Why is being a virgin woman a CRIME?

[At3mis24]

I read about a lot of mean words on Reddit, like it's a crime if you're unexperienced!

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think deep down many women envy Virgin women cause they know virginity is far more valuable in women than it is in men and there's men that not only seek for virginity when it comes to marriage but it's also known as a bonus to others, mostly within the dating community, the ones that seek commitment, the ones that dont care might only seek experience because they more than likely participate in hookup culture and believe it or not there's a minority of men in hookup culture that like it too, for the wrong reasons but they exist, I think that eventually people grow out of that hookup culture lifestyle and make irreversible decisions, I've also seen tons of hate on virgin women and the hate is just unexplainable if you exclude jealousy, I'm sure many Virgin women have been called 'pick me' girls which I find bizarre considering they are untouched meanwhile others spread their legs cause they were chosen by specific men, I also think it's unbelievable how these same women try to influence innocent women to ruin their purity by saying they don't need mens approval or that they should have fun or whatnot, even that seems like it's out of jealousy to me, kinda like a "I fucked up my purity and I want to convince you to fuck up yours too" I know there's many men like me that believe that there's nothing more attractive in a woman than a woman that wants to be loved and saves her body for only one man that she wants to spend her life with, women value a man's trait to provide and protect and a man values a woman that is pure and maintained pure for them and that has good potential to being a mother to their children.

[Summeroflove]

It’s extremely valuable to BOTH men and women until marriage. A lot of men also hate virgin women. Because they know they fuck around all the time and marrying this type of woman isn’t really attainable. Because she has better values then he does

[At3mis24]

@Summeroflove men who hate virgins are pricks and deserves a slap.

[Summeroflove]

Lol. They’re jealous because they can’t smash them and they can’t be in a long term relationship with them. There is men who want to marry a virgin but fuck around with whores. Then wonder where all the good women went. It’s just like women who hate men. But they picked shitty men to run around with. But they wanna marry a gentleman

[Summeroflove]

People are jealous of people who are virgins. They made so many poor choices and hate on people. Some people are virgins by choice it’s different then people who want to have sex but can’t get it.

A lot of men and women do envoy virgins. I think a lot of men have fucked around a lot and know that marrying a virgin woman is unattainable. As well as women who made so many bad choices look at these women and just feel so bad about themselves.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

It isn't one, trust me. Some people will poke fun & make fun of virgins, call them names, be mean, or just assume things. I know I've been called a prude before just because I haven't had sex yet. Or that I should just "live life" (AKA just have sex with any man). I've also been questioned too about it, even assumed to be asexual. But none of that is true. I think some people are just too hung up on what things you should've experienced & be doing by X age. But I'd say just take your time. If you're looking for that one special person, saving your virginity for them is worth it in the long run, no matter how old you are. I'm going to turn 25 later this year and I'm still a virgin. Finding that special person is never easy.

[HelpfulWoman]

i mean, thats reddit. half of the users there aren't getting laid regardless

[NamerOfStars]

Why do the words of a handful of lunatics on a website that can't even spell its own name correctly determine what "crime" is to you?

No matter what you do, SOME people are going to disapprove of it. Better to get used to the idea now.

[katiesmuff]

That is complete Bullshit and consider the source!

[rachel776]

[Belgie]

Reddit is not the real world.

[Apple1996]

Why would it be a crime?

[SamIam96]

I don't think anyone cares if you're a 41 year old virgin.

Honestly, I'd love to know the story, why. You must know, it's very uncommon.

[At3mis24]

Maybe it's my appearance (I'm not really pretty) or because I'm autistic and immature (I can't grow up, impossible, I try but nothing will change)

[Gent207-2]

Readit is the wild west you find a lot of crazy stuff on there

[normalice]

It isn't a crime. Just a hassle to take a girl's virginity passed the age of 19 or so.

[At3mis24]

Why? Can you explain?

