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Guys, Why is it so hard for my boyfriend to stay hard and cum? I'm sick of being on top of a half soft dick for 1-2 hours trying to make him cum?

With other guys I usually like to fuck for 20-30 mins or so, after that the passion is gone for me. Most guys only need a few mins or so to cum anyway. This guy's favourite position is me on top but is my least favourite. I have to be on top doing all the work cos that's the position he can stay the hardest with (even though it's still not fully hard). We tried a new brand of condoms which he said felt so much better and he stayed hard for about 10 minutes then went half soft again without cumming. I was on top for about an hour not even getting any pleasure myself, trying to make him cum. He stays hard when I give head but never cums even if I do it for half an hour or more. It's getting exhausting when I'm doing all the work purely to try and make him cum and feeling no pleasure from his half soft dick. I don't know what to do but I feel like I shouldn't have to make this enormous amount of effort for nothing I mean it's his problem if he can't cum right? Or is there something else I should be doing?
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  • yeah its his problem, but before you stop having sex with him, suggest that he should take a viagra or some pill like that

  • Unfortunately, you're not hot enough.

  • Maybe he needs to get checked out. I don't think it's anything you're doing wrong.

  • I'd gladly message you. Maybe what I have to say could really help him. 😊

  • Tell him to stop watching so much porn

  • just deprive him of it,

  • he's a puss. trade him in

  • How old is ur bf? does ur boyfriend give u oral too? does he make u cum from oral?
    Try to tease him more before sex.. try new things with him like roleplaying or anal.. try to take dirty with him.. Find out what turn him on the most and do it.. and then u have to take him to a doc

  • Get Viagra

  • Is about age too , give him blowjob

    • What do you mean? I've never had this problem with guys I've never been with anyone over 35

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