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Why would a fuck buddy reject sex?

And says he doesn't know why he doesn't want to..
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Most Helpful Girls

  • maybe he realises you are catching feelings and are looking at this as more than a fuck buddy. so he's outta there. he doesn't need to give you an explanation so an "i dont know" is enough of an answer, it saves him having to go into any kind of detail with someone he no longer wants to fuck

  • Either no longer interested or he found someone new or he was already in a relationship and got a guilty conscious. But nine times out of ten he long interest or got bored.

    • thbks. The lost of interest is highly possible. Because it would be weird if he was with someone new if he came to my house and started touching me..

  • catching feelings or getting tired of you.. your're no longer new terrority to explore. He's off to find someone else now unless he already has.

    • how would you tell if someone is catching feelings? If he is being distant

  • He got what he wanted and left. He just wanted to fuck you did and is now on to his conquer. Forget him.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's very likely he's in a relationship now. That, or he wants something more serious with you.

    • I don't know! And that was what I thought. So I was very straight up with him and yesterday I asked him why he doesn't want to have sex. I tought he was going to say because I'm seeing someone but instead he said I don't know, I tought we were going to leave it there and everything was cool. And it would be very weird if he is with someone because he came to my place a few days ago and he started touching my boobs but no kiss or anything else..

  • maybe he gound out that he want more than a fuckbuddy and be more than a toy...

    • I'm the one showing interest and helping him to get a job. Maybe he is just not attracted to me.

    • coult be too...

    • could**

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  • More details would help. We're all just stabbing in the dark.

  • What do you look like?

  • Guys are just like us. Sometimes they're just not horny.

  • Maybe you've become sexually unappealing to him.

    • He lost sexual attraction towards me? Is that possible?

    • I don't know.. is it?

    • who knows. but I guess I don't deal very well with rejection. One of my guy friends says he is an asshole.

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  • they're fuckboy doesn't mean they want sex 24/7

  • Maybe he just wasn't in the mood

  • Bad day, moved on, found someone else, doesn't want that life anymore, feeling ill, who knows.

  • Maybe he's not feeling it anymore.

  • Not everyone wants sex 24/24 365/365

    • i do

    • IF that's a REAL NEED, then you might consider having more than one fuck buddy.

    • I dont like to sleep around. Its not my thing.

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  • Sometimes, people are not in the mood. No real reasons behind it.

  • He has multiple and is tired.

  • Got bored with you. After the first couple of times promiscuous women are a turn off.

    • I'm not promiscuos. In fact I only had sex with 2 guys in the past and I'm 26. And he knows that. I haven't had sex in 2 years (that was wuth my last bf) so this new guy we went out a couple of times and kiss and one time he said that how could that be possible that I javent had sex in 2 years and we had sex

    • With a good track record why go down the fuck buddy trail? That's like having something perfect and then ruining it. I was regrettably promiscuous when I was a teenager. A woman was a whole lot more appealing to me physically before we had sex than after. After a few times an average looking woman suddenly wasn't as appealing. Could be he tried a few times and didn't like your performance in bed. Met a woman who was into the whole pain thing. Loved to be choked, have her hair pulled, spanked, etc. Pretty girl but the pain thing was a turn off. Thought if I did it once it would satisfy her. I was wrong. She wanted it every time and I was out.

    • because I wanted to have more experience in performance lol. but yes because with my ex we didn't do it that much. but this guys said he loves my bj and he feels crazy horny when I said he can cum in my mouth. But I don't know. Maybe I'm not appealing anymore. That's why I was only playing the friend card, but he came to my place last time this week and touch my boobs, so I was confused. But that day my mom was present in anotjer bedroom so I tjought he was behaving because of that. I don't know anymore. A few days after I sent him a sexy text but I didn't get a reply from him. We saw each other because I had to return some stuff to him and we acted like friends. So I was confused again and I asked why won't he have sex with me and he said I don't know, I'm weird sometimes but I tought we were going to leave it there and that everything was cool between us.

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  • He may of had something on his plate or just not in the mood.

    But if he rejects you another time or two , you know it's he is over you.

    • he has. but he is SOO weird. So why would he touch me if he is over me and won't have sex. Fucking weird!

    • well maybe all he could muster was to touch you then he realized he is not in the mood or whatever. Remember , I said if he continues to reject you then there's trouble. once or twice happens to everyone everywhere.

  • Maybe he had a better offer at the time?

    • Dunno, I asked him why and he said 'Idk why'

  • Maybe he's catching feelings for you. Or he's met someone and wants to make it work with them.

    • How do you know if he's catching feelings? I've been asking that here and no answer... The last suggestion I thought it too, but I asked him about why he won't have sex with me and he just say that he doesn't know why.

    • Did you copy and paste my answer? Lol

    • @SuitAndTie what? I don't know but my convo with him has started to be "what are we" "you only wants sex with me, don't u?" this is too much for me...

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  • Maybe he's catching feelings for you. Or he's met someone and wants to make it work with them.

    • he hasn't met anyone, because I have asked why and he said I dunno. How would I know if he is catching feelings? Out of the blue he starting avoiding texts. It was weird because once he said we should spent a weekend together and then he was off. And its been like that for almost 2 months.

  • He just doesn't want to

  • he might be in love

    • of who? me? but he didn't even wanted to go to the movies with me

    • Yeah he doesn't want to admit his feeling (if you look carefully I made a funny)

    • what funny. he says he doesn't know why.

  • he didn't find u attractive at all... ashamed on u

    • So why was he so turned on and horny the first time we went out? Like really he was insanely horny. We didn't had sex that time and I'm sure he had blue balls that day until the next day because he told me he really wanted to have sex with me.

  • Short answer his dick is dirty

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