[normalice]

If a girl passed that age is still a virgin that usually means she either has minimal interest in sex or has a whole gauntlet of hoops she expects guys to jump through before sex becomes an option. Or both - there is no rule that says it can't be both. But the "gauntlet of hoops to jump through" is a hassle. And the older a woman gets the more she's likely to consider her virginity a prize and so the more hoops she will add. Of course, 19 is not a hard rule either. It tends to be gradually more of a hassle as a woman gets older but I'm sure a virgin woman in her 60s or whatever would probably come to understand no one is after her anymore so it is no longer men who must jump through hoops to earn her - it is she who must do all the seducing, if she wants any sexual attention at all. Women who are still virgins at 25 are when it becomes a "majority hassle" situation. 19 is just when the virgins who are also a hassle cease to be fringe.

[At3mis24]

So I will never tell I'm virgin to a partner, it's a lie, yes, but I haven't the choice... I'm really unlucky, the most unlucky in this part of life! 😭

[normalice]

Eh. If you still have "hoops" in place at your age he's going to notice in relatively short order. He may not conclude you are a virgin but he'll know something strange is going on. Personally, if sex doesn't occur within two weeks of meeting a girl I'd assume she isn't into me. And the older I get the shorter that window gets. I'd imagine when I'm 50 if women I meet don't consider blow jobs an introductory thing then they don't actually want to be introduced at all.

[At3mis24]

Blow jobs are from porn! I don't like sperm, anyway! It would disgust me if he ejaculated in my mouth, yeerk!

[normalice]

Blow jobs are wonderful. But whatever. I would say you should consider the possibility that you are just asexual and so not worry about it anymore.

[Dargil]

Why would that be true? Everyone is a virgin until the first time.

[sheikalana]

Nah is not a crime at all. Don't listen to those type of comments and don't let that change who you are. Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of.

[laly520]

its Reddit soo

[JosyJosy]

That depends, what are your relationship goals? You're better off as you are than sleeping around if you're looking for a good guy.

[bowenw]

It is not a crime. It is a personal choice that is no one's business.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Men prefer virgins, so women who aren't hate on women who are, and so they try to get them to lose their virginity so they lower their value and even the playing field.

[DaBiggestBird]

It’s crime to take anything Redditors say seriously. Lmao

[BarryLiverstone]

People on Reddit are mean like they are here. Lack of accountability

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, Reddit is full of idiots

[Jennz6]

Not true honey

[At3mis24]

I need proof

[Jennz6]

I can’t prove it

[At3mis24]

So, I'm right. But I'm prepared for a lonely life!

[Jennz6]

I’m sorry that you feel that way

[At3mis24]

I'm not sad about it, being alone is something I'm used to

[bobby_bush_eater]

Because most women on Reddit can't stomach the fact they have no impulse control and would rather judge you than accept their own degeneracy.

The men on Reddit are weak leftist feminine wack jobs. They want you to be promiscuous to "liberate yourself"

[KostasKouvalis]

I really don't have an answer. I can speak for other people and why they think the way they do. But I just know that some people think you're either a prude or incompetent if you're a virgin after a certain age. I honestly think it's a worse "crime" if you're a man. But people seem to be judgmental about it towards their own gender.

Why? Are YOU one?

[At3mis24]

Yes, I'm one and I'm so ashamed about it so I will never tell any partner! I'm offended! I'm NOT incompetent! I have 5 different dildos so I know what is it! I need explanations about why it's a problem if I'm virgin!

[KostasKouvalis]

I didn't say you were, and I meant it in the sense of, people think they don't know how to get a partner. People just love to be judgmental to feel better about themselves. Also, I feel incels and simps have sort of given virgins a bad reputation. You're 41 and you're still a virgin? I'm not judging, I'm just curious as to WHY. I see why you wouldn't want to admit it to a partner, but at the same time you should date someone you can be honest with, without fear of judgement. Another virgin would be most ideal, but at that age it's unlikely. If you don't wanna talk about it publicly, could we chat in PM. I'd really like to talk to your about it and maybe some other things

[At3mis24]

I only date younger men (25-29), not older... and ONLY one in my interest, the same one for 3 years, I can't forget him, he's THE ONE. I will never be honest for that, sorry, but I haven't choice! I'm too ashamed...

[LEGENDARY4200]

It's not