Why is it so weirdly satisfying talking about adult topics?

I mean IRL.

Ofc I would need someone who can trust, mostly with my friends, whenever I had chat with them with these topics, felt like our bond just got stronger, you get to see a new person in them, like a person they were hiding inside them.

I had few friends whom I had chat on this topic, a 1 on 1 and I felt like they were a completely different person, really different perspective. (Our relationships are completely platonic).
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  • We tend to have a number of different sides to us. Some are the happy normal person who interacts with everyone, then you have other sides that appear when you talk more specific adult orientated topics, when you open up and share the other person (s) does the same. This creates a sort of bond from sharing information that your normal side does not.

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  • Is not weird but as our brains are "wired" about sexuality and fantasy, when the Feromones/Dopamine is released then the "whole hell" brraks loose (in a good way). That's when the "devil" comes out to play 😅

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  • It’s how talking should be. No shame. Open without judgement.

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  • I consider it a normal thing... adults, talking about adult stuff

    it is not weird, lol

  • Because they are so often repressed within us. It is nice to have someone who listens and does not judge, and someone who feels the same way.

  • You learn something

  • In a 1 vs 1 conversation people can be honest , open and truly themselves without the need for any defense mechanisms. The conversation goes deeper in 1 vs 1 and therefore you can truly get to know them better

  • DM me if you want to talk about it.

  • Lol what do you consider adult topics?

  • It's a thrill. Ever considered a locked diary or locked electronic diary? Forums with anonymity options like GAG lol? But I'd go back to the diary 📖📚

    • Because one day, if I had a girlfriend,: she offers to share her diary with me lol like a borrower book lol 😂

    • Get it? Asker? 😅📖📚😋

  • Because often times people project a polite person in groups. One on one they are able to open up More and share

  • I guess as you get older you don't care about past convos. When you say adult topics do you mean things like politics or the economy, stuff like that?

    • Not politics or economy, She means sexual topics lol

  • i had openly sexual conversations when i worked in fedex and walgreens, including with women

  • To describe my fantasy/turn on, tend to get horny with all the details.

  • Still not sure on what topics you're talking about but yes very satisfying 🤞🏼😂

  • Adult topics? like property tax? existentialism? retirement?

  • I feel the same way... It's fun to find out what people are like when the world isn't watching them ;)

  • I would say it is exciting

  • Not satisfying but yeah it strong bonding with friends

  • Never heard it described as weirdly satisfying before so I couldn't say.

  • Everyone's a little bit perverted

  • Because whatever you going through it's always better when you know you have a kindred spirit that has been through or is going through something similar.

  • I notice this when I talk to women about this. I have a friend that I grew up with and we talk about everything. But when she starts talking about sex with her Boyfriend or ex husband, I find it so interesting.

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