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  • thank you for your questions. i guess having periods of *extreme* horniness is extremely common as a virgin for so many reasons.
    1. it’s the curiosity of how sex would feel.
    back when i was a virgin, i remember having to masturbate three times a day due to my raging hormones. i spent 90% of my free time wondering how good sex would feel like and what it would feel like to insert my penis into a tight, warm and moist vagina.
    sexual thoughts would involuntarily occupy my mind throughout the day and i would have to conceal my boner in the train or when i was walking. i can’t describe how horny i was back then - it was so bad to the point where i thought i was going mad.
    i was so desperate to know how it would feel like to get a blowjob or wondering how long i would actually last before spluttering my cum all over the place. being so tired of constantly having these thoughts, i experimented with tons of toys - from simple fleshlights (pussy, ass, mouth) to ball stretchers, cock rings, prostate massagers, butt plugs and many more.
    my first orgasm from penetrating a sex toy was mind blowing - it seemed to have opened a portal within me. i’ve never experienced such great and intense orgasms from jerking off with my hands.
    when i received my first blowjob (from a complete stranger), it felt EXACTLY like my fleshlight (mouth), it was so thrilling and overall a pleasant experience.
    now that i’m no longer a virgin (but rather sexually active), i wouldn't say that my sex drive has decreased - i do masturbate slightly less and i don’t have those intrusive thoughts anymore but all i can say is that i crave sex 24/7.


    2. another reason could be you’re not satisfying your “needs” on your own?
    maybe you do not masturbate enough or you’re not doing it in a way that makes you experience the wildest orgasms.
    try using sex toys - trust me, you’ll never go back.

  • Well, horniness doesn't depend on whether you are a virgin or not. You are at a very young age and so your hormones are a little out of control, it happens to most people of your age. Nothing new about it, the chemicals and hormones produced in your body create a need for sexual intercourse. Nothing to worry about here, but please do be careful if you decide to have sex.

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  • Because your sole biological purpose in life is to procreate and pass on your genetics, hence your brain is overflooded with hormones and chemicals so you have a thirst that cannot be satisfied unless you give in, a biological need. Like thirst, you will still be thirsty because your body craves it so survive, so eventually you will give in for relief. Although you won't die from lack of sex, unlike lack of water, you are a slave to your biological drive to procreate, pass on your genitics, give birth, and love your child so you have a reason to raise and protect your children. Because really, why do we raise, suffer, and die for the benefit of our offspring? We're not obligated to love them, they're just little humans that come out of us, but we do love them or else we'll all be abandoned and left for dead as babies. Like a mother sacrificing herself for her child, but what's the reason? Love? Well what's the purpose of love? To give a reason to raise our offspring and give it the best chance of survival in life. Which leads me to my conclusion, people - no, animals - are only here to pass on their code and live for eternity through generations. Our personality is more influenced by our genetics than our environment, so really who even are we? We are slaves, people of the past, we are our ancestors who tried to obtain immortality by passing themselves down as copies. We are merely copying ourselves for survival and purpose. Hence why every drive we have, hunger, thirst, sex, our desire to be attractive and wanted, all stems from the ability to reproduce and obtain immortality. However, even though I gave a serious answer, this is probably a troll question to lure in the thirsty boys here.

    • That's kinda deep (and yet very shallow at the same time.). I hope that makes sense. My comment was not an insult.

  • Biologically all animals become sexually arroused. It’s a survival instinct to want to breed. The hormones that you have cause you to sexually mature and when you’re younger the hormones are higher and will level out as you get older. Estrogen will cause your to have a period and it will also make you more horny during the days you are ovulating. Testosterone is also present in your system and it will also cause you to be horny. I had a female roommate and she had higher levels of T than most women. This caused her to be horny 24/7. Sadly I wasn’t able to help her.
    It’s always best to see a gynecologist at your age to make sure everything is alright with your body. If you feel that you are more horny than most girls your age express that to them so that they can check hormone levels.
    But you should know that it’s typical for boys to be horny all the time. You know this because everyone talks about it. However girls are also always horny, but no one ever talks about it. Social norms dictate that girls are chaste or that women who exercise their sexual freedom are sluts. Hopefully this will change in our society. A woman who is sexually aware and expressive is perfectly natural.
    Feel free to PM me if you have any other questions.

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  • give someone a blowjob it can be very satisfying i'm sure you have guy friends who wouldn't mind head from you.

  • Hornyness arrives usually with puberty and has no relation to virginity or sexual side of things, it just is a thing.

    Also masturbating is natural, so are fantasies both give release.

    you and nearly everyone else ‘suffers’ from being horny.

  • Because you are feeling the most natural need to end your virginity maybe.

  • It doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not we have an energy within us that is teacher or guide or protector we are made of water and atoms. A t o m s broke down equals energy our energy until I touch other people's energy and when you don't have to do this is the most beautiful feeling in the world I am an empath and I feel emotions and energy and all it takes is somebody to look at me walk by me, talk to me touch me but once I feel that depth of energy that's all it takes if you understand this energy. Well I'm not going to go there. But anyway that kicks on a lot of different chemicals in your body directions to your brain and you get that feeling and then you want to do something about it if you have been with somebody before do you remember what that's like and I will turn you on even more and then you have level after level after level about deep this feeling can get and let me tell you it is the most beautiful feeling in the world when you're with somebody that you're compatible with in love with in life with i n l u s t with friends with and then he will start s e x t i n g. Role playing. Phone sex. All different kind of ways to make it even hotter.

  • Because being horny is a NATURAL THING! It's hormones! It has nothing to do with sexual experience.

  • Because of sexual hormones flooding your brain.

  • Normal. You are literally bombarded by sexuality by ads, television programmes, the internet and more or less any other mean of interaction between humans that you come by on a daily basis. You're virgin, but that doesn't stop your curiosity about how good it can feel. Go for it, what are you conserving yourself immaculate for anyway?

  • Your status as a virgin isn't going to have much to do with how horny you are. Apples and oranges.

  • Hormones

  • I am the same way at times it comes and goes, and I am a virgin as well.

  • It's normal. Wait till u actually do it... it gets worse!

  • It's the hormones of your cycle. God made you that way, to procreate.

  • Why are starved people hungry? sex edition = your question.

  • because your body is ready to procreate. your body doesn't care that you have no experience. you are ready to procreate and your body signals you that by giving you the feeling of hornyness.

  • At your age normal to be very horny

  • That little piece of flesh inside your vagina doesn't affect your mental well-being. Never had a penis inside your vagina? That doesn't mean you can't be horny for one.

  • Well that can happen if u have or have not had sex before my best advice and only follow if u are of age but have sex with someone

  • It’s only natural

  • Because it's biology.

  • u should masturbate

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