"Why do guys think they can use girls for sex?" Because many girls will let themselves be used for sex.
"Why do people think that sex can save everything?" I'm not sure that people really believe that. I think they just want to have as much sex as possible before it's over.
Sex is a wonderful addition to a romance. Unfortunately. for too many people, sex is a destination and, when they reach it, they think they can stop making an effort NEWS FLASH: You can never stop making an effort in a relationship, even if you have been happily married for 50 years.
Avoiding sex now just postpones your adjustment to how you will eventually handle sex in a relationship, unless you intend to remain entirely platonic. As long as the two of you control the sex and you don't let it control you, it should not be anything to fear.
Sex is what makes us tolerate you on your period or holding your purse while you shop for shoes and all the other things we would rather not do but still do because sex. Sex is the goal of attraction. If we weren't attracted to girls, why would we want to sacrifice time with you shopping when we could be with friends doing stuff we actually want to do, talking about stuff that really engages us? Ditto for you gals. Would you be willing to do something guys like but you don't with a guy who you have zero attraction for when you could be having a spa day with your gals?
That guy who has 0 interest for sex, unless he is asexual and you are too, I predict it will be a problem some day. If not, then it is probably just a strategy to get you in bed somehow. He might be making you put down your defenses or something.
I think sex doesn't help the relationship at all, unless the two of you really click. Otherwise people are who they are, and if you don't mesh there will be drama, and sex doesn't prevent it.
I noticed that it seems to be a mini-trend of guys telling girls they don't want sex or rejecting them. A few of my friends have mentioned this happening, but most times I saw it talked about was online so I didn't take it srsly. But now... it seems like lots of guys are waiting to have sex for some reason. I don't know where they got the idea from though.
Yh it's soo weird everywhere I go there's the words can we have sex all the time Mann what the heck
Sex is the instrument of love. If love stinks sex can't save it for u.
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That's why sex is the big thing.
I think that a lot of people here generalize other people by the incredibly small amount of experiences they had in their short lives.
A lot of guys dont think they can use girls for sex.
A lot of people dont think sex can save everything.
Just because you had your share of idiots doesn't mean EVERYONE is an idiot... Dont generalize.
But, if i wouldn't be such a prick and correct you, id say, once again, guys dont do that. The guys you met do that.
To be honest, I think women themselves are more to blame for their own oversexualization and/or objectification than men are. Cosmopolitan and the sexual revolution with their promotion of promiscuity as a form of female empowerment are proof of that. Guess what? When men were calling the shots, sex did not dominate everything. Then women decide to become "progressive," giving birth to the same hypersexual climate that women complain about today.
Coz it feels good, people over complicate it though.
The reason why some guys think they can use girls for sex is because they simply can. It's consensual and as you said it, ''used'', the girls fell for it and so it's really their loss. Why do girls let them in knowing the risks?
Because it's in our anatomy to reproduce but girls are more naturally selective due to Bateman's principle (a guy can fertilise potentially thousands of eggs for every nine month period in which a woman can only have sex once). Combine that principle with attraction (girls are only attracted to a few men that show dominant leadership status) and economics (high demand for sex from men, low supply of sex from women) and it's no wonder sex is such a big thing for guys: their bodies are telling them they MUST reproduce in order to survive and sex is such a high demand, low supply commodity, making it all the more valuable. Sex from good quality women that is - I'm not talking about some prostitute or cheap, physically and emotionally unattractive woman.
I would not be in a romantic relationship that wasn't sexual. Not negotiable.
Same here, if I'm not having sex I doubt her attraction to me
Sounds like you need to get laid boyo.
Huh? 😳
Sex is needed in a relationship in my opinion.
Noo it's not
So you've met a guy that tells you the right lies... lol Sex isn't everything, but opposite sexes don't do mating dances if they're not going to mate. You boy is lying to you, and you like it...
It's the media, and now that it's everywhere... well sex sells everything as you can see. Quite frankly I'm sick of it too... I can be fine in a sexless relationship. I've never used a girl for sex, though my last girlfriend never wanted to stop doing oral... giving and receiving haha. But it ended because that's literally all the relationship was. She'd come over, we'd cuddle, unbutton each other's pants and well yeah. Felt superficial. There needs to be more in a relationship than just that.
I don't think sex is the only thing that's important in a relationship. It doesn't save relationships. wouldn't want to pressure her and I don't want to be pressured either. Maybe I'm just different from most guys lol.
well, sex is not that much of a big thing in a relationship to be happy but it is good.
what do i think. biology.
i think the level of sex decreases as the relationship goes on in most cases, its like sex is the flame the moth goes to.
Or groes in some cases we use to have 3 times a day so 9 times a week so 36 times a month with my ex and now nothing and I'm fine with it
Not all guys use women. I'm finally in my first intimate relationship, and though we haven't had full on sex yet, I've given her twice as many orgasms, and I've never asked for any. She initiates oral on me after I've given her one or two.
We waited until we knew that we were intellectually compatible before we did any of that.
Bexause I can? Lol
just wait after a while you will be in sex ;)
sex was child of love...
great u found a guy who dont want to have sex.
and think sex wil ruin everything.
good for u , nw u can use your hand
One of the funniest activitie
It is but not for fun the girl and the guy need the pleasure
If you do with a nice guy, it's fun for girls too
The important thing is love..
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