With whom you are more comfortable while talking about sexual stuff, virgin person or non virgin person?

Question

My personal experience is virgins ask many stupid and irritating questions.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

A good example why virginity is a social construct.

a 20 yr old Virgin could be giving loads of oral sex, anal sex, have had a number of STD’s

a 20 yr old non Virgin might have had sex once at 16 with another 16 year old, but not oral sex then or since, no anal, no STD’s.

now who are people going to ask?

yeah try asking the non Virgin about sex, great idea loads of knowledge.

everyone has a voice about things, the non Virgin even if has not done anything, may work in a sexual health clinic, know shit loads on stuff.

KnowledgeAndfun · Accepted Answer

Maybe so but we all were that one at one time. Think of this. If your talking to a Virgin then you have the chance to make their first time many times better and less awkward than it would have been. You could make things be far better. More enjoyable. Less painful. And much more all for the total price of just passing on information tips personal experience or funny mistakes that you did or have heard of. With a non virgin the whole thing is all what y'all make it to be take it to or choose to include in the convo.

Dazed0N0Confused · Accepted Answer

If i have any questions, comments or concerns i talk to my mom. We are very close & she raised my brother & I in a sex positive household, so there was no need to hide things from her. I think I knew more about sex before my friends & classmates who were all having sex before i was.

Aimée__LJ · Accepted Answer

I'm comfortable talking to both, but yeah a lot of people ask weird stupid questions which make me feel like I'm 13 again.

"Do you masturbate?" "Do you like sex?" "How big are your boobs and butt?" Like what is this shit?

Red_Arrow · Answer

I have never considered the virginity of people I am talking to. I am usually comfortable speaking with people openly, but I suppose virgins could irritate with their questions.

ushagomez · Answer

I am comfortable with both.

iseekpinetrees · Answer

Both of them I am comfortable.

ohshee · Answer

It's going to be the first one that sends me a message it says hey I want to talk about sexual stuff with you

modeve · Answer

Correct that virgins ask irritating questions but actually their upbringing sometimes doesn't allow them to ask openly. Once they shed their hesitation, they want to know all about sex.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

i have no filter so i love all fun questions!

Dargil · Answer

I see no difference.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

I don't mind talking to virgins about sex stuff as long as they are over 18 and are comfortable with what we are talking about. I would probably be more relaxed talking to a non-virgin though, only because I would be less worried about making them uncomfortable

WonderWoman09 · Answer

Honestly speaking with a stranger virgin or non virgin as there is no fear of judgement so you can clarify all your doubts and share your thoughts

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

I don’t find virgins stupid or irritating and I don’t mind answering their questions but if I had a sexual question I would go to a non virgin friend.