Why is it once the guy cum and that it go limp and woman is not satisfied. At that moment what do you think the guy should do to make her orgasm
You might just need more stimulation to get you over the edge.
Some women can have difficulty, (I was going to say have a hard time) achieving an orgasm from just intercourse.
I had an ex that could only cum when she was on top, so when it was time, we would switch positions so she was on top and she would have a great orgasm which then it would set me off.
Others like using a vibrator during intercourse because it adds the extra stimulation they needed to get them over the edge.
Some liked to have their toes/feet sucked on/tickled while having sex, so they would put their ankles on my shoulders and then they could also hold a vibrator on themselves and it was pretty easy to tell how much they liked it when their eyes rolled back in their head, and they could not speak in complete sentences just kind of parts of words when they are about to cum.
More than one told me it made their orgasm even stronger as it stimulated more nerve endings.
Talk to him about it, let him know what your needs are, it isn't just all about him, there are at least 2 of you there.
If you don't let them know, they are only guessing, and most guys can be pretty clueless.
We think we are doing good, and all you are thinking about is when will he be done? If he doesn't care or blames you, then you might want to be with/find someone more open and understanding to your needs.
For me she cums first though 6th and by then I really have to.
Isn't that the whole point of bumping pee pees is to make sure your partner is satisfied?
Generally speaking, I have found that the better the sex is for your partner, the more often they will want to have sex with you, which is kind of the point of the whole act.0 0 0 0
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The majority of men cannot continue after an orgasm and need some amount of time (often 20-60 minutes or more) before they can go a second round. This is not something they can really control.
For that reason, you should not count on a guy to give you orgasm AFTER he cume, so you (and he) should focus on getting you to orgasm FIRST, possibly even before penetration. He should be giving you foreplay and plenty of oral and fingering prior to penetration, so that even if you don't cum during penetration (though all the foreplay will increase most women's likelihood of orgasming during foreplay), he should have gotten you there before penetration anyway.0 2 0 0
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If that happens, he can go back to oral, foreplay using his hands and other things to keep going. I have gotten off that way many times, from someone who really cares, just cause his dick goes limp doesn't mean his hands do too.
0 1 0 0Give her an orgasm you mean. I generally can't cum through penetration alone but it does get me going. I have trouble cumming so often I can only cum after my boyfriend cum inside me and I rub myself to orgasm
0 0 0 0Why do you have to rub yourself to the end and him not do it? I think that’s more meaningful and personal and sexy. I always want to do that for her!
@Mr1derful I just can't cum unless I do it. Same with vibrators,
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5 39Rarely happens but the few times it has he just went down on me so I could finish.
0 1 0 0I have always made a point of holding off my orgasm till she is satisfied. Problem averted.
0 0 0 0I make him hard again just to finish me off haha
0 4 0 0All depends on guys recovery. I can remember the actual name for it. Its longer for some than others.
@Mansearching If he can't get hard again in a couple minutes I don't want him lol Unless he can finish me before he cums lol
Very few guys can do that. Its all genetic
It happens far too often. Have the guy give you an orgasm first by going down on you
0 0 0 0I think the best way to prevent such a situation is that a guy should first make her cum and then have his orgasm.
0 0 0 0Because if a guy has cum he´s probably too tired to do anything that requires of him being patient and concentrate on her body rhythm.
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