Why is it men are too afraid to date pornstars yet jack off to them every night?

[Anonymous]

I mean it's kind of pathetic that you waste boxes of tissue papers, and have spilled out god knows how much cum to pornstar but yet are too afraid to actually see her in person, date her and have your cock physically inside of her. To me it's along the lines of a guy who would jerk off to a girl's facebook pic but is too afraid to ask her out on a date.

Why is that? Pornstars get regularly checked for STD (It's their job), you know what they look like naked, they are confident, obviously your attracted to them and if you get along with them then it should be clear sailing for a relationship.

Why aren't more men open to the idea of dating pornstars? To me popular pornstars should be one of the most sought women on the planet.

[BubbleBoy69]

@Elarra

Yes because all the rape and orgies are clearly the main thing that popular thing porn companies do.

Porn companies do not hire a lot of guys. They use a small number of males and reuse said guy for different scenes because he is a stunt cock. And we can cherry pick of outbreak that do happen just like with any work environment i can pull up incidences where bad shit happen and then make a claim that it is a frequent occurrence.

Women do not get tested as much as pornstars. The reason being pornstars it's part of their job to make sure their safe to do films. All those articles you pull up is the exact reason porn companies have such thorough testing over to make sure shit like that doesn't happen so often.

Getting tested and coming back negative means that they are more likely not to have STD when engaging with them. Unlike a woman who does not get tested and could very well be carrying an STD.

Yeah you can't handle logic so you block me. Real mature.

[thetundrawolf]

Because she cannot hurt us when she's on the screen. But in real life the anger and bitterness in her heart over being in porn will lead her to destroy a sensitive man with her words. Unless she's willing to completely leave that profession and get a normal job, turn to God for healing and humble herself, I wouldn't touch a woman in adult entertainment with a ten foot pole, and it has nothing to do with the fact that she had sex on camera. You cannot do things like that and still be a normal, well adjusted human being.

[Tanairy328]

i don't think guys would mind having sex with one, but as far as having a serious relationship with one? i don't think think a lot of guys see them as wifey/girlfriend material, i mean they've slept with countless of men on camera, everyones seen them naked, do you really see this person as someone to seriously share your life with and be the mother to your children? (if you want kids of course) i just can't see it.

[Zendrya]

Most guys probably don't want to be with someone who a bunch of other men have seen naked and who have been banged by countless guys? Being sexually attracted to someone doesn't mean you are gonna me romantically attracted to them.

[You-Are-My-Sunshine]

this is how i see it: i dont think a guy would be cool dating a porn star because he knows other guys are going to jack off to his girl and maybe he doesn't want that. I don't know im just guessing

[JasonBD7]

I wouldn’t mind and actually be flattered knowing a lot of guys jack off to my girl The main issue for most guys is them thinking of the guys fucking her, especially if they have bigger dicks which will make most guys insecure

[Anonymous]

An ex pornstar maybe
But i think its hard knowing your partner is getting smashed by multiple people everyday for work.

All of whom prob have way better dicks than the average boyfriend

[Tdieseler]

won't mind dating or porking but thats where it ends... thats usually why they marry among themselves. plus the thought of knowing other guys are Currently porking someone you like can be quite... distracting?

[Cerate]

Most sought? I don't think so. Provided she has a beautiful heart. But then... I believe most guys wouldn't feel comfortable if she gets fucked by another guy when she is in a rs.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Because she's going to get fucked by other dudes and not many people are comfortable knowing that the love of their life is getting plowed or plowing multiple people.

[MrNameless]

Because

1. They're fucking expensive.
2. They could have a lot of STDs
3. How many girls are pornstars vs the total population? Not exactly easy to find one

[cheapshotbob]

for me its because there to open if the dating become more and msot porn stars never have a steady guy. they move on and dont really care about a devoted guy. but thats from things i hear from guys who have been too California and holly woods etc.

why risk being hurt if you like her if she is not into being serious? and can women who are in porn be serious and not be with other people?
i have actually thought about that myself actually about women in porn.

[Elarra]

Jacking off doesn't give you STDs

[BubbleBoy69]

Ponrstars are cleaner than your average women though.

[Elarra]

@BubbleBoy69 Nobody cares lol, the fact that they sleep with that many people makes the risk that much greater.

