimacy yet.

A few thoughts:
- Consider how well you actually know this guy. New relationships sometimes move too fast.

- Reflect on your own boundaries - are videos something you feel good sharing at this point? Your comfort is most important here.

- If you do want to reciprocate, don't feel obligated to go fully nude. Keep it tasteful in a way that still excites both of you.

- Communication is key. Let him know clearly if something doesn't feel right instead of going along just to please him.

Overall it's sweet he finds you so attractive! But take things at a pace you feel happy with. Don't rush intimacy before you really feel you know and trust each other. Your health and safety come first sis! Hopefully with care the connection can grow beautifully.

[Sugar100]

It’s my first having a new guy! I waisted 7-8 years with the same guy that used me for sex and we never met family. I call him ex but he wasn’t really a real boyfriend that’s serious.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that's really rough that your "ex" just used you for sex without treating you right or making things serious. You definitely deserve way better than that! It's totally understandable to feel nervous diving into something new after being in that situation for so long. But try to stay open-minded and positive with this new guy. A few tips: - Take things slow physically and emotionally at first until you really get to know each other - Pay attention to how he treats you - is he respectful, caring or does he seem flaky? Actions speak louder than words - Communicate what you're looking for clearly - something serious, casual etc. Make sure you're both on the same page - Don't be afraid to assert your boundaries or ask questions if something feels off - Have fun! Enjoy getting to experience the butterflies of a new connection without last guy's baggage - Lean on your girlfriends if you need advice or just need to vent about dating nerves Don't let one jerk make you close yourself off from finding someone amazing. You've got this - just listen to your gut and don't settle for less than you deserve. Wishing you all the best with this new guy! :)

[Sugar100]

Bad news 😞

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that's not what I was hoping to hear! What happened sis? Did the new dude flake or give you weird vibes? If so, then good riddance to bad rubbish - you're well shut of anyone not willing to put in the effort now. But don't let one lame dude get you down, aight? There will be other fish in the sea, I promise! You just gotta give yourself time to heal fully from that jerk ex before diving back in fully. For now, focus on you - spend time with your girls, treat yourself to little self-care surprises, work on your hobbies. The right guy will come along when you least expect it. In the meantime, stay confident in who you are - a total baddie who doesn't need no man! My DMs are always open if an extra ear would help too, tho. Chin up, girl. This too shall pass.

[Sugar100]

No it was a false alarm LOL no more bad news

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh thank goodness girl, you had me worried for a min!! Don't scare me like that, almost broke out the big spoons for that emergency ice cream 😅 I'm so relieved to hear it though fr! Knew you were too good to let some silly boy mess with your head. Was about to go hunt him down and give him a piece of my mind too lol. But hey no news is good news right? Means he's probably still treating you right so far. Just make sure to keep your guard up a little bit tho, cause dudes will do the most sometimes. Either way I'm so pumped for you! Manifesting all the good vibes for this to work out sis. You hella deserve someone who sees how amazing you are. Lemme know if you need any other advice, I gotchu always 💕

[Sugar100]

I just fear he won’t be my boyfriend and we won’t be on same page, I never met a guy that wants a girlfriend, no guy agrees to be my boyfriend which is why I’m 26 and never had a boyfriend , I just don’t understand as all girls magically get many bfs that all love her back and agree be her boyfriend and I can’t make any guy be my boyfriend

[Sugar100]

I feel hallow empty In life, I’m tired be alone, I want plan vacation this year with a guy, I want meet family, spend time with guys family, take pics , I don't know what it’s like hav a real boyfriend.

[Sugar100]

I want a relationship

[Sugar100]

I’m planing alone in my head this month I’ll bring guy to my house to meet my mom, oh augsut I want go to trip with a guy hav fun, oh Christmas I’ll bring my boyfriend to my families house and we dress up wear matching outfits , oh novemebr we can plan hav a baby, I can’t do anything I’m planing all this alone and a guy doesn’t exist to plan all this with me

[Oliverlogan263]

Man that really sucks, I can understand how you must be feeling. It's gotta be so lonely and frustrating to want a real relationship but never being able to make it happen. I know it's probably hard not to get ahead of yourself with this new guy and start making all these plans in your head. But try not to put too much pressure on him or yourself right away. Some guys can definitely sense that and it might scare them off. Just take it slow and see how things develop naturally. Maybe don't bring up stuff about meeting families or vacations for a little while, just focus on enjoying your time together. Hopefully he'll start to like you enough to want more over time. And don't give up hope - the right guy is definitely out there for you! You just gotta put yourself out there and be open. Maybe try some dating apps too if you haven't already. I'm sure you'll find someone eventually who wants all those things you want. Just try to stay positive! I know it's lonely but you'll get through this.

[Sugar100]

I now have anxiety as I don’t want like for example I met this new guy and go with flow for some time , then months will be wasted and we aren’t offical couple so then it’s holidays coming up very soon and I not get chance again bring a boyfriend to spend holiday with my family or have trip together or have baby and my time is wasted. Then if I meet another new guy aagin , I take things with flow and again more time wasted and he don’t want girlfriend or don’t meet family don’t date me don’t do all the things I plan in my head do.

[Sugar100]

I’ll be 27 it shudbt take so long to have a boyfriend , all guys get to plan all these things with girls fast. Baby living together meet family. It shudnt be so difficult for me to have it happen too. I shudnt be needing to plan all this alone in my head

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang yo, I hear you. That's totally valid to be stressed about wasting time with guys if they don't end up wanting the same things long-term. It must be really hard feeling like all your friends are having those relationship experiences and milestones while you're still waiting. Maybe it would help to have an honest talk with this new guy early on about what you're both looking for. Like, make it clear you want something serious that could lead to the kinds of things you mentioned. Then you'll know if he's on the same page or not upfront. And try not to put so much pressure on every new guy as "the one." Enjoy getting to know them but keep your options open too by still using dating apps or putting yourself out there elsewhere. That way if it doesn't work out, you're not totally back at square one. Plus dating is tough for anyone, even dude's sometimes, so try not to compare yourself to others. Keep your head high - you'll find someone who wants all those relationship things with you when the time is right. Just gotta keep putting in the effort to meet new people too. I'm sure it'll happen for you!

[bowenw]

He could just be trying to tease you, or wishes you were there.

[Sugar100]

In the shower?

[bowenw]

He could be trying to turn you on by sending you that video or hinting that he would like to have you in the shower with him.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[Nessie6]

Maybe he wants you to join in. I have had shower sex before, it is most definitely very sexy and intimate.

If you want to why not initiate and join? Try it!

[NathanDavis]

safety first

[David94358]

What did you send back?

[stratford]

Did you get turned on watching it?

[DrPepper12]

Shower sex is the BEST sex. No comparison. We put in a bench, surround sound, grab bars, and high glass walls to hold steam. Heaven!

[Jerre]

He wants to fuck you so he’s sending you a picture of his tool of the trade.

[Luckycharms12]

He is horny

[Awantika03]

Calling you

[Sugar100]

What?

[Bklynbadboy12]

You know why he sent it to you!!!🤣🤣🤣 He's tryin to get at that thang!!!😜😜😜😜

[Sugar100]

But y in the shower

[rebeliouse]

@sugar100

do it then

[jjj101010]

What was he doing in the shower

[Sugar100]

Cleaning his 🍆