This one comes up again and again, ... because guys are mystified and completely freaked the fuck out by poontang. It's moist damp Pandora's box and proceeding without a roadmap, and a mining lamp and goggles, can be treacherous -- With all its nooks and crannies, they have no clue whats going on in there! Throw on top of that the fact that it hemorrhages one week outta every four, PLUS is hyper-sensitive keeping a slim PH balance, that when it goes in either direction, bad shit happens: Too alkaline, you get yeasty 'dairy' products like cottage cheese -- Too much acid you get seafood fish situation! PLUS it is the portal of life, for babies to come out of! Guys have no clue how many holes are even down there, much less where to locate anything. They're really scared of poontang, and skeeved out a bit.
The penis is way more straight forward. There's no learning curve, ... It's super simple. You know what to expect and are dealing with. Its up front about it's state of affairs, And it's SO EASY to satisfy its requests... You barely have to touch it or even look at it to get it off.
Girls on the other hand are a totally different entity.
I love going down on girls. However if she is a bbw I don’t like doing it. It has to do with difficulty breathing because the added fat in that area blocks my nose. I don’t know if this is the case for you. Some men don’t because they feel it is a submissive position and because it doesn’t involve having their cock stimulated. If he does like going down on you I’ll be happy to treat you.
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If I lived near you I’d treat you to an oral orgasm that would blow your mind so much you’d always come back for more. PM me if you’re interested.
Sounds like he’s a selfish lover type. Thing is there are some guys out there that don’t like it. They don’t like it because they don’t know what they’re doing and then there’s all the thoughts of what comes out of your pussy. Trust me, I’ve heard plenty of reasons as to why guys won’t go down on a woman. I usually tell them BUT YOU WANT HER TO GO DOWN ON YOU THEN WHY NOT GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS. Still guys will be like nope not happening.
Me on the other hand I love going down on a woman and I make that perfectly clear I’m not down there as an obligation I’m down there because I love it.
See that's how I am with him. He rarely if ever has to ask for me to because I genuinely enjoy it
Two years? Why is he still your boyfriend? Do you expect this to change? Why would it? How important is this to you? It seems to be somewhat important or you wouldn't be asking here. Would you stay with him if you knew that he will never do it? How long are you willing to wait for a change?
He tells me that once we move in together everything with us sexual will change and I'll get whatever I want... which doesn't make sense and it doesn't totally bother me. I just know that my drive is much higher than his and he says that isn't true at all he just needs to be in the right "mindset" to want to do it... 🤷🏼♀️😬
Sorry that sounds like BS and wishful thinking. Don't move in with him until this is resolved. Don't sign to for years of frustration.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Some of us just don't find going down on her erotic. It's not personal. Do what you want to do but if you really want to be eaten, find a good couple's therapist.
hahaha or I was gonna suggest a girlfriend on the side!
@Tamera952 Very risky but it could work.
Yeah not all guys want to do oral, but they expect us to still do it to them. I don't know why but it happens 😅
That is most unusual and confusing af to me.
Eating that beautiful flower is my main drive in life. I have had life long lesbians tell me I eat better than they've had before. So for me as a real man who will do whatever it takes to pleasure my woman and make her explode into new awakenings. This really makes me question the selfish/ petty/ and patheticness of your friend who acts like a boy.
He sounds like he is scared of spiders too.
NOT A REAL MAN !
Sounds like he doesn-t respect u
To be honest it sounds like he selfish and doesn’t care about what you want. I don’t understand why some guys are like this.
Some guys done like it and find if gross.
How about they don’t suck your dick because it’s gross? @Jack-mayhoff
Not for me I love giving oral sex to a woman, hearing those gasps, soft moans and groans of pleasure she's receiving is a huge turn on for me. Giving her two or three orgasms from oral is just part of the foreplay as far as I'm concerned.
That's something new, I've only had 2 orgasms ever from getting head. 😂😬
Sometimes at the right moment it could be three or four orgasms from oral properly done, and hopefully at least one or two from penetration into a highly aroused pussy.
Shut down sexually. Tell him you must have a clear answer on this before you are sexual again. It might end the relationship. If it does, you have lost nothing
If I would be there at your boyfriend's place
then i would have Done it before you say.
And it feels Very Much good to you until you cums
Some of us has our own personal preference, you can kindly ask him that you would like to feel love
Wait do you go down on your boyfriend?
All the time without hesitation, I've tried talking but he doesn't want to.
Maybe you should try respecting his decision Give it some time
He is gay basically.
Some people are very turned off by the thought of oral sex. I dated a girl that thought it was disgusting to have anyone's mouth down there and she'd never give a blowjob... one of the reasons we broke up.
maybe he just isn't into eating pussy
Could be the smell, could be if you have that white vaginal discharge, I don't know 🤷♂️
Okay so he won't give you a straight answer-- then what answer is he giving you?
Dick without any foreplay which is okay but then when I ask he gets very dismissive
So he just gets dismissive and doesn't answer you. What actually does he say though?
Maybe he's scared or nervous.
Pussies can be gross even healthy ones but maybe he just has some insecurities about what he is doing down there as there is no road map
some guys just don't like to do it
if you want a guy to go down on you, and he won't
maybe it's time to get a new guy?
You might be Period
Because he's a selfish lover
If he doesn't return the favor of you giving him oral then don't give him oral.
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