[BubbleBoy69]

Porn stars don't actual sleep with lots of people. Many porn companies contract and use the same male performers and pornstars often limit their sexual activity to sleeping with certain guys over and over. So it's not much different than a girl with several friends with benefits. This is the misconception people have about pornstars. In addition, unlike regular girls pornstars regularly have to go for STD check ups. Normal girls do not do this and could be carrying around STD unknowingly.

[Elarra]

@BubbleBoy69 So I guess all those orgy and rape fantasy videos and gang bangs are all the same people, right? No.

And women do get STD tests often... actually, moreso than men since we have to visit a gynecologist sooner than a man needs to visit the urologist, so it's actually more likely the guy would have an STD anyway

And you're reasoning doesn't support porn stars are cleaner. If anything, they'd just know sooner or would be less likely, but that doesn't mean they are cleaner than everyone.

www.laweekly.com/.../1-in-4-porn-stars-has-had-gonorrhea-or-chlamydia-ucla-study-says-4778033

www.medicaldaily.com/porn-star-hiv-testing-transmission-373504

www.covenanteyes.com/.../

www.huffingtonpost.com/.../...video_n_2058406.html

3 articles from different periods that don't really support what you say.

Getting tested doesn't mean they have less of a chance of getting an STD. That logic makes no sense.

Honestly, don't feel like arguing with you anymore. Bye.

[SarahsSummer]

You're an idiot. What guy wants to share his girlfriend with hundreds of other dudes doing disgusting things to her?

[_Heyitsme_]

maybe because they're not as experienced as the pornstar

[Berethor]

Men can be sexually attracted, but many men don't want to date an slut in real life.

[NJ_Casanova]

They are insecure and have the image of the girls getting fk'd by a dick that is most likely bigger than theirs.

[Valkyrie1]

Maybe they don't like the idea of a bunch of guys jacking off to videos of their girlfriend? A lot of people really don't think a porn star is anything better than a glorified prostitute.

[KeiranByrne]

I would date Elle Alexandra in a heartbeat.

[AleDeEurope]

We're not afraid, we just simply don't want to xD
You don't hook up with the type of girl you marry.
There's different roles assigned xD

[redeyemindtricks]

"You don't hook up with the type of girl you marry" ^^ This attitude is what creates dead bedrooms after a few years of marriage. Smh. Not saying everyone should marry porn stars -- that's an extreme case -- but, if you actually believe what you wrote here, then... yeah. (Either that, or you have way too low standards for hookups.)

[AleDeEurope]

@redeyemindtricks What kind of logic is that? If I find a girl that is hot and is not a total bitch, but with whom I don't match for some reason, and I don't see a future with her, then I won't date her and would just hook up. If I meet a girl who is what I want in a girlfriend, why the fuck would I think of hooking up with her instead of making her my gf?

[redeyemindtricks]

Mb the problem is just words "If I meet a girl who is what I want in a girlfriend, why the fuck would I think of hooking up with her instead of making her my gf?" ^^ Where I'm going with this is, hopefully you wouldn't want move any slower with her sexually. Like, it would *start* in the same way as a "hookup" -- you'd just be open to having it turn into a longer rl.

[AleDeEurope]

@redeyemindtricks If she's who I want as a girlfriend, I wouldn't mind having sex with her before getting serious, like on the first date, for example. I don't consider that hooking up, cause it's not just sex.

[redeyemindtricks]

^^ yeah ok, legit <3 Wasn't how I first read yr words, that's all

[RexCatholicissimus]

Go date 'em then, you fucking faggot. Leave me to date who I want to date.

[splkato]

This is my view if i am to look at dating with respect to finding real love/a real connection with a pornstar (Oooh yeah!!)

In this era, real love is ONLY scripted. In real life that's more of a far-fetched idea. In most societies women have always been seen as sex-objects; now lets take a pornstar. She is human, right!! She's got needs, dreams, wants... you name it. Relationships require someone to be vulnerable in another's presence along with trusting them to handle your heart with respect; now that shit is extremely hard. I mean WTF!! She plays this kind of scenario almost everyday; am thinking. For most guys, banging a pornstar makes you literally the "leader of the entire male pack". Being able to bring out her real self; without that porn image; to the world is something a guy MUST abide by in case he is to have a deep connection.

So depending on what society you grew up in, the idea of dating a pornstar will have its rooting in HOW you view such a person. Besides careers aside, am sure these people have a good heart if you get them to open up to you. They can be sweethearts indeed.

Men are protective of their ladies; okay, those they consider THEIRS; so the idea of having your woman on almost half of the world's populations' smartphones moaning to different guys on every swipe - doesn't sit well on your consciousness. Just know the attention is greatly diverted to you. I mean that would be quite an awesome interview on some random TV show. Don't get me started on the questions from the audience!! So all that pressure requires someone who is ready to fight the world for ONE LADY. It's more of "ME AND YOU AGAINST THE WORLD" kinda arrangement. Extremely few men are willing to go down that road.

So fear for what the society will label you - is what prevents men from really dating pornstars.

[Bandit74]

Most guys don't like knowing that 100's of men have fucked his girlfriend on camera and that these videos are online for everyone to see.

Besides, the fantasy usually doesn't live up to the reality. This is straight from the mouth of a pornstar... “I won’t lie. It’s pretty shitty to date a porn star. We work long hours, spend an infinite amount of time grooming, preening, and paying attention to what we’re eating; and most importantly, we go to work and bang other people so the last thing we want to do is bang you when we get home".

www.google.com/.../?client=ms-android-verizon

[BubbleBoy69]

Pornstars don't fuck 100's of men on camera that's ignorance of society. Most porn women have sex with select few number of partners. In fact porn companies often share male porn stars togethers in that the same guys are used across by different companies. So yeah that reason is ruled out.

[Paultripp]

Cause any girl who does porn has some serious mental issues. They can be hot and all, but do not value sex in the same way I do. I could hook up with one, but never date/marry one...

[Other_Tommy_Wiseau]

Cause I don't wanna fuck sluts and get the Hiroshima version of stds 😂

[ASEXY]

It's because they don't want to get STDS and jacking off won't give them STDs? By the way, not all men jack off to pornstars every night... ...

[gaaxure]

You do see the difference between masturbating to (getting a couple of seconds of pleasure) and dating (entering a committed relationship) with a pornstar don't you?
One implies that you commit/invest nothing besides few minutes of manual labor and receive an orgasm at the end. And the other implies that you invest emotionally into a woman who is willing to sell herself for money.

[RegularTK421]

If she doesn't have HIV or other STD's, then there is really no harm in her sexual behavior. We also have to keep in mind pornstars are not your average woman. I mean the porn industry selects the most beautiful and fit women they can find who are willing to take the job. I would view a pornstar as " Out of my league". She's going to want the best, not some average or below average guy.

[PiuBravoRagazzo]

The fear is that they wouldn't be able to pleasure them sexually

And depending on the star, they have done disgusting things on video lol

You don't want to see the women you love taking 3 dicks at once or something like that lol
Or know that she did 😂

[SlightlyCrazy]

I'd date one but they'd have to be retired

[ScottSummers]

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[blackeagle007]

Porn stars engage in risky behavior I. e condomless sex. Would you want someone like that in your life?

[Shawn58]

Because they are whores

[Blitzkrieger]

i believe many men would feel very inadequate and insecure because this pornstar has had sex with many men that may have been better than himself.

[Shawn58]

Thinks that's true

[USA2016]

How does one go about dating a pornstar?

[AnonGod]

I want to be a pornstar.

[thecalmerface]

scared people would disapprove.

scared of fame.

blackmail

lies.

bad press.

top pornstars hang out with celebs, and often.. erm.. service celebs too. too much hassle.

being an friends with benefits to a pornstar is one thing, dating no.

[JustBeingHonest777]

I can’t tell if this is a troll post of you’re actually a moron. NO LOGICAL man with a functioning brain EVER wants to date (let alone MARRY) a damn pornstar lol. Being sexually attracted to a woman and wanting to date her are mutually exclusive, moron lol.

[Anonymous]

No one wants to fuck someone who's going to be fucking other people

[Anonymous]

Who the hell said they're afraid to date a pornstar? They don't date them because the pornstar would never get with them. Porn stars basically have their pick of any guy they want. They're not going to choose some random nobody loser.

[Anonymous]

Lol I would fuck a girl I didn't want to date.. If she's hot than there's no question. But I would only get serious with a girl I really liked and I don't want any guys let alone infinite guys getting with my girl. So yeah I would fuck a porn star but not date her.

[Anonymous]

Yes "afraid" lol